text丨The West Chamber of affection
Time has not been long, I hope you will meet in my words!
Men always say that women's minds are too difficult to guess, and it seems that no matter what they do, they cannot satisfy women.
But in fact, what is difficult to guess is not the woman’s thoughts, but the fact that you have never calmed down to observe.
Because, you always stand from your own perspective and never consider what women want. Therefore, even if you try your best, you will not be able to win the hearts of women.
In real life, many men think that women have too high requirements and believe that most women are material. But in fact, in the world of love, what a woman wants is nothing more than being cared for and loved.
So, don’t always complain that women are difficult to deal with, and don’t label the women around you at will. In fact, being so suitable for flirting with a woman can make her obsessed with you.
01,
When she is lonely and helpless, give care
Lonely is like the night. Once swallowed by it, you will fall into endless torture. Therefore, everyone is afraid of loneliness and hopes to stay away from loneliness.
Therefore, when a woman is lonely and helpless, your care is like the light shining into the night, which will make her feel unprecedented warmth, and will naturally treat you differently.
At the beginning, after experiencing unfortunate things, Empress Sun Li , she kept hiding herself in loneliness, and even escaped from love for a while, unwilling to believe in men.
It was not until Deng Chao's appearance that she felt the happiness of being favored, and made her begin to be willing to let go of her knots and believe in love.
All of this is inseparable from Deng Chao's meticulous care and his persistence of refusing to give up. It is no exaggeration to say that his sincerity and persistence have brought Sun Li's devotion.
Deng Chao told Sun Li with practical actions that as long as he is there, she can be the queen who is only responsible for laughing.
So, even if the two have been married for many years, even if the love in the entertainment industry is famous for its short shelf life, they can still break through the siege and become a model couple that everyone envies.
can be seen that it is actually easy to impress a woman's heart. As long as you are willing to work hard, she will sooner or later be moved by your sincerity.
02,
When she is frustrated and lonely, she will give encouragement and support
In life, she will inevitably encounter difficulties and setbacks of one kind. Women have always been less capable of withstanding pressure than men, so they are often hit by frustration.
Whenever this is the most important thing for women is encouragement and support from others. Otherwise, it would be difficult for her to grit her teeth and persevere.
At the beginning, when the actor Carina Lau was kidnapped by forces and threatened her to take indecent photos, it was Tony Leung who rescued him regardless of the outside world's rumors and danger, and gave her hope for life.
How important is reputation for women. If it weren't for Tony Leung's encouragement and support, Carina Lau would have long fallen into the spits of those people.
Therefore, even though Tony Leung has a relatively indifferent attitude towards feelings, even though Carina Lau has always been the only one who maintains family affairs, even if Tony Leung often disappears like a child, Carina Lau will still be by his side willingly.
Because, from the moment Tony Leung desperately protected and supported her, she had already identified this man. And secretly made up his mind and would not leave no matter what.
So, never underestimate a woman's loyalty to love. Once she falls in love with you, it will be a lifetime of never leaving you.
Of course, the premise is that you must exist when she needs it, so she will be obsessed with you.
03,
When she realizes her dream, listen to her sharing
Because of dreams, life is full of meaning. Therefore, when the dream comes true, people will be uncontrollable to be happy and excited.
Especially for women, when they see their long-term efforts finally usher in a bumper harvest, the excitement that is beyond words cannot be hidden.
However, success needs to be shared by someone. If only one person celebrates this victory, a woman will inevitably feel lost and empty inside.
At this time, she needs an audience around her to listen to the difficulties in her struggle, the joy of her dreams when they come true, and to affirm her efforts and sweat.
Don’t underestimate the role of the audience. It represents not only companionship and listening, but also certain affirmation and silent support.
Especially women with a strong career aspirations, they especially need such a man to protect her so that she can pursue her dreams without any worries.
Of course, she also sees your efforts and understands that if it weren't for your company and support along the way, she wouldn't have been so relaxed and free.
So, when she gets used to your existence, she naturally cannot live without you.
Summary:
To sum up, it is not difficult to make a woman infatuated with you. As long as you have the right time to flirt, it is difficult for a woman not to be infatuated with you.
In fact, to put it bluntly, feelings are heartfelt. If you want to impress a woman, first of all, you must give your sincerity, let the woman feel your sincerity and recognize that you are a man worthy of dependence.
For most women, it doesn’t require you to be rich or powerful. It’s enough to appear when she needs you.
After all, women can be completely self-sufficient in other aspects except for emotional dependence on men.
Therefore, flirting with a woman cannot be just by saying it, but also take practical actions to let her accept and get used to your existence.
In this way, she has you in her heart and is willing to be obsessed with you.
