Understand everything, be familiar with everything, and master everything, so what is the beauty and romance of feeling and experience?
In the love of the opposite sex, people's original intentions and expectations have never changed. From the beginning, there are stimulation and hazy marks, and until the end, there are still similar hopes and thoughts. It's just that there are few sincere statements and expressions between lovers, but the desire in the heart is the fact, the love in the heart is the truth, and nothing has changed. Everything is just a superficial adjustment. For example, familiar faces, figures that you are used to seeing, and encounters that you can recognize with your ears. Everything is too dull, and you will inevitably need a little freshness to act as the passion and enthusiasm of love.
At this moment, the mystery has value and meaning, allowing lovers who are deeply trapped in confusion and confusion to find the direction of obsession and re-appreciate and love, such as moderate communication, try not to let sharing become a burden and pressure; never stop growing, be proactive and proactive, and always find reasons and things to increase value; occasionally have a clear attitude of rejection, and you can refuse without any restrictions on certain things or issues, giving the other party a feeling of ruthlessness and coldness.
It is not easy to hold tightly and have happiness, which may be more charming and connotation, which will make the marriage between the opposite sex more exciting and vivid. Life lies in exercise, which is probably the reason.
When ordinary comes, when ordinary is in power, we should always do something to change the status quo in order to achieve better development and progress. For example, there is no longer any tear or boredom between love. No matter what happens or encounters, we can trust that we can be happy and at ease in the future. It is the seriousness and attentiveness of our efforts, and the concentration and obsession of our peers.
The wisdom of loving someone is to keep a sense of mystery and maintain a certain degree of measure and moderation.
In the love of the opposite sex, keeping the "mystery" will make the other party obsessed with and addicted
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moderate communication, leaving room for fantasy
Don't always rush to share and tell, what we need is measure and decent, moderation and perfection, rather than over-integrating and taking into account. There are always some things that belong to our warning line. For example, things that are more private, too personal preferences and dislikes, should be a bit awe and respect, and you should not spy too much, nor should you care too deeply.
Moderate communication will allow the relationship to develop smoothly and move forward in order. Leaving room for getting along will make the fate more dense and firm. Because of thoughts, love, and because of room for value.
It’s not that we forget where happiness comes from, but that we always remember that happiness should belong to our growth and efforts. When you are charming and valuable enough, your choice is very large, your happiness is in your own hands, and your happiness belongs to yourself, so all beauty is up to you and has nothing to do with others.
Mystery is not a mysterious state of getting along with each other, but a way to increase charm and feelings, pursue each other's impressions and cognition, and always trust and accept each other in the future, and promote the future state from the existing feelings.
A thread of longing, a touch of thought, a concern, and a fantasy, these are the motivation and joy to continue to accompany and wait.
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grows constantly, actively and proactively
is not jealousy or hatred, not envy and vanity, but is full of the subconscious mind of growth, willing to pursue higher level, and be able to realize your own value and meaning in your goals.
In the process of growing up, we know how to satisfy and be at ease, and we do not aim at others' recognition and appreciation, but we take our own steadfastness as the end point. We can actively grow and add value, be willing to actively change and adjust, and be responsible for life to the end. We do not need anyone's warmth and consideration, but we can also find the happiness and happiness of life.
steadily grows with time, never slacking off, can stick to everything that should be persisted in, is willing to deal with the details of getting along in a proper order, and give others some comfort and healing.
Such a positive state, growing towards the sun, will most likely attract the approach and companionship of the opposite sex. Even strangers will like and appreciate it. Therefore, it is best to live actively and proactively when we get along with each other for a long time. Don’t think that if the relationship is determined, it is a lifelong stability, and don’t think that the freeze of love is a lifetime of happiness. This world is never short of changes and ups and downs, nor is it short of competition and pressure.
The shortest way to want stable happiness is to learn to grow actively and actively seek personal charm and value. Without hesitation in the journey of life, you can always climb and chase, and be warm towards the sun.
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occasionally has a clear attitude of rejection
After establishing a love relationship or a frozen marriage identity, it is easy for lovers to become only intimate, but not distant. It seems that after being roasted on the fire, we can never escape and go around, but we still need a breathing and stretching free time, so that we can love and get along for a longer time, and happiness will last for a long time and result.
When getting along with each other becomes tired and bottlenecked, if lovers want the freshness of love, they might as well learn to occasionally refuse. It is best to be direct, it is best to be honest, and not to be tactful or detoured, just to express their dislike, not needing, not wanting to be too familiar with and participate, and maintain a certain unfamiliar state, and be calm and calm for others and yourself.
rejection of this matter can completely allow individuals to have a sense of value, presence, and sense of ownership in life. A clear rejection makes getting along more transparent and refreshing. Since love is the fact and getting along is the truth, it should be a common goal for a long time. Even if there are bumps and twists and turns along the way, we should learn to manage and maintain, modify and adjust, including more changes and transfers, and it is also feasible.
Happiness in the world is not a simple matter that can be achieved overnight, but a practice, a hard journey to reset the factors of life. The choice and companionship of this journey are solemn and serious, and it is worth each of us to choose and belong carefully.
Love, accompany, and wait, and in the end, you must learn to rise and fall in time and move happiness to higher goals.
