Let’s say that, women with husbands cannot take other men home. If you want to take other men home, you must divorce your husband. You can only choose 2 and not do those excessive things. But why do people say that the woman in the article takes a man home?
Shouldn’t it be wrong to take a man home? What the hell is going on? Why is this happening? Let's take a look at this matter together. A 57-year-old woman cried: I was not wrong with cheating for my family, but why did my child hit me?
Case story sharing person,
57-year-old Aunt Wu:
I just came back from the vegetable market outside and planned to make some soup for my husband, but as soon as I arrived at the door of my house, I was beaten up by someone and sprinkled the bones I bought. Before I asked what happened, those people left. The more I was like this, the more annoyed I was. Who did I offend whom I was doing nothing.
I want to call the police to deal with this matter. I didn’t provoke them and had no tricks, so why can’t I hit me? When I turned around and called up the surveillance camera, I realized who hit me. It turned out to be my son. Why do I say I must be my son? Woolen cloth? It was because the man ran outside and cried after he beat me. He took off his mask and he also took off his helmet when he was crying. Only then did I realize that he was my son.
I was wondering, he is my son, how could he find someone to hit me? I didn’t feel sorry for him. I think I am very good to my son. He actually said that I was very good to my son and the others, so why did my son find someone to hit me? Am I wrong? Why hit me?
He is my son. Even if I am wrong, my son cannot hit me because I am his mother. Without me, there would be nothing about him. Everything about him is given by me. Now that I am old, why should he hit me? Why should I treat me like this? At this moment, I received a call from my son, and my son told me that you remembered wrongly? If you dare to do this next time, I will hit you again.
I never thought my son would admit this matter so boldly, and my sister said, "Where did I provoke you, but your mother came, I treat you very well." You didn't say that you have been serious recently, "Where did I provoke you, but your mother came, I treat you very well. You didn't say that you respect me the most is me." Then why did you hit me? I didn't hit you, let alone say I'm sorry for you, I'm telling the truth.
But my son told me that you disappointed me too much. Although you didn’t feel sorry for me, you did something that was sorry for your father. Isn’t it? How did you treat your father’s father badly treat you? My father gave you everything, so I can say that when you need help the most, when you are in the most difficult time, it was my father who gave you everything before. My father didn’t believe you, but now you dislike your father.
did something that I was sorry for my father, right? Although you didn't tell me this, I know it. Now everyone knows this, and you don't know how embarrassing this matter is. You are so scared that I dare not look directly at it. If I hadn't thought that you were my mother, I would have ignored this matter for a long time. Now if I hit you, wouldn't I give you a chance? I hope you can correct your mistakes and don’t do this anymore.
Only then did I know what happened. My son saw that I didn’t say anything, and then told me not to do this again in the future. We are still a family. If you are still like this, don’t blame me. At that time, you can only blame yourself. If you really don’t want to be with your father, just tell me directly, I will take care of my father, and then you will do whatever you should do, and do whatever you want.
At that time, since you chose to be with your father, you should be responsible for your father. No matter what, you cannot do something that is sorry for him, otherwise I will not be able to bear it.Then you don’t blame me for being cruel. If you want to blame yourself. I have warned you before that I have given you many opportunities, but how you treated me, I ignored it again and again. Since this is the opportunity I gave you, don’t blame me for hitting you.
Why should I treat me like this? I once again refuted this question to my son. My son said you asked me, why don’t you ask yourself, you took the man home, do you think I don’t know? And it’s more than once or twice, it’s been many times. Now everyone knows this. You deserve to be beaten, but now you know how you beaten.
At this time, I realized why I was beaten by my son. Today I will tell you about this matter and everyone will give me some comments. Should I really be beaten in this matter? Why should I be beaten? I don’t think I am wrong.
My husband had a stroke and was paralyzed 8 years ago. Let me say more here: Don’t eat so much greasy things when you are old, especially fat meat. My husband has this kind of hobby and likes to eat fat meat. My husband says that fat meat is delicious and easy to drink. I just can't figure out what delicious these things are. No matter what I say, my husband often eats these things, and sometimes he can't sleep at night, and he will come out to make these things to eat.
What are the delicious things about these? Are you still tired of eating at the age of age? My husband told me what I had to get tired of. I used to be unable to afford it. Now that the conditions are good, why don’t I eat it if I can eat it? Eating too much is good for the body. I didn’t have to eat before. Now I’m going to eat now. If I don’t eat now, when will I eat it? I’ll wait until we can eat it in the future. I can’t eat it anymore. There are many such men, who like to eat these fat meats very much.
My husband is just a scumbag. People often eat these things, how many times have they said, and I told my husband that if you don’t pay attention to your health, you are not responsible for yourself, and you should also be responsible for me. To put it bluntly, if something happens, you will not be responsible for me. What will I do in the future? What should I do if something happens? Have you ever thought about these things? You are too selfish. My husband told me that this is not selfish, I am just responsible for myself, and if I like eating, don’t you give it to me?
If you love me, you should give it to me. What's wrong with me eating it? I didn't do anything bad. What's more important is that those things are not junk food, they are all some food. I don’t want to care about this after always quarrel with my husband because of such a thing. If he likes, eat it. Don’t blame me if something happens. My husband told me, don’t worry, I won’t blame you if something happens. Instead, I will thank you. You gave me the opportunity to make a mistake.
