In a happy marriage, two people should be equal. There is no one who is lower than who is of the same level, and who must unconditionally obey each other's arrangements. But there are always some people who rely on their unreasonable confidence to ask others to fill their desires. Moreover, as parents, Uncle Qiang believes that they should not interfere with their children's marriage excessively, but they make suggestions, but they cannot make any decisions for them. After all, what they have to decide is the major events of their own marriage.
But some parents always refuse to listen to advice and insist on intervening in their children's marriage. Some parents even use various reasons to go on blind dates for their children. They are familiar with it because of their intervention that many suitable friends of the opposite sex are discouraged. What Uncle Qiang is most unacceptable is that some parents praise their children with one of their advantages, and they are blindly confident, and in the end they can only reap the consequences and ruin their children's happiness.
Every time I think of the hard days in the past, tears will appear in Aunt Zhang's eyes. Aunt Zhang's husband died for some reason, leaving Aunt Zhang and his son who had just entered junior high school. Although Aunt Zhang and his son were compensated, it could not make up for Aunt Zhang's pain of losing his husband. After taking care of her husband's funeral, Aunt Zhang refused the suggestion of remarrying by her family and insisted on raising the child alone. Although it’s easy to say, only Aunt Zhang understands the bitterness of this when she is really done.
Fortunately, Aunt Zhang's son is more capable and rarely makes her mother worry about her studies. She went from high school to college, and then to the later , , to the doctoral degree. After his son finished his doctorate, he stayed at school to teach. With his own efforts, he became one of the youngest associate professors in the school and obtained a house divided by the school. Aunt Zhang was naturally taken to the city by her son, which was a complete farewell to the hard days of the past.
However, Aunt Zhang was also a little worried when she was happy for her son. Because my son has been busy with studies and research over the years and has no time to take care of his emotional problems, his 36-year-old son has never even had a serious relationship. In fact, Aunt Zhang had long discovered that his son was also worried about his marriage, but he had no suitable marriage partner around him. Finally, under the guidance of his colleagues, Aunt Zhang's son embarked on a blind date.
At first, Aunt Zhang's son could participate in several blind dates, but as the work intensity increases and the experimental projects are busy, it is difficult to get out of the blind date again. Aunt Zhang took the initiative to stop the blind date for his son. The son was about to tell his mother about his spouse selection conditions, but Aunt Zhang interrupted directly: "You were born to me. I still don't understand your temperament. Don't worry, I will definitely find a satisfactory wife for you." In this way, Aunt Zhang embarked on the road of blind date for his son.
Aunt Zhang failed to find a suitable partner for her son during several blind dates. Until that day, Aunt Zhang's son received a call from the blind date organizer, and the other party came up and persuaded him to cancel the membership and was willing to refund half of his membership fee. The organizer's words confused Aunt Zhang's son. Only then did the organizer's personnel tell the truth. It turned out that when Aunt Zhang went on a blind date for her son, she asked the woman: "If we don't give a bride price, you have to get a dowry of 200,000, because my son is a doctoral student. This alone is enough for you to shine on your family."
After listening to the organizer's statement, Aunt Zhang's son completely understood. Afterwards, Aunt Zhang wanted to go on a blind date for his son, but was rejected by his son: "Mom, don't cause trouble. If you ask you to kiss me a few more times, it will be difficult for me to find a wife in my life. Look at what conditions you mentioned and let others get married. You can think of it." After being scolded by his son, Aunt Zhang said with a grievance: "Am I wrong? You are a doctoral student, and you will be very proud of your face if you are willing to marry them. If you give them a bride price, they will not go against the will of the world."
After hearing what his mother said, Aunt Zhang's son could only shake his head and said, "Mom, you can't interfere in my marriage in the future, otherwise don't blame me for contradicting you." After that, he left the house. Aunt Zhang stood there alone and didn't know what to do.
