The rest of your life will not last long, you are enough! Your sweet and flawless smile is the warmest sunshine and the best answer in my heart. At the age of 31, I suddenly realized the true meaning of life. Actually, I saw that the commercial street was very lively on Valentine

The rest of your life will not last long, you are enough! Your sweet and flawless smile is the warmest sunshine and the best answer in my heart.

At that time, I was 31 years old, and suddenly I realized the true meaning of life.

actually I saw the commercial streets that Valentine's Day night, and they were all couples, couples, watching movies and shopping together. How happy and warm it is to hug and hold hands, and I sighed very much.

Over the years, in order to make money, I have worked hard and worked hard, and I will do everything, just to change myself and my family situation.

However, I missed the best time to get married. Suddenly I felt that I was over 30 and it was time to get married.

Although I am not handsome, I know how to maintain my figure and will never eat staple food after seven o'clock, so even if I am over 30 years old, my figure is still similar to a young man.

Moreover, I still have a successful career, opened two clothing stores and self-media industries, have a house, a car, and a deposit, with a monthly income of 30,000+, so I still have some capital and confidence.

So I told my mom to introduce me to a few girls on a blind date.

In fact, my mother was very happy when she heard about this. She had long hoped that I could start a family and start a career, and hoped that I could add members to my family.

It’s a pity that I have been shirking before. I didn't wake up until now.

was also when I agreed and took the initiative to date the blind date. My mother was overjoyed and very happy. She arranged three different women for me, and I was not particularly satisfied with the previous two.

is the first one. The dowry cannot be less than 280,000 yuan. It requires a high appearance and a height of 183 yuan. It also requires a stable income of more than 40,000 yuan. It has a house and a car. I refused after hearing this.

Although I have these requirements, it means that her requirements are too realistic and are not suitable for my three views.

The second one is not to mention, it is average in appearance and a little fat. After divorce twice, she also asked for a high bride price and cared for her very well. What is even more excessive is to ask us to have children with her surname. She wrote her name on the house before marriage. She was very angry after hearing this and immediately threw the door away. It was too much.

until the third woman who went on a blind date later. Although she was a little older and similar to me, she looked and temperament well, and she was very good at dressing up. She couldn't tell at all that she was a woman in her 30s.

Moreover, this girl has a good figure, a handsome appearance, a gentle personality, and has no bad habits. The most important thing is that she requests a low bride price, which surprised me very much.

So I agreed to try dating her. I was together for about four months and felt pretty good. Under the urging of her parents, she also gained the recognition of my parents. So I talked about marriage with her.

However, what really surprised me was not that the woman married me easily, but that her temperament changed drastically after marriage.

At first I thought she was a gentle and virtuous woman, and I even praised her for her good personality and good temper.

Since less than half a year after marriage, her nature appeared and she found that her temper was particularly capricious. As long as she did not agree with her opinion or did not meet the material requirements, she would get angry and lose her temper.

In addition, she is particularly unscrupulous. Her usual style of dressing up makes me think she loves hygiene very much. When she was together, she occasionally took the initiative to clean up when she was together, thinking that she was embarrassed, but she basically didn't bother to clean after marriage.

Every time I finish my work, I have to come back to clean her, organize her housework, and even cook for her sometimes.

Occasionally she took the initiative to cook, but she just made something that made me difficult to swallow.

Since she said something to her that time, she has never been cooking or organizing housework again, which made me very disappointed.

What makes me most unacceptable is her biggest hobby. She said that she was a very sensible and well-behaved person in the past.

After getting married, she spent a lot of money and said that she loved playing mahjong, and who could not accept a woman who loved playing mahjong.

If I knew before marriage she was a woman who loved playing mahjong, then I would never marry her. As the saying goes: Nine out of ten bets will lose, and those who love to bet will not have a good ending.

and lost his nature, causing the family to fall into infinite collapse.

This is how she was. Once she quarreled with her. It was her fault. She taught her and thought she would repent. But she ignored me for a week and actually played mahjong with her best friend. I was very angry and had a big fight with her, but she didn't repent. In the end, she exaggerated so much that she didn't even care about her home.

In fact, he originally had a full position, but after his salary dropped, she simply resigned secretly and didn't tell me such a big thing.

After resigning, she simply went out to play mahjong often, and took most of the money I saved for her, and lost.

This made me extremely crashed. I thought she would save the money I had from her place, at least she had saved more than 200,000 yuan.

