I, I was admitted to university in 1992, and my father refused to pay the tuition. I rely on my own efforts. At the age of 44, I am worth tens of millions.
Telling: Wu Miaomiao
Compilation: Mr. Xiao Han
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I am Wu Miaomiao, from Huanggang, Hubei, 47 years old this year. My first half of my life was filled with ups and downs. When I was young, my family was poor. In 1992, I was admitted to university. My family was not well off. In addition, my father favored boys over girls, so he was unwilling to pay for me in the end, and my dream of going to college was shattered.
Later, under the introduction of my parents, I met my husband. He admired me very much and said that it was a very amazing thing that I could get into college at the age of 17. My husband had a job at that time. After the army was transferred, he returned to our local county town to work as a driver for his leader. Logically speaking, I was a complacent husband, but the fact is that my in-laws respected me very much and never thought that I came from the countryside and looked down on me.
Getting married early also means having children early. I gave birth to my eldest daughter at the age of 20 and gave birth to my younger son at the age of 22. Because of the extra birth, my husband lost his job, but our whole family was not unhappy. Instead, I felt that everything was a new beginning. From then on, my husband and I were doing business together. Later, my husband had a stroke and was paralyzed. I worked alone in Wuhan. By the age of 44, I was already worth tens of millions. I never felt that my husband would be hindered. Instead, I felt that if I had no husband, I would not have the results I had today. Perhaps, this is the parallel between love and gratitude, so I could be so lucky.
1975, I was born in an ordinary rural family in Huanggang, Hubei Province. Both parents are honest and honest farmers. I have three children in the family, two of whom are the youngest children in the family. Logically speaking, the youngest, whether a boy or a girl, will receive more care from their parents, but this is not the case.
My parents have a serious prefer boys over girls . My birth once made my father very regretful because he not only paid a family planning fine, but also a man. However, my mother persuaded him earnestly and finally stayed in this family.
Although my father doesn’t like me very much, my grandparents, mother and two brothers are all very nice to me. I have been a heartless girl since I was a child. I am careless and never care about how my father views me. As long as it is the right thing I think, I will do it.
There are no entertainment projects in the countryside. When I was a child, I jumped rubber bands and kicked shuttlecocks and were the most powerful in the village. I was ranked first in every competition. However, in addition to playing, I was also ranked first in the village in study. The teacher even praised me for being smart and with my outstanding appearance, the adults and children in the village liked me very much.
When I was in the fifth grade of elementary school, I was going to study in the central elementary school in the town. My father drove the ox cart and didn't say a word to me along the way. After signing up, I couldn't help laughing when I saw my father feeling sorry for his ten dollars. However, at this time, my father became even more angry and criticized me, asking me to study hard and give him a better face.
I did not disappoint my father's expectations. I was ranked first in the school in every final exam. At that time, the overall education level of Huanggang was still very backward and the conditions were not good. The teacher taught the knowledge in the book to students as much as possible, and I also learned it very seriously.
After entering the junior high school gate, I learned for the first time that I had to learn English in the first grade of junior high school. The first word taught by the teacher was "English". It felt very fashionable. However, I had no foundation before. The teacher's method was simple and rough, just rote memorization. At that time, the children were not as open as the children nowadays and did not dare to recite loudly. When I was in the first grade of junior high school, I failed in English, but other classes were close to full marks.
There was an English class in which the English teacher did not attend, but I called me out and asked me: "Do you have any objections to me?"
I was puzzled at the time and didn't know what the teacher asked about this inexplicably. I respected the English teacher very much and had no idea at all. He said stupidly, "No."
The teacher said furiously: "Why are other classes ranked first in the school? Only English is the worst? Isn't this obvious?"
At this time, I realized that the teacher was furious because of my English scores. I honestly told the English teacher about my psychological thoughts. Since then, I memorized English texts and words in the English teacher's office, and my grades increased to more than 90 points in less than three months.
I entered school earlier than many children of the same age, so when I finished junior high school, I was only 14 years old, and some students were 18 years old, and I am also a recognized talented woman.
After going to high school, the courses were very close. I arrived at the classroom at 6 o'clock every morning and went to 9:30 in the evening study. However, the head teacher was a person who loved overtime and was really responsible for us. He would provide one-on-one tutoring for every subject of Chinese, mathematics and foreign affairs. I was under a lot of psychological pressure at the time because my father said that no matter whether I passed the exam or did not get into college, I would not be able to support me in the end.
But no matter what, work hard first, and things in the future have not yet appeared, so I can't control it.
After the college entrance examination, my heart was in my throat. I was afraid to see the results and looked forward to the results. When the postman delivered the transcript to my house, he was so nervous that he didn't dare to open it. When my mother saw the results, she was very happy and ran to the county town to ask the teacher. After checking it, the teacher said that I was admitted to university.
Before the joy reached orgasm, a basin of cold water poured over.
Dad did not break his promise. As he said, he would not spend more than 900 yuan to support me in college. Even though I proposed that I would work part-time to study in the future, my dad still asked me to be a teacher in the village because he was the brigade secretary, so he had this right.
Even though the teacher came to the door to plead repeatedly, my father was still unmoved. When the school time passed, I gave up.
From then on, I became an rural teacher . I received a salary of 28 yuan a month and paid two years of writing. Under the introduction of my relatives, I started a blind date. The blind date was a city household registration, a formal job, and after the army was transferred, I drove in the county government. I didn’t hesitate, neither of them hated each other, and then got married.
Everyone yearns for life in the city, and I am no exception.
We got married in the first lunar month. We gave birth to a daughter in the twelfth lunar month. We became mothers at the age of 21. I had no job and focused on taking care of the child at home. The child had just celebrated his first birthday and I became pregnant again. At this time, I faced two choices. If I gave birth to the child, my husband would have to lose his job. However, don’t find a child. My parents-in-law felt sorry. What if it was a son?
Later, with the support of my husband, I gave birth to a son.
For this reason, my husband really lost his job. A father-in-law who enforced the law impartially did not protect him. He wanted to set an example for other leaders. After his husband lost his job, he did not feel bad. Instead, he said that he was tired of working from 9 to 6.
The first project we started a business was to open a small store, and the business was also good. As we made more and more money, we finally opened a supermarket larger than the county department store. This was just the beginning.
In 2006, my husband and I handed over the supermarket to a relative to take care of it. I went to Wuhan with my husband to work hard. However, my husband who needed socializing every day ended up being hemiplegic because of stroke . Even though I sought many doctors, it was still useless. And I carried the company on my shoulders and didn't want to see my husband paying so much, but in the end I had nothing.
After more than ten years of hard work, I succeeded. I went to work during the day and went home to take care of my husband at night. Day after day, I never felt troublesome. After all, when I get married, I have to love you loyally for the rest of my life. By the age of 44, I had already worth tens of millions of yuan, and changed from a house of 120 square meters to a villa of 470 square meters.
There are many surprises in life, but fate seems to have arranged everything long ago. I succeeded, and more of my husband's success.
