"It's okay to fall in love, but you can't look too far!" This is my mother's advice to me when I was studying in Northeast China.
Is marrying far away equivalent to being unfilial? Is it true that people who have experienced it say this?
Xu Mei has been married from Guizhou to Shandong for more than ten years. She said that she went home in a few times, and many times she was trapped by the affairs of her husband's children. Although she often called her parents, she was who was willing to do anything big or small at home but not enough to do anything. Also, sometimes couples quarrel, and it is not easy for to go home... has other uncertain factors, such as epidemic prevention and control, which shatters the desire to go home. If possible, try not to marry far away.
Feng Dan has been married for eight or nine years, and he is a person from a nearby village. She said: I’m glad that I didn’t marry far away. It’s only a dozen minutes’ drive to get home from . If you want to go home every year, you can go home . How great. If you have any questions at home, you can come and help during the busy farming season. Not only can you meet at any time and anywhere in , but you can also give your parents a sense of security that you can rely on at any time .
Maybe, the two of them cannot represent everyone, but from it, it can be seen that marrying from afar seems a bit unfeasible. As for the question of filial piety or not, should depend on the individual situation. Parents all hope that their daughters will live a good life and be happy, and then consider themselves. Therefore, distance is not a problem. It’s just that while living your own life well, try to take into account the feelings of your parents.
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