text/Hua Yaoguan
There is a lyric in the classic English song "windy hill": "My love for you is just like sunflower . When you are you, you are the sun, when you are not you, you are the sun, I can't turn my eyes; when you are not without you, I lower my head and no one sees you."
When a man is truly moved, all his behavior will undergo subtle changes, which is uncontrollable and cannot be hidden.
Love is a subtle feeling born from nothingness, and this subtle feeling will be conveyed by the soul.
When you don’t love you, no matter how much you do, it’s useless; when you love you, everything will be dominated by you, this is love, which is cruel and unique.
In real life, a man who can speak sweet words may not necessarily love you, but trying to tell whether a man is really moved is complicated and actually simple, because a man who loves you will definitely have the following four changes.
First: The eyes become gentle
It is said that the eyes are the window of the soul. The look of a person who likes you is completely different from the look of a person who hates you.
I once saw a couple in a passionate relationship. They talked happily on the road, and when they looked carefully, they found that there was light in their eyes, which was the look of yearning and longing, just like stars constantly flashing.
Love someone must be from the bottom of your heart and want to care for the other person. Even people with a vicious face will become gentle when facing their beloved.
Once when I was practicing driving, I met a coach. The coach looked very fierce and he was also loud when he taught people.
But once I saw him and his wife in a video, the words revealed a strong love between the lines.
At that moment, the coach seemed not that scary. On the contrary, he had tenderness in his eyes, as if he wanted to melt people.
Sure enough, in front of your lover, I just want to give her all the good and hide her tenderness in the details.
Second: Take the initiative to get close to you
When you love someone, you will always be proactive.
Even if you are an introvert, you will not be able to control yourself from getting close to the other person and want to understand the other person better.
Because in her heart, she is the person she wants to protect for the rest of her life.
seems to have an attraction between the two, and even if they are separated by two places, they cannot stop this emotion.
There is a saying that goes: "All unexpected encounters in the world are actually carefully arranged by another person."
When a man falls in love, he will definitely try every means to approach the other person. You may think that your encounter is fate, but it is not. It may be a coincidence made by a man on purpose.
is like a very popular story on the Internet before. From the perspective of a girl, a man suddenly broke into her life, but from the perspective of a boy, that was his plan for a long time.
When a person falls in love with another person, he will do many proactive things, because the person in front of him is the lover, so they are willing to take the initiative.
Third: Take care of your feelings
It is said that men often don’t know how to take care of women, after all, most men are not as careful as women.
However, a man who is truly in love will naturally be very careful when he puts all his attention on you, especially when it comes to taking care of your feelings.
In the TV series "Punishment", although Zhao Pengchao's thoughts are distorted, he loves memorials, so he will take care of everything about her, and even menstrual supplies are prepared for it considerately.
Look, a man who loves you will worry about whether you sleep well, whether you eat well, and whether you are happy.
If they notice your depression, they will also try every means to make you happy.
Only when you are happy can they be equally happy from the bottom of their hearts.
It seems that your every move affects his nervous system , and your every frown and smile can melt the other person.
They just want to see you happy, just like sunflowers like the sun, there is no reason.
Fourth: Give everything for you
When a man is moved, he will definitely want to give everything he has.
Whether it is within his ability or not, he wants to give the other party the best thing he wants.
This is a manifestation of sincerity and a symbol of deep love.
Just like in a TV series, men will make promises to their wives when they are suffering, and they will try to make each other live a better life, and this is also one of the greatest meanings of their life.
In this world, people always wander between giving and being given, because there are different degrees and different kinds of love between people.
Some people give in order to pursue rewards, but if an emotional man gives in, he will not pursue rewards.
Their minds will be very simple, just like the sentence in Du Mu's poem back then: "A concubine laughs when riding on the world."
No matter how much you give for the person you love, it is nothing.
I like a sentence in "Lolita" very much: "There are three things that people cannot hide, cough, poverty and love."
Love is something that cannot be restrained. When love arises, emotions will be naturally involved.
Some people may not be able to meet someone who will make them moved in their lives, but once they meet it, it will be a lifelong thing.
The feeling of heartbeat is wonderful, but the feeling of not being able to love is also painful.
What is love? There is no standard answer, but Maugham once said: "It is not easy to move your heart at any time, don't neglect it."
If you meet someone who is moved or someone who is moved by you, you must cherish it.
Encountering in life is not easy. Whether it is love or being loved, it is a lucky thing.
