Am I really that bad?
often meets some people, and when they are alone, their feelings for themselves are actually pretty good.
But when one day I fell in love with someone and was with the other person, the other person always likes to say that he is not good.
says that I am not good-looking, have a bad figure, and have a bad IQ. No matter what I say, I always have some words to belittle myself, as if I am really not very good and have many shortcomings.
get along with such people. If you hear too much like this, you will inevitably feel a little unhappy and doubt yourself.
For this, you can tell whether the other party is really dissatisfied with you or just like to speak like this.
If you have never paid attention to the way of speaking and just talk and play around, you can remind the other party and let the other party pay attention. It is best to make some changes. If the other party is really not very satisfied with you, then you'd better leave as soon as possible. The dissatisfaction with
will increase.
A person is dissatisfied with you. When you really like him, you will inevitably want to please him and make him satisfied with you.
In order to achieve this goal, you will be better for him. You will transform yourself according to your own requirements, change your dressing style, change your way of dealing with others, do the job that the other person likes, and live the same way the other person wants.
You may feel that as long as you do that, the other party’s attitude will change. In fact, some people are really dissatisfied with you when they are dissatisfied with you from the beginning. No matter how you change it, it will not be useful.
Although he chose you, he may not like you at all, and you are never the person he wants.
just doesn’t have a better choice, so he barely came to you. However, even if he fell in love with you, he still doesn’t want to treat you well. He still looks down on you very much. He can’t make himself fall in love with you and be attentive to you.
People who don’t like you at all. No matter how you change it, they can’t change their contempt for you and will never look at you directly.
has no choice, but the reality is like this. There will always be some inexplicable malice, and there will always be people who will not like you no matter what.
Instead of forcing it, it is better to recognize the truth from the beginning, be yourself calmly, and not to have to want the other person's love.
is always picky, you won’t be happy.
Love someone, as long as you think about him and often be able to look at him, you will often feel contented.
When you just fell in love with the other person, you are indeed very satisfied and happy.
But over time, you will actually long for the other person's love and hope that the other person will be good to you.
When the other party really treats you well, you respect each other and work together, you will feel very happy.
However, if the other party always treats you coldly, no matter what you say or do, you will only pick on all kinds of tricks. Over time, no matter how little you want at the beginning, you always look at him affectionately, and later you will only be unable to do it at all.
In the other party's indifference, it is always hit by various blows. Your eyes will become dimmer and dimmer, your life will become very bad, your mood will only become worse and worse, and there is no happiness at all.
At the same time, you will be unable to find yourself less and less, and you will lose yourself completely. In the days to come, you will never know how you should get along with each other. Times like
will be particularly aggrieved and very dark. Without the present and you will not see the future at all. You will even begin to doubt your life. It is obvious that this will never be what you want, and there is no need to endure such years at all.
You need to find one that is satisfied with you.
Perhaps, you are indeed more ordinary, with an average appearance, average family background, average ability, and average work.
Even so, you don’t have to underestimate yourself. You think that no one will love you like this. The other party is willing to be with you. Even if you derogate you in various ways, it is a gift.
Never think like this. No matter what you look like, you are worthy of being loved. On the truest appearance of yourself, you must keep working hard to make yourself better. At the same time, you must also choose your partner.
If a person obviously dislikes you and is very dissatisfied with you, it is best not to choose, just stay away from him.
has and is only a person. Even if you are not perfect and have many shortcomings, you don’t take it seriously at all. You still love you very much, treat you very well, accept the real you, and encourage you to be yourself. He should be your choice. People like
are good people and know how to be tolerant, and they are really liking the real you.
When he recognizes you very much and accepts you from the bottom of his heart, he will really give you peace and stability.
Only when you fall in love with him and live together will you feel more relaxed and not so tired. His acceptance of you will often make you feel good, make up for the gap in your heart, and give you a good healing.
What kind of person should I find in this life?
There has never been a standard answer to this question.
However, I am very dissatisfied with you and I am just disliked by all kinds of people. I really don’t recommend looking for them.
He will not become a good lover, nor will he give you a good marriage.
Marriage has never been so easy. He blames all kinds of things before marriage, but after marriage it will only become worse. A person will never start to treat you well just because you got married to him. He will only think that he thinks you are worth it.
There are so many people in the world, you could have had so many choices, be careful, don’t even insist on it even though you know it’s wrong.
selection is really important. If you feel satisfied, everything will be smoother.
text/Tan Meng
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