Author: Yiduan
Picture: From the Internet
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Love is the basis and premise of marriage. Before entering marriage, men and women will conduct strict screening. Whether the three views are consistent, whether the original family is suitable, whether their external images match each other, etc. are all things that men and women need to consider.
Marriage is a very complicated matter, which involves all aspects of the problem. If you don’t think about it, it may lead to the breakdown of a marriage. Let’s put aside post-marriage business, in this article today, we will mainly talk about pre-marriage love and engagement.
The preparations before marriage are nothing more than four major issues: wedding house, wedding car, dowry, and dowry. The first three are basically provided by the man, while the latter has no rigid regulations. Some women only bring a few quilts as dowry, while some women bring dowry far higher than the gifts given by the man.
In fact, these four items are just for a festive look. If you talk about marriage, you put the cart before the horse and no longer pay attention to the relationship between the two sexes, but take money too seriously. You fight for tens of thousands of yuan and neither party can come to Taiwan. Even if you finally reach a reconciliation, there will be no happiness in this marriage.
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"We have been dating for more than a month, and I am quite satisfied with you. You can see that you have fallen in love with me deeply, I agree with your proposal. We are not young anymore, so we quickly settle the marriage. However, I have two requirements, buy a suite for my parents, and give my brother a car. Unless both requirements are met, don't want me to marry you!"
The blind date partner Xiao Mo's words made Qinglin unable to recover for a long time. A month ago, after being introduced by a relative, he met Xiao Mo, who was unmarried at the same age as him. For Qinglin, who has celebrated his 33rd birthday, love has become a luxury word. He just wants to find a woman who can be chatted with, live together for the rest of his life, and be a companion to each other.
A older single woman Momo is 2 years older than Qinglin. She is different from Qinglin. She does not hate marrying, and even takes pride in being single, and seeks greater benefits for her family through her single status. In today's society, there are more men and fewer women. Many women always want to take this opportunity to use marriage to maximize their personal value. Xiao Mo is one of them. Before dating, Qinglin didn't know Xiao Mo's true intentions. He simply thought that Xiao Mo was talking about marriage with a sincere attitude like himself. In fact, when Xiao Mo met for the first time, she did create many illusions for Qinglin. She said that she did not value men's material conditions and only cared about her feelings. During the dating period, I never mentioned houses and cars related matters to Qinglin. Every time she dates, Xiao Mo would choose a cheap restaurant. When she went shopping in the mall, she always refused to say that she had nothing to lack and would not let Qinglin pay for her. Xiao Mo's behavior made Qinglin willing to pay for it.
Qinglin firmly believed that he had met a good woman, and he secretly vowed to marry this good woman into the house. But she never thought that Xiao Mo, who always claimed not to value material things, actually made the request to buy a house for her parents and a car for her younger brother, which really scared Qinglin.
It was not until this time that Qinglin realized that the older single woman Xiao Mo was carefully setting up a plan before. She deliberately pretended to be unworldly, which was guiding Qinglin to be moved by her step by step. Now, seeing that it is quite effective, she simply stops pretending.
Qinglin has always been a big-handed man. After looking through the bill, he realized that after more than a month of dating, Xiao Mo refused to give him a gift every time, but he took him to the mall for a date many times. In fact, he had already spent 30,000 to 40,000 yuan for Xiao Mo. Qing Lin only felt that he was a "slaughter".
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"Only two requirements? The two requirements you easily say will make me bear decades of debt! I admit that I like you, but what I like is your careful disguise. To be honest, you are like money now, and I feel really disgusted!"
Qinglin also didn't care about his image. He really couldn't continue talking to the older left-handed woman in front of him who was doing a transaction with a marriage.
It turns out that the reason why Xiao Mo did not mention the wedding house, wedding car, and gift money was because she had already inquired about the basic situation of Qinglin's family from the introducer. Qinglin has a full-payment house and a car, so she doesn't need to mention it anymore. I have to say that Xiao Mo is really good at calculating and understands men's little thoughts very well.
Combined with various words and deeds, Qinglin became more and more angry the more he thought about it. He thought that he would part with each other and be happy, but he was really unwilling to accept it. So he asked the older leftover girl Xiao Mo to ask for valuable red envelopes, clothes, bags, cosmetics and other gifts he had given before.
However, Xiao Mo did not want to return it, and he also took out the latest laws and regulations to explain the matter. She did not need to return the gift she gave, and she looked quite wise. Faced with Xiao Mo's sarcastic appearance, Qinglin was both angry and helpless. At this moment, he was empty of both his people and wealth, and I wonder what to do?
treat marriage as a transaction, which completely goes against the original intention of love. The man reluctantly nodded and agreed. Can the two of them be happy after marriage? People’s ambitions will only continue to increase. After being met, women will immediately put forward more and higher requirements. Can men still withstand it?
Men are not stupid either. They will always notice it when they are plotted against. Here, I would like to remind all women that the prerequisite for getting married must be true feelings. As for material conditions, they can only be auxiliary factors, wedding houses and cars. These requirements can be made, but the requirement of letting men deliver cars to their mother's family is really too much.
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If you are Qinglin, will you agree with the two requirements of Xiao Mo, the blind date partner, to buy a house and give a car?
Do you have any good suggestions for Qinglin’s help?
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