When people's hearts collapse, the world will become more and more magical.
In the past, when we talked about getting on , everyone would look like "despise". Nowadays, when we talk about relying on parents, countless parents agree.
If you can still accept resigning from your parents, then we might as well think about a question: Why can parents accept "unfilial" matters?
There is a trend that has more and more unfilial sons, and the idea of unfiliality is becoming more and more prominent. Older parents cannot change the reality that their children become unfilial, and can only agree with their practices.
For example, children squeeze out their parents' money and only hope to buy a house, buy a car, get married and have children. So, as a parent, how will you deal with it?
According to traditional concepts, many parents will choose to "sacrifice themselves" and make their children happy. This kind of sacrifice is actually meaningless. Because children can't afford to buy a house and get married, they can't afford to support their offspring in the future.
Parents just indulge themselves, but they just harm their children. You know, the poisons in this world are all sweet. If you take this sweetness as a pursuit, the toxicity of the poison will hurt yourself and endanger your family.
These two new types of unfilial piety appear in the family. Parents should be vigilant to avoid suffering in their later years.
1. Children are dependent on their parents at home in the name of exams.
In the past two years, such a term has appeared on the Internet - the squat test student.
What is the squat test student? means that after graduation, college students did not look for a job or make money. Instead, they stayed at home to prepare for the exam and took it as "taken for granted". In theory, this situation is related to the overall environment and to the family.
Because the overall environment is not good and the job is difficult to find, countless young people focus on the two things of postgraduate entrance examination and public examination. fails to pass the exam in one year, so you will take the exam for two years. If you fail in two years, you will take the exam for three years. Always consume your youth.
We can all understand the difficulties of young people, but who can understand the difficulties of parents? There are too many parents who still have to work when they are old just to support their children who are taking exams at home.
To put it bluntly, if the child fails to pass the exam in his entire life, will parents support their children for the rest of their lives?
Parents cannot accompany their children until they grow old, and they must leave first. In this case, let children learn to support themselves first so that they can know how to choose their own path in life.
What's more, today, not all children focus on exams. Some people just use the name of exams to rely on their parents. Parents should pay attention to this point.
2. Empty your parents’ coffin before marriage and make your parents free nanny after marriage.
Both parents believe that as long as my children get married and have children, they will be free of worries and their future will be settled.
The so-called "stability" is just that parents deceive themselves. In this era, not many people could buy a house and a car with their own abilities, and not many people could fully support their children and offspring through work.
For example, if the child graduated from college and found a job, he still had to worry about being unemployed every day, so they need to get married and have children, so they can only rely on their parents. Parents emptied the coffin for the sake of their children's marriage.
hollowed out the coffin book and didn’t have money in their hands. So what should they do in their old age? Do they say they don’t need to retire? Obviously, many parents have not thought about this issue.
If you just empty the coffin before marriage, it would be fine. There are still some children who will throw their children to their parents for care after their parents retire. As grandparents, they could only contribute money and work hard to become nannies who paid for the money.
Parents also expressed their understanding, thinking that their children work 996 and their salary is not high, so they cannot afford to get married and raise their children. If they don’t help their children, who will help them?
Every generation suffers themselves, and they may not necessarily be happy for future generations. So, generations have lived in misfortune. What are the two "new types of unfilial" related to
written to the end
? Could it be that children are ignorant and have spread the trend of unfilial and dependent on their parents?
can only be said that in the face of the overall environment, many people have no choice. For example, if children want to get married and have children, they can only choose to ask their parents for help. Otherwise, they will not even find the object.
If getting married and having children is far away, then let’s take a look at the situation where young people “study for a parent”. It should be said that every parent has had the experience of "squatting in the exam and dependent on parents".
After all, everything is related to the word "money". Nowadays, prices have risen, daily expenses have increased, but wages have not risen, and unemployed people have appeared frequently. In this way, if children rely on their parents and parents have no hope of raising their parents, it becomes a reality. All "unfilial" in
is related to both the overall environment and people's views. And the overall environment will affect people's views. People’s views on the three aspects cannot change the overall environment. This is the so-called "reality determines concept" .
Still have to say that as the pace of life gradually accelerates, people's concepts have also changed, and magical things happen frequently, which is inevitable.
text/Shushan Youlu
