: "The world is not lack of beauty but lack of discovery." Really, many times, we have a bad and unhappy life, often because of lack of discovery and praise.
Find out the strengths of others more, praise others more, complain less and picky, and then your life will be wider and wider, and you will live more easily or smoothly, so that you can live a happy life.
In fact, in life, everyone is eager to be recognized by people around them, eager for praise and encouragement from others. The real masters are well versed, even if the other person has "a scar", they can often cleverly deal with it. The other party praises it as "a flower", which makes the other party happy, willing to communicate with themselves, and willing to work for themselves. This is also their way of doing things.
In daily life, there will be some people who talk about the shortcomings and faults of others, eloquently and eloquently, even in front of others, they will unscrupulously criticize and blame others. But they often turn a blind eye to the strengths and strengths of others, and are even less willing to encourage and praise others. They have a mentality of seeing themselves as "a flower" and seeing others as "bull shit". People like
often don't want to associate with them. Such people are usually mean people. Get along with it, lifeless, let alone have any sense of humor and joy! With them, I often feel depressed and uncomfortable. Therefore, others are often unwilling to get along with them, and even less willing to work with them. In the end, it is yourself that suffers in the end.
says that character determines fate, which makes sense. Society is made up of all kinds of people, with different thoughts, personalities, hobbies and living habits. Some people are enthusiastic and cheerful, some are quiet, restrained, and steady, some are impatient, and some are narrow-minded.
But no matter what kind of person they are, they like to be recognized and appreciated. From the ancients to the three-year-old children, they have a strong desire deep in their hearts, that is, self-esteem, that is, to get the attention and praise of others. This is a fact that human nature dictates and no one can change it.
In our daily work and life, we must pay attention: we cannot be complacent and look down on others just because we do more work than others, or because we have a higher level of ability. We must be good at discovering the strengths and strengths of others, and give more recognition and praise to the work of others.
not only shows his imaginary demeanor, it is also conducive to unity, and it will also be of great help to his growth and progress. Of course, you should also seek truth from facts and praise appropriately, and you can't ignore the facts or exaggerate too much. "Everything has a degree, and if you go too far, you can't go too far." It will often backfire.
Therefore, when getting along with others, you must look at each other's strengths and strengths. Even if you don’t like people, don’t have personal stereotypes and opinions. Whether dealing with colleagues, friends, relatives, or strangers meeting by the water, we must discover their strengths more, praise their strengths more, complain and criticize less, and your life path will become wider and wider!
