My ex-husband and I have a common secret. We have been divorced for ten years
Almost no one knows that we have divorced and we still live under the same roof. We divorced impulsively. The divorce agreement agreed that the house would belong to the child. We should not leave the child without a fixed place because my salary was low enough to pay the mortgage, so the child would belong to the ex-husband. After the divorce, I didn't want to spend money to rent a house and couldn't bear to leave the child. I was unwilling to leave the house just now. I didn't leave, and he didn't drive me away.
Before divorce, we often quarreled, and both physically and mentally exhausted. After divorce, we achieved unprecedented harmony and almost didn't argue much. After divorce, I completely ignored the daily expenses at home, so I positioned myself to live at home and help him watch the child, so that his child would have a mother actor, and he should thank me. The fixed pattern is gradually formed. He is responsible for buying vegetables, cooking, cleaning housework and taking care of his children's studies. If he complains, I will criticize him: Your child is your room, who will do these things? I will be a mother for free for your child. Don't expect me to work for you.
When he is sick, I will accompany him to the hospital, bring tea, water and feed medicine, and take care of him very thoughtfully. Sometimes I forget to bring lunch at work, and he will also prepare it to deliver it to the company, which makes it envious for the female colleagues in the company. We support each other in important occasions. He told relatives and friends that I am
How about my wife? It seems that the paper is fake!
said it was for the children to be together. In fact, I still have an emotion that I can't let go of him, and I am used to having him around me, and I don't plan to remarry.
does not have a marriage letter, which blurs the role of wife and husband at home.
has no such thing as marriage. We cannot ask for each other too much. If there are fewer requirements and fewer quarrels, we will just live a confused life!
Conclusion
Thanks to fans for sending me the real story. I hope that every couple in each family will understand and consider each other, support each other and work hard to make the life of a small family better and better. I can't accept this kind of relationship of not leaving home after divorce. If you divorce, you must set your own position! He is his father, but it has nothing to do with me. I can't live in memories all the time. I want to look forward, I want to be happy, I don't have time to remember those lost love, friendship and family. If you miss it, you miss it.
One day he suddenly brings a woman back, you will lose miserably. Since you don’t want to remarry, why not go out? The reason why he is willing to do this is just because he hasn't met what he thinks is better!
