A person's life height is fundamentally determined by a person's ideological realm. Facing the same people and things, people of different realms and heights, their views will be completely different and the results will be very different.
And a truly sensible person will learn and accept new things quickly, and the depth of understanding will be deeper. Once you master the most essential principles of the development of things, your words and deeds will undergo fundamental changes. Human life will also undergo earth-shaking changes.
A person's biggest enemy must be no one else, but it is himself. The person who can conquer his emotions is the real master. In other words, what determines a person's life direction may not be the so-called IQ, ability, talent, etc., but his ability to control emotions. A person with real insight will definitely be able to see through this and work hard to adjust and correct it, and you will see a different self.
Zhuangzi said: Respect it but don’t be happy, insult it but don’t be angry. If a person is respected by others, he does not feel happy or arrogant; if he is insulted, he will not be angry and angry. This is the real person with strong hearts. Only by taking everything lightly, keeping calm when encountering people and things, and treating it rationally can you truly live a free and easy life.
People often say that "impulse is the devil". If a person cannot control his emotions, once the people and things in the outside world change, he will easily lose control, which will inevitably bring disaster to yourself.
Many times, the troubles, pain, and regrets in life are not caused by things themselves. They may be a very small thing, but due to the unacceptable heart and excessive excitement, they lead to worse results. This is caused by the fact that one is too narrow-minded, has too limited vision, and has too small pattern.
You have to tell yourself that once your emotions are out of control, the problem cannot be solved and will definitely go to the opposite side. I believe most people can agree with this, but knowing does not mean doing it. Many people know it but still can’t control themselves. Why is this?
Wang Yangming said "integration and action are united". If you can't do it, it is actually because you don't really know it. If you really know it and understand this truth thoroughly, you can definitely do it. Because you will take the most suitable way for you and subconsciously control yourself.
For example, pause for three seconds, laugh, turn around and leave, etc. As long as your inner consciousness works, the bad emotions will disappear in an instant, and at least half of them can fade away. This is the essential difference between a person with high understanding and an ordinary person. Once you have a deep understanding, the problem can be solved. Please ask yourself carefully, have you really seen through it?
