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Love is different from many things. If you work hard in your studies, you will definitely have results. If you work hard in your dreams, you will definitely reach the direction you want.
But love is not like this. If that person doesn’t love you, no matter how long you work hard, he will never love you. No matter how much persistence you persist, contact you more, and take the initiative you take, it will be a kind of disturbance, a burden, and a kind of disgust for others.
Love the right person, and good love is to go to two directions; if the person you love is wrong, your existence is a kind of pressure for him.
People's hearts cannot stand the consideration, and love cannot stand the scrutiny. Those who say they want to love you all the time, maybe they will leave halfway through love.
So don’t take a man too seriously and don’t be too self-righteous, he will love you only one person for the rest of his life.
Women who believe that men only love themselves end up experiencing all the bitter tears in love.
When you pour too much emotion and time into that person, when you are trapped in that person and cannot get out of it, your efforts in the relationship are often in vain.
Your temptation and persistence, the kind of entanglement that you want to know the answer but cannot get the answer; the kind of hesitation that you want to know the result but dare not face the result, will eventually trap you in the same place.
You can only cry silently until dawn in the middle of the night. When the thoughts cannot be held back, you can only be forced to sink in the thoughts.
You also want to get responsive feelings, and you also want to get feedback interactions. Unfortunately, the person who doesn’t love you really can’t give you such feelings.
When you start to slowly accept the facts of his feelings for you, your life will gradually get better.
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The first thing you do to fall in love with the person who doesn’t love you is to learn to accept reality.
You have to accept the fact that he once loved you, and you have to accept him, and now you no longer love you.
Everyone wants to seek a satisfactory result in love, especially when facing the person they love, they do not want to give up, nor do they want to choose to let go.
always feel that I work harder, always feel that I will persevere a little more, and that he will change his mind and fall in love with you again.
But the person who lets go of your hand will no longer easily hold your hand, because when facing this relationship, he has his own decision, his own plans, and a new direction he wants to go.
Don’t waste time and energy on people who don’t love you. This is a kind of self-consuming and a kind of self-torture. When he cannot give you emotional feedback, you may become completely resentful of him because of loving him.
It is not your fault that you fall in love with him. He no longer falls in love with you. It is not his fault that he wants to love others. When a relationship reaches the end, everyone must make new choices.
When you accept the fact that he has not loved you, you will not be immersed in the sweetness of the past love, and when you wake up from the beautiful dream of love in the past, you will see the true appearance of the relationship.
Women learn to accept reality in their relationships, and it is easier for them to let go of their feelings and love for them, love themselves well, which is better than anything else.
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The person I loved when I was young always thought that it was a lifelong promise, an act that he would never leave.
But when you want to forget a man’s love for you, you must also forget that he has been kind to you.
Only by experiencing more in love can you understand what true love is and what true letting go.
Don’t put too much time and energy into the wrong person. Don’t hold the wrong person tightly in your hand and don’t let go. If you want to let go of someone who doesn’t love you, you have to learn to forget.
Sometimes love is a person's business. No matter whether you love him or not, love forever is your business, because others have no way to know.
Someone said: "Love is a person's romance in time. He is rolling in the world. He would rather endure loneliness than forget the deep affection you once gave me."
When you don't take your feelings seriously, others will not cherish your feelings.
You must learn to be alone, slowly return to your own life, and learn to enjoy your own life, only yourself.
If someone loves you, you should fall in love with him. If no one loves you, you should love yourself.
When one day, you meet the person who loves you deeply, you will feel that the love you once had for yourself is worth it.
Don’t blame him for leaving. When he doesn’t love you, it is also when he has to leave you.
The book says: "There were so many beauty, but now it has become the deepest nostalgia. Only after crying can I know what heartache feels; only after being stupid can I know how persistence and giving up at the right time; only after loving can I know that I can't let go."
But this time, I am really going to give up on you. It's not a moment of impulse, nor a moment of warmth in my mind.
When I know you will not love me again, I also decided not to continue loving you. I want to take back all my feelings for you. Let me walk slowly in the future.
In the wilderness of time, it is a blessing to be able to meet you and fall in love with you. In the end, I have to say goodbye to my destiny.
The love for you will be remembered in the passing years and engraved in the depths of time.
The best way to let go of a person. If you do these two things, you will win: when you can accept the fact that he does not love you, you will be able to come out quickly in this relationship; when you learn to forget all his goodness to you, you will no longer resent him, because he really doesn't love you anymore.
said online: "Many harms are disposable. Perhaps because of your permission and your obsession, it is like a saw, constantly pulling in your heart. And the person who holds the saw and does not put it is actually you."
deeply agrees. After
, it is enough to walk your life well, even if you are alone.
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