In life, I will encounter some people or things more or less unexpectedly every day. How to solve and how to deal with them often test people's level.
masters the following four principles so that you can respond efficiently even when encountering emergencies.
01 Yoga is not reflected in the color
Many people have a straightforward personality in and are used to hang their joys and anger on their faces. They are full of anger when they encounter unpleasant things, and they are very happy when they encounter happy things and show off everywhere.
In fact, this true nature of joy and anger is most likely to suffer losses in society. In front of calm and calm people, if their emotions are not concealed and their trump card is exposed, they are easily controlled by others.
We can relax ourselves and feel freely, but we must separate occasions and depend on who we are. If you do whatever you want, it is not naive, but brainless.
Walking in society, no matter what happens, you must first control your emotions . Don’t show your emotions . Don’t show your emotions in your eyes, let alone make people see your true thoughts, so that you can win the initiative in dating.
02 Learn to adapt in everything
" Yijing " says: The two major winning weapons in the journey of life, one is progress and the other is turning.
Going forward requires unprecedented courage, while turning requires clear and clear wisdom.
Life is like walking, if the road ahead encounters obstacles, just take a detour.
The same is true for life. Many times we all need to have a turning mindset .
Only by not sticking to the rules and not being self-consistent can one adapt to the situation in an uncertain environment and quickly find strategies and methods to deal with it.
There are tens of millions of roads to success. When one road really cannot be done, maybe a different thinking problem can be solved.
Give up wisely than blindly persist. Only those who know how to adapt can stand out and succeed faster than others.
03 Only when you are calm when encountering things can you deal with all difficulties
"Every time you encounter things, you must deal with them calmly. If you are in a hurry, you may be wrong. What is the world wrong from your busy schedule." - Zeng Guofan
How calm is your heart and how deep is your blessing.
When troubles in life come to you like a tide, you will inevitably be at a loss and be upset. At this time, if you can't calm down, not only will it not be able to solve the problem, but it will make things worse.
When you don’t know how to act, the best action of is to hold on, and the best decision is not to make decisions.
Only when you face these calmly with peace of mind will you find that many problems are not as difficult as you imagine.
No matter what happens, just calm down and you will win.
04 The right mindset, the right world
Research shows that only 30% of a person’s success depends on his IQ and experience, while 70% comes from his own mentality. In other words, to a large extent, mentality will determine a person's success or failure.
When you have a positive attitude, your horizon will also become broader; when you have a negative attitude, your world will definitely be narrow.
Some people say: Life is a process of constantly encountering and losing.
Whether it is gain or loss, the ability to face them determines your lower limit, and faces them mentality determines your upper limit.
From small to grass and tree, to large as a person, a truly healthy mentality is to not be influenced by emotions or scared away by difficulties, so that all the beauty will come as scheduled.
People live in the world and everything is impossible.
If you are too big, you will have small things, and if you are too small, you will have big things. As long as you have the right mindset, the world is right.
