Everyone is completely different, and there is no standard answer that can be used for everyone.
Everyone has different interests, so their views can often only be referenced, but not as a basis. The same event will have different influences and answers at different times. Different angles will lead to different views, and different participants will have different feelings and experiences.
What is important is the angle and logic of the generation of opinions. In other words, whether the answers to some questions are correct may have a big impact on our final actual judgment and decision-making. Our choices and judgments not only depend on the right or wrong of our views, but also on our understanding of objective factual laws and our own ability.
People must know their true selves. This is the first thing to do in the beginning of all things.
Some people ignore pros and cons, only talk about right and wrong, always compete with their own opinions, or whether they have gained recognition from everyone. What he needs is a sense of identity. As for whether it is recognized or not, he doesn't care whether there are any benefits.
Others think it is right or good, which is not really beneficial to us, and may be exactly the opposite of our own personality and value identification. A rational person actually doesn't care whether he is recognized, unless it is really necessary, unless it is beneficial. And this kind of trait is contrary to human nature.
In fact, our ideas will be more or less disturbed by other people or the external environment. Many things seem to be what we want to do, but in fact they are not. They are just others who want us to do it. This often makes us feel confused and confused in the process of achieving our goals, as if some things are not based on our original intention, or the methods used do not conform to our own value cognition or the entire society.
This not only makes us feel unsatisfied and unable to persist when doing things. Even if things are done, we will soon feel bored and empty. Because this is not what we really want to do.
Desire is real, but the goal may often be nothingness, or it may be just because of the external environment or the thoughts instilled by others.
If you simply obey desires, greed will only make people destructive. Therefore, people must believe in beautiful existence, constantly improve their cognitive understanding, and ask themselves: What do they really want, and what kind of person do they really want to be?
's choice of target will determine our direction. Everyone hopes to obtain as much material wealth as possible, but the real purpose may be to improve the quality of life, family happiness, or a sense of accomplishment. In everything, you must prioritize and prioritize your goals. Choose the goal you really want in your heart and make decisions around it.
goal is what we really need to achieve, and desire is often just a direct result on the surface. People must control their desires to inspire enthusiasm and motivation to pursue their true goals. In this way, the process of our pursuit will be more passionate and life will be more fulfilling. Of course, it is not ruled out that some people simply like more money.
Therefore, to do anything, first ask yourself: What do I really want? What am I really pursuing?
I am Gu Yue 13,000,
Wealth does not enter the urgent door, and blessings do not enter the wrong door.
The doctor can only be saved, but the Tao is in vain.
nectar does not moisten the rootless grass, and the wonderful method only saves those who are destined to be.
