When people were young, in order to maintain interpersonal relationships, they had to eat with friends and colleagues, so they would naturally eat and drink together. At the wine table, you will use the alcohol to say whatever you have. If there is something, it will be unheard of, and if there is something, it will be unavoidable.
After all, this is the wine party you choose to participate in. Maybe for you, you can use this wine shop to gain some benefits for yourself, and you have to participate. As the saying goes, "Where there are profits, there will be rivers and lakes." Some people may make things difficult for you and embarrass you, and force you to let go of your pride and deal with them.
If there is a wine party, it has no benefits and only bad things for you, so don’t participate. For example, in a gathering between classmates, there are too many people who will show off their strength and become dazzling people in the crowd. There is no need to participate in a wine party like this. Not only is it wasted time, but it also makes you feel angry.
So, when you meet these two kinds of people at the table, don’t go there in the future.
1, There are people who mock you on the table
Everyone has their own dignity to maintain. At the table, there is always a kind of person who is used to mocking others and praising yourself, making others think they are very powerful and everyone is flattering.
In fact, the behavior of stepping on high and holding on low will make the weak party lose their dignity, like a slap in their face. I used to attend a class reunion. When I was having a meal, I told others how much money I earn in a year. After showing off how much money I have, I started to ask another classmate about how much I earned a month. When the classmate said that his salary was more than 3,000, the people present laughed and mocked him for not making any progress over the years. He lost that he had good grades before, but now he is not inferior to others.
After hearing this, the classmate's face changed immediately and he left the seat.
Actually, gatherings between classmates is a happy thing. The friendship between classmates is rare. I have not seen each other for many years and I will miss you a little. But it is shameful and hateful to do things that hurt others and trample on others' dignity in the name of class reunions. This will turn a good party into a battlefield of gunpowder. Why bother? It will make everyone unhappy.
To put it another way, others mock you, what kind of mood do you feel? Everyone will get angry and angry, and their emotions will become irritable because of the other person's words. So, at the wine table, if you have the habit of making fun of ridicule others, don’t go there in the future. Going there is also a kind of harm, so why bother yourself?
2, people who love to speak big talk at the table
3 people don’t like to interact with people who speak big talk. The same is true for this sentence on the table. Especially at the drinking party between relatives, relatives can chat more about home-cooked meals, but some people will start talking big by talking about home-cooked conversations.
I have an uncle who remembered that during the Chinese New Year, I started talking about family matters, but something was wrong as I said later. He said, "How powerful is your son-in-law, you can earn millions a year."
In fact, we all know that what he said is too exaggerated, because after knowing what the other party has and how much money he can earn, he naturally has a skeptical attitude towards what he says. Just as a junior, just listen. If you say too much, it will make no sense. Saying some unrealistic big words will only distance yourself from your loved ones, and such people will easily lead people into a misunderstanding, that is, everyone's money is easy to make, and it is easy to make money.
But is it really that easy? I think everyone has self-knowledge.
So, if you meet these people who like to talk big, don’t go there. Once, don’t have a second time. Let’s talk to each other, the impact is your own mood.If you have this time, spend more time with your family and feel much happier.
