■Author: Uncle Nanshan
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01, volume beginning.
About love at dusk, The famous writer of Northern Song in Ouyang Xiu wrote: "The moon rises to the willows, and people make an appointment after dusk." Yes, a person retired, and he should have entered a society and his children care about us at the age of age. At this time, we must know how to do our own duties, manage our retirement life well, and try to add less trouble to our children. When you have time, learn to live a pampering life, travel, go to senior citizens' college, etc., and it is best to arrange your old age life in an orderly manner. However, among these retired people, there are always some people who are lonely because they either divorce or lose their partners for one reason or that reason.
A person reaches the age of retirement, and his children have grown up and have their own age. At this time, we will inevitably live in loneliness. You can imagine that if you sit alone by the fire and nap, you can only use the sound of the TV to cover up your loneliness, turn on your phone, watch boring videos, and pass the time. Such days are just to make up the numbers, and there is no quality at all. Therefore, we must support the twilight love of retired people. However, when you reach such an age and go on a blind date with the opposite sex, you still have to know how to grasp your principles and standards. Only in this way can blind dates and even marriages be beautiful again. Otherwise, like Li Ruolan in the following text, although she is a professor, it still makes people feel a little ridiculous.
02, Li Ruolan is a professor, and her wife has been away for three years.
Li Ruolan is exactly 55 years old this year. The woman is over 55 years old and is at the age of retirement. As an associate professor, she could have continued to apply for a job until she was 60 years old, but Li Ruolan did not apply. She wanted to arrange the rest of her life. Because three years ago, her wife passed away, and her children also worked and lived abroad. Now Li Ruolan just wants to live her retirement life well.
So, as soon as she retired, she began to quietly enjoy her retirement life. Usually she would go out with her friends to drink tea, read books, listen to music, go for a walk in Zhou Biao's park, and exercise in the park. Sometimes, she would go out for a trip with a few friends in groups of three or five, enjoy the beautiful scenery of the motherland and enjoy this free and easy life. However, she still seems lonely and lonely when she lives alone.
03, after retirement, a kind-hearted person introduces the object.
After retirement, Li Ruolan lived a life of being alone. Gradually, she felt that life was a bit bland and boring. looked at the friends around me, and they were accompanied by their spouses and children, and as for me, my spouses passed away and my children were far away. It was really sad to be like this. At this time, a friend around you advised: "Ruolan, you should go on a blind date while you are not too old, and find a partner. At least, you should also find a friend of the opposite sex, and you should accompany and take care of him."
After listening to his friend's advice, Ruolan was a little moved. However, before a friend introduced her, she put forward five conditions for her blind date arrangements. She thought that as an associate professor, as long as she was willing to go on a blind date, there would definitely be many men coming to her blind date. However, she waited for several days, but no one agreed to come for a blind date. At this time, the friend who introduced Li Ruolan to Li Ruolan to reveal the secret: "You have put forward too many conditions, and men are probably afraid and dare not come." Under the advice of their friends, Li Ruolan finally agreed to lower the requirement to choose a partner.
04, a 57-year-old uncle went to a blind date, and the blind date was very strange.
Three days later, a friend called Li Ruolan and said that a divorced man was willing to meet Li Ruolan. After losing his partner, Li Ruolan had a private date with a man for the first time, and naturally she was a little excited.In order to test the man who came to the blind date, she specially arranged the blind date in a small pavilion on the top of Fengyue Mountain in Jiangcheng City. Next to this small pavilion, there is a big stone, and on this big stone, there are two inexplicable big characters: 号2 .
At three o'clock in the afternoon, a man in a suit came. The man reported himself to his home and said that his name was Zhang Tianming, but he was just a front-line worker who was about to retire. But I like to read and write, so I still want to contact and understand Li Ruolan, who is educated. When she heard the man say that he likes reading books and newspapers, she pointed to the word "子2" on the big stone and asked, " Are you just a worker, but you like reading? It seems that you are a knowledgeable person. Look at these two words on the big stone beside you, what does it mean? " After , Li Ruolan looked at Zhang Tianming with some disdain.
05, the meeting was very pleasant, and the female professor put forward three conditions.
Zhang Tianming found that Li Ruolan despised himself a little, so he smiled and said, " You are a professor, so you are naturally very knowledgeable. However, don't think I don't know what "Zhong Er" means. In fact, these two words are just small tricks of literati. Literature likes to play word games, and the word "Zhong Er" is the bone of the traditional Chinese character "Feng Yue". They deliberately removed the edges of the two words "Feng Yue". Therefore, worm Er actually means boundless."
Hearing that Zhang Tianming is so cultured, Li Ruolan immediately looked at Zhang Tianming with admiration. She felt that Zhang Tianming was clean and neat, and she was still a little bit of culture, so she could continue to date with the other party. So she said to Zhang Tianming: "I have a good impression of you, but I am an associate professor, because I have to ask three conditions for my blind date." After , she gave Zhang Tianming three conditions: the man must have a car and a house; the children cannot live with the man; the woman must manage the salary after marriage.
06, the uncle laughed after hearing this, and he told the woman a story.
After listening to the three conditions mentioned by Li Ruolan, Zhang Tianming couldn't help but smile at . He said: "Professor Li, let me tell you an interesting story first." Zhang Tianming said that in the 1970s, there was a couple who studied chemistry, both of whom had high education. After getting married, I had no children after several years. Later, I went to the Maternal and Child Health Hospital for examination, and after the examination, I found that the woman was still a virgin and had never had sex. When asked about the reason, it turned out that the highly educated couple thought that the sperm could fly around when they sleep together, so they didn't know the reason if they were not pregnant.
After listening to the story told by Zhang Tianming, Li Ruolan felt inexplicable. Seeing that Li Ruolan was not confused, Zhang Tianming shook his head and sighed, "Professor Li, you have retired, and you are already 55 years old. Do you think the retired women are just a flower? Since they are all in their fifties, if you want to live together, you must lower the conditions. To be tolerant, depend on each other, and be romantic is the king. You seem to have read books, but in fact you put material first. To be honest, although you understand the meaning of the word "子子", you are actually a woman who is not sympathetic. I can't stand you, so I'll say goodbye." After , Zhang Tianming turned around and walked down the mountain.
07, the female professor was puzzled, and the blind date failed.
Looking at Zhang Tianming's departure back, the female professor Li Ruolan was still puzzled. She didn't know what was wrong with the request she made, and Zhang Tianming seemed to be just an ordinary employee, but she had such high knowledge and principles in life. Does this society have a better explanation of life? Don’t everyone understand a marriage that is of a good match? I am an associate professor. Is it really that difficult to find a man with good conditions?
08, conclusion.
Friends, are the three requirements raised by retired professor Li Ruolan during a blind date? Does that so-called insight really make sense? What should Li Ruolan do if she really wants to date Zhang Tianming? Everyone is welcome to leave a message in the comment area to discuss. Thank you everyone.
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