Falling in love with someone who claims to be slow to warm up always feels like a layer of indifference and barrier.
But people who are slow to warm are usually very affectionate. If you walk into his heart, you will regard you as the whole of your life, fall in love with someone who is slow to warm and like you, and you will truly understand what a long and long love is.
But how do you distinguish whether he is slow to warm up or not when it comes to a really ambiguous period? I have something to talk about but don’t take the initiative... I hate him as a wood...
How to distinguish whether a person is slow to warm up or not like it?
I think there is nothing to distinguish.
To put it bluntly, it just doesn’t like it.
Think about it, if you are really moved by someone, may you still be slow to warm up? Maybe he has been waiting for his initiative all the time? Will he still behave like he wants to refuse and welcome him when he asks you?
Maybe, you will want to add his WeChat immediately, and you will want to search through his Zhihu , Moments, Weibo , and you will want to chat with him all day long, and even want to appear next to him immediately.
This is what you should be moved by and like someone.
To be honest, the so-called slow fever is actually a hooligan.
If you are just ordinary friends, it is indeed possible to slow down.
Because I didn’t know each other before, I was not familiar with each other, and I haven’t found more of the same interests and hobbies yet, so it is normal to slow down. After all, no one has to regard everyone who appears in their lives as good friends. Perhaps, you are just passers-by who meet by chance, and he is just a passerby on the friend list.
However, if you rise to the level of love, or even to the level of love, it itself means that you are already an exception in each other's lives. Since
is an exception, you should naturally pay special attention and you will be impatient to go deep into the other person's life. So why are you slow down?
Love is not a kind of hot frog, especially at the beginning, even if it is not hot and bubbled, it must be emitting heat.
You might as well think about it. If two people don’t even have an impulse when they are together, how can they prove that they are love?
Therefore, In the relationship between men and women, any "slow fever" is actually not loving enough, not unique enough, and there is still a way out and can be replaced.
In short, in my opinion, if the other party always ignores you and tells you shamelessly that he is a little "slow-heating", then let him go as far as he can! Facing you, his heart is a stone, or even a thousand-year-old piece of ice. Don’t end up, not only will he not be able to heat him up, but he will also frostbite yourself.
Facing those who don’t like you but rely on your love for him and say that you are slow to warm up, don’t think so much anymore, just say one sentence: Go slowly (get out of you), don’t give it away!
