My husband and I were in love freely at the beginning. We were together after graduating from college. In fact, when I was in college, I liked my husband. I think my husband is a very talented person. He sang very nicely. Every time the school held a singing competition, my husband would participate and basically win awards. So I began to like my husband. When I was in college, I felt a little inferior because I couldn’t dress up at that time. Later, I graduated from college. Then, I also became brave. Later I began to pursue my husband. In order to get my husband, I really worked hard. I often chat with my husband and cooked for my husband. Later, my husband was finally moved by me and then I was with me. My husband’s parents liked me very much, mainly because I was a sweet-mouthed person. Every time I went home with my husband, I would call my husband’s parents very sweetly. Later, with the support of my husband’s parents, I married my husband.
After my husband and I got married, I changed jobs. My job was sales. The sales job was too tiring. I was already married. I didn’t want to be so tired, so I went to work as a front desk. My husband had no objection. My husband worked as a project manager in a company. He earned more than 20,000 yuan a month, which was enough to support me.
After changing jobs, I became very idle. My husband was very busy at work and he didn’t have time to accompany me. Then I watched videos online. I saw people on the Internet saying that if a man loves a woman, he can take time to accompany women even if he is busy. If he can’t take time, he doesn’t love that woman enough. Later, I believed this, and then I kept making trouble with my husband. I always felt that my husband didn’t love me enough, so I didn’t have time to accompany me. At the beginning, my husband could tolerate me. After a long time, my husband became impatient. He felt that I was too unreasonable, so he didn’t let me go. When I made a fuss with him, he also made a fuss with me. Because of my husband like this, I became more determined that my husband didn’t love me anymore. Later, I divorced my husband. When I filed for divorce with my husband, my husband felt tired, and he agreed to divorce directly.
At the beginning, I thought I would live a good life after divorce. I felt that I was so beautiful, and there would definitely be many men pursuing me, but later I found that I was wrong. After the divorce, I had a few relationships, but I found that those men were very scheming and they would plot against me. I was cheated several times.
And after the divorce, no one gave me pocket money. I only earned more than 3,000 yuan a month, and I especially liked to buy clothes and cosmetics. That 3,000 yuan was not enough for me to spend. One of my boyfriends cheated me of tens of thousands of yuan. He asked me to help him with a loan. At that time, I was stupid and didn't know anything. I really helped him with a loan. Later, he disappeared, and then I had to pay back several thousand yuan a month. I really don't know what to do. I regretted divorce. I feel that after the divorce, I feel that I will lose all my hair after the divorce. If I can choose again, I will never divorce. After all, I realized that my ex-husband is really good to me. He is really a good man, but his heart has been hurt by me. He will not be with me.
Author's opinion:
Must cherish the person who is good to you, don't wait until you lose it before regretting it. It was too late to go back at that time. Many women are like this. They believe in the poisonous chicken soup on the Internet, and they always feel that their husbands are not good enough, and they always make trouble with their husbands. Later, they reach the point of divorce. They always think that they will live a better life after divorce, but after the real divorce, they find that this society is really cruel. Many men just say they love you, but they just want to fall in love with you, and they don't want to give you a home at all, and sometimes they will lie to you.
