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saw a video online, which was a 41-year-old woman sharing her single life.

For her, there is actually no concern in the world, but she does not plan to get married and have children.

Because, in her opinion, a life that suits others may not necessarily suit you. Instead of forcing yourself, it is better to make yourself live a happier life.

After all, your life choices are ultimately done for you, not for others.

1. My Single Life

Speaking of ‘Why don’t you get married, for the solitary girl, she is just afraid of trouble. ’

In recent years, my friends around me have introduced many people to me, but none of them are suitable.

After all, I am already there, and I can meet many boys who have experienced the baptism of marriage.

Their realistic enough cannot satisfy the kind of love they want. Instead of settled, it is better to live by yourself.

For her, in addition to work, she is used to doing things she likes and has friends to accompany her.

Many people around her are not married like her. Although everyone has not achieved financial freedom, at least they have a certain amount of savings.

Therefore, marriage is actually no longer attractive to them. Compared to getting married, it is better to form a group to retire. At least there are familiar people around them.

Although many people cannot understand such a life, some people will even scold her. But for her, it was not something worth caring about.

2. What should you do if you don’t get married?

Every time you mention the topic of old age unmarried, there is another question that is often mentioned:

"If you don't get married now, when you get old and you can't move, who will take care of you?"

In the eyes of many people, the meaning of marriage is often this. We hope that someone can help take care of yourself.

But, in reality, how many people can take care of each other's feelings after their partner is sick?

Once I watched a short video recording a long time ago, the photographer went to a hospital randomly and entered a hospital corridor.

where the patients are taken care of, the parents of the patients, the mother of the patients, and the father of the patients, but the partners are basically the elderly.

When we were young, we could always find countless excuses to escape the responsibilities we had to bear. This is the true portrayal of the marriage of most people.

We never deny the existence of love. Because, some people really meet true love and work together for their whole lives, but that is just a few people.

3. Marriage does not mean happiness

Someone said: "It is no problem not to get married, but you have to accept, or even endure, the loneliness that lasts forever."

But, will people who are married definitely not be lonely? Perhaps, some people who have worn wedding dresses and have children are often more lonely.

This loneliness is not caused by the environment, but by the interaction and communication between people. It is commonly known as "wedding marriage".

You have a partner and enjoy the feeling of being nourished by love, but at the moment of getting married, you are instantly thrown into an ice cellar.

Because the other party never got married because he loved you, he just wanted to have a stable family, a full-time nanny, and a child of his own.

In other words, such people don’t care who they are married to, they only care whether the other party can play their role well.

This person can be you or not. And how torment would it be for the person who was forced to accept all this?

Indeed, marriage can make people happy.But what makes people happy is never the marriage itself, but the person you meet.

4. Whether to get married or not depends on yourself

Anything in the world will be a double-edged sword. You can make choices or not, and that is your freedom.

Because, no matter your parents, friends, relatives, teachers, classmates, colleagues and leaders, they all have their own lives.

You cannot be responsible for their lives, and they cannot bear the setbacks in your life for you.

Getting married or not depends entirely on yourself. If you feel that you are now happy enough, then you will live according to your ideas.

After all, life is only once, marriage is just a content that can be experienced, not a necessary item.

or above, I wish you a good dream and good night.