Some parents will ask the man to pay a high bride price when marrying his daughter. They feel that the more bride price, the more important the man's family attaches importance to it, and the daughter will not be angry after marrying her.
Respect is mutual. If others respect you, you must respect others. Only when the whole family can be harmonious and beautiful.
Some people will say that daughters are so spoiled at home. But if you are married and be a wife and a mother, you have to take on the responsibility of the family. How can you still be like a child who never grows up?
Aunt Shao had nothing to do after retirement, so she worried about her son's marriage. Seeing that his peers had already started taking care of his grandson, I was also envious, so I urged my son to get married as soon as possible.
With the matchmaker's connection, the son finally fell in love with a partner. The two families have similar conditions, and the other party is also an only daughter, so he started talking about marriage.
Although I had bought a wedding house for my son, the woman said that if someone else has it, her daughter should also have it, and the bride price must not be missing, so she will follow the local average.
At that time, only talked about the dowry and did not talk about the dowry. Aunt Shao thought the other party had only one daughter, so how could he prepare a generous dowry for his daughter?
But who knew that the daughter-in-law not only did not bring the dowry, but also did not bring the dowry back. This made Aunt Shao very uncomfortable and she was very angry whenever she said it.
But my daughter-in-law is not a good person. Whatever Aunt Shao dares to say, she will directly retort, which makes Aunt Shao angry.
After a few rounds, Aunt Shao learned that her daughter-in-law was not easy to mess with, so she stopped fighting head-on and instead complained to her son. However, after marriage, my son became a wife slave, blindly protecting his wife.
Aunt Shao regretted it very much and urged her son to get married, but in the end she found a rival for herself.
On that day, Aunt Shao prepared the meal and waited for her son and daughter-in-law to eat together after she got off work. After dinner, my daughter-in-law felt a little tired, so she pushed the bowl forward, lay on the sofa behind her, and started to swipe her phone.
Aunt Shao felt very upset when she saw this situation. She had already cooked the meal, but her daughter-in-law pushed the bowl after the meal, waiting for her to clean up. People marry their daughter-in-law because they have grandsons, but they actually spend money to marry an ancestor.
Originally, Aunt Shao wanted to call her son and talk about her daughter-in-law, but her son also went to the house to play games. He didn't listen to anything he said, so he had to go back to the living room to clean up the mess.
Aunt Shao cleaned up the dishes and looked at her daughter-in-law who was as stable as Mount Tai on the sofa, rolling her eyes, muttering in her mouth, saying, "Is the same true for my daughter-in-law at her parents' home? She pushes the bowl after dinner?"
Unexpectedly, my daughter-in-law replied directly: Yes, this is how I am at my parents’ home. Do you want to be a nanny when you come to your house?
happens that my son came to the living room to drink water. He took a photo of this scene and posted it online, lamenting when the struggle between the two women will stop?
Netizen comments
Some netizens commented, who did you wash it before getting married? After getting married, someone will still be washed by him. If you can't stand it, you will live separately.
Some netizens also commented that I was hesitant when I was preparing to get married. Will I be called lazy after marriage? Do you want to live separately?
There are also netizens who commented that the mother-in-law has already cooked, so it is still OK for the daughter-in-law to wash the dishes.
Author's opinion
Housework is not the responsibility of a certain person. Everyone will do it just by sharing the points, and they will not be psychologically unbalanced because of who has worked or who has not worked.
Aunt Shao nagged, although there was something wrong with it, it was because her daughter-in-law was too lazy. Since the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along well, don’t force them to live together, it’s better to live separately.
The son is sandwiched between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and you must reconcile the conflict between the two people. Don’t act indirectly, thinking that the conflict will be resolved by yourself, but in fact, the contradictions accumulate more and more.
