The reader wrote to me and said:
When I first got married to my ex-husband, I was the one I took the initiative to pursue.
When we got married, although we were opposed by all parties, we still firmly walked into the siege.
When our child was over one year old, my ex-husband stopped working and turned himself into a "little boy". In this marriage model, I gradually became tired and tired.
When the child was 5 years old, I divorced my ex-husband with my child. Two more years later, I met my current husband.
To be honest, I don’t feel love for my current husband, but he is nice to me and my ex-husband’s children, so I accepted him.
The current husband also had a failed marriage before meeting me. His ex-wife met a richer man and cuckolded him, causing their relationship to break down. There were no children between him and his ex-wife.
I was a little depressed at the time: my current husband is also a little successful in his career, so why is he willing to accept me as a divorced woman with children? After getting married, I realized that the current husband has no fertility (the life of husband and wife can be maintained normally).
Because I already have my own children, I don’t think it’s a pity whether I have children with my current husband. I am quite satisfied with the life experience with my current husband. At least my ex-husband can allow me and my children to live a life of food and clothing without worries.
What surprised me was: seeing that my ex-husband was relatively wealthy now, he actually asked me for pocket money with shame.
My current perception of my ex-husband: I have loved and been hurt, and I hope he will not disturb my life.
However, in the face of my repeated rejections, my ex-husband also acted as a slut.
want to ask, what should I do to get rid of my ex-husband’s entanglement?
Muzili Emotional analysis:
There are actually quite a lot of ways to deal with someone you really don’t want to pay attention to:
1) Block all the other party’s contact information;
2) Faced with his frequent disturbances, you can choose to use legal weapons to defend your legitimate rights and interests.
Your current state is: you don’t want to break up with your ex-husband, or his appearance is still the type you like, and you can’t bear to be too heartless to be with him.
Since you have divorced, why bother with him?
Remember: If you have a glossy skin, if you can't support a home, this man is a waste.
Suggestions for you:
pull your ex-husband on the blacklist, this is your first step to be heartless;
If you do this, he will borrow someone else's phone to contact you, and you can consider calling the police.
You now have a new family, and you should focus your energy in your existing life and be absolutely loyal to your current husband.
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