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" Taishang Response Chapter " writes: "There is no way to misfortune and good fortune, but only people call themselves; the rewards of good and evil are like shadows."
Everyone's subconscious mind is seeking profit and avoiding harm, but there are always some misfortunes that cannot be avoided, so they can only deal with it with it.
Therefore, in the journey of life, we must learn some ways to avoid disasters. We must change ourselves and the surrounding environment in an orderly manner before the accident comes, so that disasters can stay away from ourselves as soon as possible.
"Everything has knots and explanations": When bad luck comes, one can only turn luck with the following things.
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First, think calmly, follow the clues, and then prescribe the right medicine.
Many people are very angry when they are unlucky, thinking that people all over the world are bullying him, and even flowers and plants are laughing at him.
A person's emotions cannot be controlled and he will fall into the trap of "imperfection is the devil", and thus fall into the lowest point of life step by step.
There is a saying that there is no wind and no waves.
When we see the stormy waves , don’t go against the huge waves, but look for the “wind”. As long as you avoid the wind, you will avoid the waves.
Some fishermen need to look at the weather forecast before going to sea. Judging the approximate situation at sea based on the "level of wind", thus ensuring one's own safety. If you encounter wind, adjust the direction. Fahrenheit, headwind, and crosswind are different concepts and need to be treated differently and adapted to the times.
When we see the child crying , don’t scold the child, figure out why we cry. If the child is crying because he can't get candy, and you buy a candy and the problem will be solved; candy is more convincing than slapping.
handles other things, you can follow the above two examples, and so on.
People who are not calm are doing things to add fuel to the fire in their "bad luck". Therefore, calm down, see the ins and outs of things, prevent what can be prevented, and save what cannot be prevented in time, and things will change.
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Second, take the initiative to lower your head, move the camera, and leave the place of right and wrong as soon as possible.
In the tenth volume of "Erke Paiwen", there is a story: in the Song Dynasty, there was a rich man Mo Dalang in the area of Wuxing .
Mo Dalang's father Mo Weng was in his sixties and fell in love with his maid Shuanghe, who soon became pregnant. In order to avoid suspicion, the Mo family married Shuanghe to the local businessman Zhu San. Immediately afterwards, Shuanghe gave birth to her son Zhu Xiaosan.
When Mo Weng passed away, five local second-rate men encouraged Zhu San and took Zhu Xiaosan to the Mo family to compete for property. If the Mo family refuses, they will go to the government to file a complaint.
After Mo Dalang learned of the situation, he took the initiative to take Zhu Xiaosan to his home and promised to distribute his property. I don’t care about the second-rate scolding and ridicule and don’t respond to the second-rate swearing.
Obviously, when bad luck comes, a person will most likely meet villains. In my hometown, when the elderly encounter unlucky things, they will say, "I have committed a villain."
No matter who the other party is, it must be "the person who comes is not good" . Don't turn your back immediately, but look down and see what the situation is, and then decide what method to deal with it.
When the other party is entangled, you stay silent. You know, no one can curse at a "wall" for several days.
"Time will prove everything", it cannot be true, it cannot be true. When unlucky things become very transparent, you can easily get out of trouble.
After getting rid of bad luck, you keep a distance from villains, and from then on, similar bad luck has nothing to do with you.
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Third, gather strength, improve relationships, and win over the kind-hearted people around you.
When bad luck comes, many relatives and friends will leave, and they are all worried about bad luck.
As a party, how should you find the power you can rely on? There are great difficulties and many factors. But don’t be pessimistic, at least you have family around you.
The more unlucky you are, the more you need to communicate with your family. Everyone should work hard together. It is always much better than fighting alone. If you have always been kind, there will be kind people around you to help you.
For example, some kind elderly people often do good things after retirement, and help everyone and people older than themselves when buying groceries, shopping, and dancing square dance. When the old man can't walk by himself, the person he has helped will come to help him. Because everyone understands that this "old man" has no malicious intentions and will not blackmail others.
Establish a positive image and convey positive energy. The more you do these things, the greater the probability of meeting noble people in the future. A good interpersonal relationship, ultimately, is "you".
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Fourth, study hard, grow silently, and improve the ability to change destiny.
has an idiom called "The Fight of the Left Sheep". From the idioms, a story is derived: during the Warring States Period, yangjiao Ai , poor, but there were several piles of books in the house, and the bed was occupied by books.
One day, a man named Zuo Botao told him that Chu State is recruiting talents and can go and seek fame.
Yangjiao Ai and Zuo Botao walked together. Along the way, I lacked money and hunger, and encountered heavy snow. Every step is difficult.
Fortunately, with the help of Zuo Botao, Yangjiao Ai walked to Chu State and became a minister.
"Reading can cure foolishness", this is true.
When a person is in bad luck, he must insist on studying. Maybe you will be confused for a while what is the use of studying, but when opportunities come, you will use them.
Use wisdom to change destiny, this is the cheapest method and the most effective.
Many people are in a hurry to seek medical treatment. On the surface, it is very difficult, which leads to panic, but in fact it is lack of wisdom and lack of concentration.
Read, improve your cognition and improve your ability to turn the world, and bad luck will not be able to follow you all the time.
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Don’t worry, when bad luck comes, good luck is coming. We must believe in the principle that "good and misfortune depend on each other, and things will be reversed even if they are extreme."
Everyone is worried about bad luck and hopes to have good luck. However, no one knows which one will come first, accident or tomorrow. In the kind sunshine, dirty things also happen.
At any time, we must be on the sun and predict disasters, so as to be prepared for any trouble.
There is no bad luck in the world that cannot be escaped, only people who have been unlucky. It can be seen that improving one's own abilities, insisting on being kind, cherishing one's family, and one's destiny will soar. When
is running, it is basically about accumulating strength.
Author: Common people eat coarse food.
Follow my text and enter your heart.
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