Xiao Lan and Zhou Ming met at work. Zhou Ming was her direct leader and graduated from a prestigious university. She was promoted very quickly. At that time, she had an annual salary of 600,000 yuan, which was young and promising.
The company does not allow employees to fall in love. Fortunately, Xiaolan was about to resign, so her aunt opened a company and asked her to help.
After resigning, Xiaolan began to pursue Zhou Ming on his own initiative, and soon the two began to date.
Xiao Lan's family is well off and she is an only daughter. Her parents don't want her to marry far away. However, Zhou Ming said that he must stay here to develop. After all, his annual salary is 600,000 now, and he has to start from scratch if he changes the place.
After the two dated, Xiaolan took Zhou Ming home. Her parents liked him very much. Xiaolan's father especially admired Zhou Ming and felt that boys who came from childhood were more motivated.
dating for a year, and the relationship between the two became more and more stable. During National Day, Zhou Ming invited Xiaolan to his house, and Xiaolan agreed.
Zhou Ming family two brothers, the younger brother got married two years ago and still lives at home.
Zhou Ming's mother was very happy to see Xiaolan, so she turned around and went to the kitchen to cook a large table of dishes.
But when it was time to eat, Xiaolan felt something was wrong, because Zhou Ming's father kept shouting at his mother, not only waiting for her to serve the rice, but also asking her to take the sauce once in a while, but also asking her to pour wine. The bottle of wine was clearly at his hand.
Zhou Ming and his brother seemed to ignore this, and no one said a word.
After dinner, Zhou Ming's mother cleaned the dining table alone, and the others moved to the living room. Even Zhou Ming's sister-in-law sat on the side to browse her phone, and no one went to help.
Xiaolan found it incredible. At their house, they always do things together. When her mother cooks, her father will help.
Even if we go back to grandparents' house during the Chinese New Year, we will do it together. We never said that only one person cooks and cleans up. The atmosphere of
makes Xiaolan very uncomfortable. She grew up in a very loving family since she was a child. Seeing Zhou Ming's father treating his mother like this, she felt too cold and felt depressed.
Xiao Lan couldn't sit still, so she got up and ran to the kitchen to help Zhou Ming's mother, but Zhou Ming pulled her out, and Zhou's mother kept asking her to go to the living room for tea.
When it was dinner, Zhou Ming's mother wanted to prepare, so Xiaolan used the excuse to try the local snacks and told Zhou Ming that she wanted to go out to eat.
So the family came to the food street for dinner. However, even outside, Zhou Ming's father did not restrain himself at all and still called him to his mother.
And after Zhou Ming's mother gave him a bowl of soup, she suddenly cursed, "You want to burn me to death!"
Zhou Ming's mother apologized repeatedly, and hurriedly asked the waiter to bring a bowl to cool the soup for him. During this period, Zhou Ming and his younger brother ignored it, and his sister-in-law didn't raise their heads and kept burying their heads.
This meal made Xiaolan feel very uncomfortable. If he had known this, it would be better not to go out for a meal. He would have thrown his shame outside.
Early the next morning, Xiaolan ignored Zhou Ming's mother's enthusiastic attempt to keep her, bought a ticket and went home.
Originally, Zhou Ming and Xiaolan agreed that they would stay at home for a few days, have fun and then go back. Anyway, there are 7 days during the National Day holiday, but Xiaolan suddenly ran away.
What caught Zhou Ming even more off guard is still the thing, but Xiaolan directly broke up with him after he went back.
Zhou Ming disagreed and kept asking why, everything was fine.
Xiaolan told him everything he felt at his house. She felt that Zhou Ming could ignore his mother's experience today, and would he do this to his wife in the future?
Zhou Ming explained that he and his younger brother had stood up for his mother before, but his father scolded him and even took action. Over time, they stopped caring about it. Anyway, his mother got used to it.
Zhou Ming promised Xiaolan again that he would not be like his father in the future, and they would not go back to their hometown anyway.
Xiaolan felt that she couldn't believe it, because Zhou Ming grew up in such an environment, and it was very likely that he would repeat his father's mistakes. Although he had the chance to be completely opposite to his father, she did not dare to block this chance at all, after all, that would affect her for the rest of her life.
So no matter what Zhou Ming said, Xiaolan was determined to break up. After hearing what happened, Xiaolan's parents also supported her break up.
Seeing Xiaolan's firm attitude, Zhou Ming had no choice but to accept the breakup, after all, he still had to worry about his work and face.
Some people think Xiaolan is too rash. Even if Zhou Ming’s father is not good to his mother, Zhou Ming may not necessarily follow him.
However, it is difficult for a person to get rid of the influence of his original family. Zhou Ming has been watching his father's machismo since he was a child, and he will inevitably be subtly influenced by his father.
Even if he was good at the beginning, he would be nice to Xiaolan because of his good relationship. Over time, can he still be as good as ever?
Marriage is not maintained by temporary passion. A woman’s marriage is like a second reincarnation. Why bother to bet for the rest of her life?
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