Because you gave me this food is my biggest wish. I couldn’t afford it before, but now I have money, so what’s wrong with me eating these things? If you are not afraid of ten thousand, just be afraid of if you are. My husband happened to the problem because of such a thing, and the heavy industry was paralyzed. Therefore, you must pay attention to your health when you get older.
You are not responsible for yourself, you should also be responsible for your wife, family and children. What should I do if I do something, just like my husband is now. Something happened to my husband, and he had no pension, so he had to ask me to take care of me for more than 1,000 yuan per month. I can’t afford to live my own life, but my husband can’t afford to support this family. Moreover, my husband goes to the hospital for examination every week, so where can he get so much money?
In order not to bother the children, I have secretly sold the valuable things in the house. The things in the house and the dowry I brought from my marriage were sold by me. I don’t know how much money I spent for this. Many people advised me not to pay it back, or asked me to give up my husband. Now this ending is entirely his own fault.
I know that my husband brought it to himself, but no matter what, he is my husband. I really can't bear it when facing this.In order to save my husband, I spent all the money in my family and borrowed a lot of money. I didn't know how to live in the future. If I asked my children for money, they would have crushed them to spend thousands of dollars a month.
My son thought it was good inside, but in fact the family was not good at all. In fact, I just didn't tell them. I didn't want them to worry about them, but I felt that there was nothing at home. The more I did this, the less I dared to tell them. I was afraid that if I told them, they would only worry them and would only make them helpless. What can they do if they knew? They wouldn't help much if they knew. My children earn tens of thousands of yuan a month, but their expenses are not enough.
Don’t say that my child is like this, other people’s children are the same, including your children. Your children are under a lot of pressure. In order not to let them get in trouble, I will find a way to solve it myself. No one knows how I survived these years, and the children are not very sensible. Sometimes they come back to help, but most of them rely on me alone. When I have no money, they don’t give it much.
Slowly, I didn’t want to ask them for money anymore. Asking them for money will only make things difficult for them, and it will only make me lose face. In this way, I was with others. That man was my first love. We met many years ago, and that man also liked me. He was in good condition.
After we were together, the man helped me take care of my husband. I don’t have to be so tired by myself, and he would also pay me money and he doesn’t dislike my husband. What’s more important is that he is willing to move to the house. I used to be unable to take care of me at all, but now with him, it will reduce half of my burden. More importantly, I don’t have to ask me when I need money. If my child wants money, it can reduce the burden on his children. And I can also consider myself for my own face. If I ask my child for money, they don’t know how to ask them, and they don’t want to ask them for it. They are under such great pressure.
That's why I decided to be with my first love. As long as he likes me, as long as I have a little relationship with him, then be together. It can be considered as being responsible for my husband and children. The two of us have solved all problems together, my husband's problem was solved, my child's problem was solved, and my own problem was solved, and there was no bad thing to kill one kill.
Then many people say bad things about me, and they all think that I suddenly feel that Xia Yan and some people even feel that they are corrupting their family traditions. Since they don’t want to be with their husbands, they should divorce their husbands and divorce their husbands. They do whatever they want. There is no need to treat their husbands like this. What I want to say is that sometimes some things are helpless.
Do you think I will do whatever I want? If I want to divorce, I will divorce. It’s not as long as I want. What if my husband divorces? What should I do if my child gets divorced? What should my family do? I have no choice, no choice. Why don’t they understand me when I understand them?
Especially my children, isn’t I doing this for them? If it weren't for them, would I be with that man? And is it easy for me to call myself grandma alone? It's not easy at all. I have worked hard for so many years now and there's finally someone to share the burden for me.
Why would they not understand me? If I hadn't been holding on to all this, my child would have been exhausted long ago. The expenses of several thousand yuan a month were so much money. I still owe a lot of money now. If my first love was not with me, I would never know how to live it in the future. They are still in the early stages, and I still think I was wrong. Was it really me wrong? If it weren't for me, the family would have collapsed long ago.Isn't it
? Although I took the man home and left the man to stay at home overnight and kept him at home, wasn’t I doing this for this family? If it weren't for this man, would my child be so good now?
Will my husband be taken care of? I also know that divorce can solve the problem, but how can I take care of my husband after divorce? Once divorced, who will take care of my husband? The man told me that I would divorce my husband and then he would marry me. But once divorced, what should I do with my husband? Will he still take care of my husband after I divorced? Will you still give me money to take care of my husband? Surely not. I did this for my husband, for this family, and for the children. I didn’t act as a choice, right?
Conclusion:
If it were me, I would do this, just say that, this is the best choice. Only after you have experienced it will you know the hard work. Isn’t it? You can’t take care of your husband alone, and if you get sick in the future, whoever stays with you will take care of you.
So it is best for you to do this. Although you are sorry for your husband, although you cheated, at least you did not give up on your husband, at least you did not divorce your husband. So you are doing this now for the ultimate move, for your own good, and responsible to everyone.
So you are not wrong. If it were me, I would do this, and only you know the pain. I hope everyone can understand you. Isn’t it? What do you think about this matter? Do you think this woman is wrong? Why is the only one who thinks he is not wrong? Anyway, I think this woman is not wrong. If it were me, I would do this, what if it were you?
