Many people yearn for love.
Some women, a relationship ends and will soon start the next one, but some women have been single for many years and have never started a relationship.
hasn't started with anyone, and I don't want to talk about it that way.
is really, than falling in love, I am more accustomed to living my own years alone, exercising well, reading more books, often going to some places to read, working hard to improve my career, and giving myself a good income.
In my impression, women should all yearn for love and want to get married. When some women are not, they will look a bit alternative.
Many people actually don’t understand this, and don’t understand why there are women like this, so unmoved by love. The phenomenon of
does seem to be somewhat not so ordinary, but if you think about it carefully, there is actually nothing wrong with it.
Too many fast food-style love, insincere people.
Even if you are not in love, a woman actually meets many men.
The love of the past, a pair of people, will be particularly sincere and serious.
At present, many people, when they first meet, can say something very ambiguous, and want to be able to determine the relationship quickly, they will start to touch each other, and can directly say that they want to get married or something.
is particularly disrespectful to people. He only wants to pursue speed and hopes that he can get something quickly. He has no sincerity at all.
When many men look like this, it makes people feel so frivolous and not trustworthy at all. Of course, women are not willing to get close to each other and have some stories with each other.
That is simply wasting your time and energy, causing trouble for yourself, and hindering your desire.
Women are not stupid nowadays. She knows very well that she is not as beautiful as a fairy, nor is she that irreplaceable. A person who gets close to him at a speed of ten times and can say that he likes him very much at once will never treat himself like this.
will also treat others like this. That love is never unique, but it is just mass production.
And the love she wants is certainly not like this. Over the years, she has seen too much and learned too much. If the other party is not sincere, she will even be too lazy to expose it, and will only choose to turn around directly.
Enjoy the present and don’t want to break the current life.
Women in this era can enjoy a good education and support themselves on their own.
Too many women, whether they are economic or ideological, are often very independent.
is independent enough and does not need to rely on anyone. She is also living a good life. In fact, she has been living like this for many years, and she is really doing well.
She eats alone, goes shopping alone, and makes all decisions alone, and doesn’t have to always consider who or cooperate with whom. She has long been used to such a life, and she really feels very enjoyable and comfortable, and is not willing to make any changes easily.
people are like this. Only if they are not satisfied with the present will they eagerly want to make changes so that everything can be different. Once they are satisfied, they will only want to keep doing this. It is best not to make any changes. Even if you want to have
, I hope it is positive and what I want, and things are developing in a better direction.
At this time, when it comes to love, everything is too uncontrollable. It is too difficult to meet someone who she really likes and wants to be together very much, so she really won’t be willing to let anyone enter her life casually.
It is not worth it for someone who doesn’t like much or is reluctant to do so. Even if she likes it, if this love is just very shallow, she will not try it easily, and she will still easily stop in the unknown.
I think love is troublesome and may not be reliable.
If you don’t fall in love, most women are free and easy and will look very energetic.
Once you fall in love, you have a true love and focus on the other person, but women will easily become worried about gains and losses. They often doubt whether the other person loves them or not, and they will always affect their emotions because of some small things.
can't let himself go, and he will never let him go. He will seem unreasonable and twisted.
She doesn't want her to become that way. She is really not so confident when she gets along with someone.
Even if she is willing to make herself look like that for the sake of a person, but now the breakup rate and divorce rate are so high, she will feel that the person she chooses may not let her down.
doesn't want to deal with such complex relationships, doesn't want to make yourself hysterical, and doesn't dare to tie your life together with someone. Think about it, every day, and all kinds of conflicts, it seems that it's better to be alone.
Nowadays, young people, whether men or women, are the same. They don’t like trouble, just hope to live a little easier.
Instead of losing yourself because of a love, making yourself less like yourself, living without being happy at all, you prefer to live as you want, so that you can always be emotionally stable and cheerful.
Why do some women don’t want to fall in love? Because she is alone and really lives a good life.
is not that I don’t desire love, but I have never met someone who makes her really want to be together.
is more in line with yourself, can treat yourself with sincerity and live a good life with yourself.
The current trend is really not very good. It takes luck to meet someone like that after all.
So, since you can't meet, just forget it, don't be with anyone, don't delay anyone's feelings, and don't consume yourself. Just keep your heart and continue to wait while loving yourself first.
Learn to be responsible for yourself and give yourself the kind of life you want.
First live the life in front of you, and as for the future, let’s talk about it later.
text/Tan Meng
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