Results When I wanted to give my grandfather money to treat my illness that time, I personally asked her for money. She kept pushing and dragging it at the beginning, which was very strange. At first, I asked her for 80,000 yuan, but she said there was no money for the time being. Later, I repeatedly begged only 30,000 yuan.

She still disagreed and directly rejected me.

I wondered, I doubt if she was lying?

After repeated questioning, she accidentally told the truth. It turned out that she had been playing mahjong, but nine out of ten bets lost, and eventually lost all the money I asked her to save.

Then she didn't take so much money seriously and joked with me, "You are just an incompetent man, aren't you just a hundred thousand? What's so great about it?

I thought that when I spent tens of thousands of yuan to buy a bag, I didn't even blink. Since I was with you, I have been reluctant to buy a bag, and my clothes are all one or two hundred, and I have never been happy again. You have the nerve to say it.

Haha...Do you still want to divorce me? I'm speechless.

Haha...Don't you still want to divorce me? I'm really speechless.

Since I got married to you, I have spent too much for you. My mortgage is as much as 10,000 yuan for each car loan. I have to give your parents and your expenses every month. I have to make me collapsed by you.

As a result, she disliked me so much. At that moment, the anger and pain in my heart burst out instantly.

I decisively divorced her because if I don’t divorce her again, I will definitely be ruined by her.

So from that For a moment, I made up my mind to never interact with such a woman again. She is not worthy and she is not worthy.

At the end, I asked specifically, "Why did you dislike me so much?" I was eager to propose to me? Isn't it because you love me?

The sentence is the last sentence I tried to keep her. As a result, she said the truth and said that shocked me and was also extremely sad.

She said that the reason she chose to marry me was because she was once very sad and had a man." My friend broke up with a child many times, so he had no choice but to find an honest man to get married in a hurry.

and because she "didn't" the fertility rate many times, she was not respectful. This also understands why she firmly disagrees with the marriage examination at the beginning.

Now, I really regret it. She is with such a broken flower. No wonder she didn't live with me at the beginning.

The two have been together for more than two years, but I didn't realize that she has so many problems.

Her parents also wronged me and said it was my problem, which made her unable to get pregnant. When the truth was revealed, I suddenly realized that I regretted it at that moment. Finally, I decided to divorce her, and I also wisely played the recording to her parents and my parents in advance.

At the beginning, she was heavily in debt and reluctant to divorce, so she had nothing to do with her divorce. However, she felt ashamed of the evidence of the recording and agreed to divorce me. She also took a fewer points in her property, perhaps because she felt guilty.

However, just divorced, less than a few days later, this incident spread throughout my store, and many people inside knew about it, especially with a female employee.

She is also a female employee who I just applied for a job not long time.

Her name is Xiaoman, a girl with a very sweet appearance. Her family is down and lonely, but she is independent, diligent and filial, so I kept her.

However, after she knew that I was divorced that day, when she was walking with me, she actually confessed to me and said she wanted to be with me and be my girlfriend.

I was shocked and dared not agree.

Because..., because I just divorced, how can I be with her? Besides, she is seven years younger than me, so she politely declined her

. Xiaoman was stubborn and insisted on being with me. She said sadly: If you don’t like me, how could you be so kind to me at the beginning?

You have taken good care of me since I first met and helped me, and paid to lend it to my family. Don’t you like me?

I... just think you are kind and easy-going.

But when you treat me well, from that moment on, I swear to marry you and be with you. Only in you can I find a trace of warmth.

This world is too sad and I don’t like it. It was not until I met you that I realized how beautiful love is.

I realized that this sad world has a heartwarming side. Can I promise me? The sentence

embarrassed me.

My kindness to Xiaoman is because of my kindness, and I also saw me who had just come out to work in her.

I used to be ridiculed by others and suffered people, so seeing her is like seeing myself. Helping her is also for herself and for the kindness that I can’t bear.

And Xiaoman actually remembered it in her heart, thinking that I loved her, thinking that I was kind to her because I liked her, but she was actually wrong.

I politely declined her, but she was a little disappointed, but said she didn't regret it.

She said that since she was divorced, she would celebrate and celebrate her escape from the sea of ​​suffering.

I was in a bad mood at that time. Under his and her comfort, I also found a place with Xiaoman.

used to drink, chat and tell...

Indeed, at this time, no one knew how I felt, only Xiaoman knew my pain.

