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When you get along with people, if you always act like a lofty attitude and never think from the perspective of others, it will bring hidden dangers to your life.
In order to find a sense of existence, some women are used to saying everything, as if they are very powerful. However, they often offend people because of their unrestrained words.
Most women who are truly calm have high emotional intelligence and their behavior is very decent. You can grasp very accurately when you should actively express your position and when you should keep quiet again.
A woman's better sign is that she can keep quiet in these three things.
01: In the moment of a broken heart, you can handle emotions quietly
When you experience the betrayal and hurt of your relationship, all the dissatisfaction in your heart will instantly emerge.
You will fall into a state of out of control and don’t know how to accept the other party’s deception.
It seems that the love of the past is false, full of irony. But he has waved goodbye to you freely and will not continue to love you anymore, but you still cannot get out of this relationship.
You are resentful and unwilling to calm down.
Love has to be just the norm in life. If you have been sad for a while but still cannot get out of the gloomy emotions, then it is most likely that your life will have a new beginning.
A woman's sign of getting better and better is often that she can handle all emotions quietly in the moment of a broken heart.
No matter how sad you are at this moment, you can restrain yourself from losing control and breaking down.
Yang Yi (pseudonym) is a woman full of energy. She broke up after dating her boyfriend for four years. When everyone was angry for her, she herself was very calm.
Every day, going to work, getting off work, studying and exercising, just like before. It seemed that her ex-boyfriend's cruel departure had already expected it.
It is impossible to lose someone who has loved for so long, and it is impossible to be sad at all, but Yang Yi knows that no matter how embarrassed she cries, this relationship will never come back.
The only thing she can control now is her tears and emotions. She doesn’t need too much comfort and encouragement, but needs a space to be alone to allow herself to quietly digest the sadness in her heart.
Although there was no satisfactory solution with her ex-boyfriend, Yang Yi quickly got out of love because she had the ability to keep quiet in a painful moment.
Later, my career not only got better and better, but I also met a man who was better for me.
02: Stay silent on things that others are taboo, know how to control yourself
People with high emotional intelligence not only feel comfortable, but also know how to control their mouths at all times.
When it comes to things that others are taboo, they will try to remain silent and never talk about anyone's gossip.
The reason why a woman gets worse and worse is often because she is used to slandering others behind her back.
No matter how hard you work, as long as you make this mistake, your interpersonal relationships will plummet and your life will become narrower and narrower.
There is a saying in "Villain of Desire": "A soft tongue can break a person's muscles and bones. Sometimes words can hurt people more than violence."
When you know that the other party doesn't want to mention the sad things from the past, you deliberately reveal his scars in front of everyone.
A seemingly unintentional sentence is actually very scheming. The more you like gossip, the less anyone dares to have a deep relationship with you.
A woman's sign of being in good condition is that she can control her own mouth and never discuss other people's private affairs. I hope you and I can do this.
03: When life is going well, don’t show off or show off
There is a saying: "Happiness is not about living in the eyes of others, but in your own heart."
Life will always go through highs and lows. When your life goes well, truly amazing women know not to show off or show off.
The more you stay quiet in the good times, the less you will attract jealousy and frame others.
After graduating from university, Zhou Ting (pseudonym) was lucky enough to find a job that matched her major and her income was not low. Several friends around her who have a good relationship, but their situation is not optimistic.
is already a good thing to be able to do what you like.
l3 Zhou Ting cherishes the current opportunities very much, but when she gets along with her friends, she knows how to keep quiet and her words and deeds are very low-key.
When her best friends complain about life difficulties and feel anxious and confused in the future, Zhou Ting also expressed her inner concerns.
She did not lie on purpose, but knew that everyone's pace of life is different.
Her career is more smooth now, but does not mean that she will not encounter any ups and downs in the future.
Girls who are not ostentatious or show-off are not scheming but foresight, and their lives will most likely get better and better.
Girls who are not ostentatious or show-off are not scheming but foresight, and their lives will most likely get better and better.
