First met, Cai Qin is already a popular singer. The songs she sang from her have long been popular all over the streets and alleys.
And at that time, Yang Dechang was just a new director.
The two people have an intersection because of a movie.
is like most people’s love, from getting to having feelings, to determining a relationship.
Cai Qin fell into it, and her love for this "talented man" became deeper and deeper.
But Yang Dechang did not take the initiative to propose marriage, but Cai Qin took the initiative to propose: "Let's get married?"
Yang Dechang was stunned, but finally agreed to get married.
But when we got married, Yang Dechang made a request:
"We should maintain platonic communication, because our career needs to be developed, and we must focus more energy on our career."
Cai Qin loves him very much. Cai Qin will do whatever Yang Dechang says.
This persistence is a 10-year sexless marriage.
Tsai Qin willingly used her connections and resources to spare no effort to help Yang Dechang, fulfill his movie dream, and help him win one grand prize after another.
Poor Cai Qin, she has been sticking to the "sexless marriage" she has been holding on to for 10 years, but in the end she lost and lost completely.
Yang Dechang cheated on his marriage, and his target was a pianist who was more than teenager than him.
At that moment, Cai Qin only felt that somewhere in her heart was broken.
Her persistence, her fantasy, her idealism and romance all collapsed at that moment. A marriage like
is suffocating.
Yang Dechang's disguise and deception comes at the cost of Cai Qin's 10 years of youthful beauty.
In an intimate relationship, the other party does not love you, and it is obvious that it can be noticed.
The marriage farce between Yang Dechang and Cai Qin also reflects the truth of love.
Love requires both physiological and spiritual satisfaction. If you lack either, it cannot be considered true love.
What will happen to people who don’t love you?
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won't give you any response
In the process of your love, one day you suddenly find that the other party has become cold.
No matter how enthusiastic you are, all he responds to is indifference.
The closer you get, the more impatient he will be;
The more enthusiastic you are, the more indifferent he will be, and even escape.
You send him dozens of messages, and he just responded to you perfunctorily.
When you are with him, you can't see any emotional fluctuations in his eyes; all you have is indifference, perfunctory and impatient.
This reminds me of a line:
"If a person treats you like he doesn't care about you, then he really doesn't care about you, there is no exception."
If a person cares about you and loves you deeply, then his performance, expression, and efforts in you cannot be hidden.
And only those who don’t care about you are unwilling to respond to you.
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35 There are very little or almost no money for you
I thought of a case.
A girl had a fever in the middle of the night and vomited very badly. She was alone at home; she couldn't drive, and it was not convenient to take a taxi during that time.
The distance between her boyfriend and her is less than 10 kilometers away, and it is only 20 minutes from the beginning.
Then, she told her boyfriend that she was uncomfortable, but in fact she wanted her boyfriend to drive to pick her up to the hospital.
result, the boy just said without pain, "Do you still want me to go there?"
The girl was not too embarrassed to bother him, and said tactfully, "No need, it's too late."
result, the boy never replied again.
The next morning, the girl took a taxi to the hospital by herself. It was not until the afternoon of that day that the boy sent her a message: "Are you better?"
I was almost suffocating when I saw this case.
Is this boy's actions something a boyfriend should do?
I believe that most boys will rush over as soon as they learn that their girlfriend is sick and they are not busy yet, right? Not long after this incident happened, the boy took the initiative to break up with the girl.
girls had already expected it, and were surprisingly calm and accepted it all.
People who don’t love you are not willing to give for you at all.
Even if you put in 10 points of effort on him, he doesn’t even have half of your efforts he gives back to you.
Those who are too lazy to give for you and are unwilling to give for you have already been ready to leave you.
But, he is waiting for when will the opportunity to break up with you.
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There is no " Emotional Resonance "
The feeling is like: you are clearly in love, but you feel that you are the only one who insists on this relationship.
Live under the roof with the other party, and you still feel very lonely inside.
has nothing to say. Both of them are immersed in their own small world, unwilling to share with each other, and unwilling to communicate with each other.
Even if there is conflict, I feel dissatisfied with each other and lose my patience and energy to argue.
He doesn't care about what you do;
He doesn't understand your mood, nor does he want to understand it;
He doesn't care about it at all, whether you are sad or happy, surprised or lost.
He doesn't understand your emotions, and gradually, you are too lazy to pay attention to his spiritual world.
This relationship that cannot provide emotional value to the other party is in danger.
The other party doesn’t love you, you can notice it clearly.
However, none of you found a suitable opportunity to break up because no one wants to be this "bad guy".
When a lover loses emotional resonance, the relationship comes to an end.
Today's topic:
Can you feel it if the other party doesn't love you?
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