Xiaoman has known me for several months. She knows my personality and knows the reason for my inner collapse, so she drinks and chats with me. Then I sent her home.

However, an accident happened. After being drunk, I really regretted it.

I was very embarrassed at that moment and felt sorry for her.

I don’t know what to do, but she said warmly: “I’m willing to do all this, I love you. So I don’t care, I just want to be your girlfriend, I hope you don’t dislike me, okay?

I saw that she was so persistent, and I felt extremely guilty at this moment, so I had to agree.

But there are three rules, this matter cannot be made public to the world and cannot be let others know.

After all, I have just divorced less than half a month, how can I let others know?

If my parents and ex-wife's parents knew, they thought I was intentional and thought I fell in love with someone else, so they divorced.

So I have always concealed this matter and did not let anyone know that what should be done and what should be done will be the same.

When I finished talking about this unfair treaty, Xiaoman actually... actually agreed, which surprised me very much. Maybe this is her persistence in truly loving me!

She is indeed a good girl, neither competing nor robbing, nor arrogant or impatient. This is also the reason why I really respect her.

This is a good girl! Even I couldn't help but sigh: How great would it be if the woman who had been on a blind date and got married for the first time!

Then I will not divorce again, and I will not become a lonely person.

Fortunately, she is with Xiaoman. She is a very understanding girl. She knows that it is not easy for me. She often washes and cooks me, takes good care of me, and is warmly accompanied me.

This made me very relieved. It turned out that losing that regretful feeling can be found in Xiaoman.

's slight comfort, but I sighed very much. She really suffered a lot of grievances and was secretly with me without asking for status. What a pattern.

I thought she wouldn't mind that part of the world, I thought she didn't care, but that night when I woke up in a daze.

found that Xiaoman was not by my side. When I was looking for it, I unexpectedly found that she was telling her parents everything on the balcony.

I vaguely heard what she said to her parents: Mom, actually I don’t want this either. She also has troubles, and I don’t mind. After all, being with her is my greatest blessing.

I can’t repay his kindness to me and your kindness. Sooner or later, she will understand my suffering.

And Xiaoman's parents said on the other side of the phone: Child, you are too stupid. Maybe he just used you. Maybe he might not really love you. He just treats you as a lover of his confidant, you are too stupid.

After saying that, Xiaoman said angrily: "No, no, no... I love him, I won't think so. He is the good man in my heart.

After she said that, she hung up the phone sadly. At that moment, she turned around and saw her face full of tears, which looked aggrieved.

I was moved by her, and she is still thinking about me. She held my hand sadly and said, "Brother Fan, you have heard it all.

Well... It was not until now that I realized that because of me, you have suffered so much grievances, and you have persisted in speaking for me in front of your parents. Thank you.

Brother Fan, I like you, I don’t care about my status, as long as you are by my side, you will be satisfied.

That moment I realized that I was wrong and I shouldn't hide it.

Later I thought of a solution. When Xiaoman's birthday was on, it was just Valentine's Day. I prepared a grand banquet for her, which was a banquet for me and her.

I prepared candlelight dinner for her, colorful lights, romantic music, and even prepared sweet durian layer cake for her.

At that moment, she saw the romantic atmosphere in the room and burst into tears.

It was the most romantic atmosphere at this moment. When I knelt on one knee, she burst into tears and shed tears of happiness.

immediately covered her mouth and she was moved to tears. I held her hand gently and said, "Yu Xiaoman, I know the suffering you suffered for me. I only wish that you belong to me in this life. The future will be too long and too long. I know to find a person who loves what I love and wait for me. If you don't regret it in this life, I am willing to marry you, marry you, the good girl who has been waiting for me for me. If you wish, I blinked and nodded, just one promise.

She showed a gratified smile at that moment, and shed tears of happiness and said to me: "As long as you don't dislike me and my family, then I am willing to give everything for you, even if youth is not there, I don't care. As long as you are by my side for the rest of your life, I will be content.

Seeing that she agreed, I slowly stood up and hugged the girl who loved me in front of me affectionately.

Only then did I realize that finding a woman who loves me is really important.

Life is so long. Instead of being with someone who doesn’t love you, it’s better to find a woman who is truly willing to share the joys and sorrows with you and share happiness.

She can tolerate everything about you and she can give her youth for you.

Life is just a few decades, and happiness is the most important thing, so you must find someone who truly loves you, so that you can share happiness with the person you love the most. Do you agree with it?