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Tang Yixin once said: "Ideal love is something that two people have endless things to say and endless things to talk about, and they will never get tired of it."
This reminds me of a sentence: "The desire to share is the most advanced romance."
When two people get along, one person is willing to say, and one person knows how to respond and feedback in time. Such a relationship will always become more and more intimate because of saying everything.
so, the best state in love is that two people have endless things to say and endless talk.
1. Chat is the honey fruit that enhances feelings
Love is very sweet, but two people who are willing to say everything will not only keep love fresh, but will also ferment in sweetness, becoming more mellow and charming.
Tang Yixin has been selected as the "girl that the whole network is most enviable", not only because she is beautiful and has a successful career, but also because of her love with Zhang Ruoyun and .
In an interview, the host asked: "I want to ask all the girls that your love is sweet and happy. Is there any secret?"
Tang Yixin smiled and said: "Good love, mutual understanding is important, but more importantly, two people are together, have something to say, and have endless chats, and they will never get tired of it.
We are all big and small, whether it is work or life. I will share with the other party. He will not feel that I am too much and annoy me, and I don’t have to worry that he will be embarrassed if he doesn’t respond to me. "
There is a saying: "A truly comfortable relationship is that even if two people don’t see each other for a long time, even if they sit and say nothing, they won’t feel embarrassed or embarrassed."
But in love, what is needed more than sitting calmly is to talk about nonsense, because life is composed of countless small things, and talking about insignificant small things is to talk about nonsense.
Imagine that a person who tells you something that is irrelevant or even irrelevant is not afraid to sit face to face with you and have nothing to say, but he prefers to talk nonsense with you to make you happy.
People like this are people who really love you. After all, if they just sit with you speechlessly, they can empty their thoughts and think about their own affairs.
But if you say some nonsense, it is equivalent to giving you his time and heart completely to you, willing to spend it on you, and find it interesting.
Don't ignore the importance of chatting in love. Compared with silent silent companionship, voiced words and laughter, love can keep fresher, grow each other, and mature relationships.
2. Chat is the killer weapon to bring closer relationships
Before watching Korean dramas, I was impressed by this line: "I love you, so I think it is a happy thing to be able to integrate into your daily life and become your little things."
No matter how poor or rich, whether it is high or weight, whether it is success or ordinary, everyone's life will eventually return to ordinary and daily life.
In real life, most of us are more willing to accompany us to enjoy the beauty and walk through the romance of love and moon.
When life is really low and the days are really only dull and ordinary, the people who stay by your side are the ones you really deserve to cherish.
is like we will divide friends into levels, which friends are just friends, which friends are just chatting and having fun, which friends will help you and which friends can borrow money.
In fact, love is the same. The reason why many loves give up halfway is just like us making friends. Those who are just friends and just chat and have fun will always be eliminated as time witnesses cannot stand any test.
In love, when you can only enjoy the romance of being above and not willing to enjoy the ordinary monotonous life, a huge change will occur between the two of you - you will talk less and less between you.
There is something to say, you can talk together, have endless topics to talk about, be able to talk about life and ideals, and be able to snuggle beside you, talk about firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea. This is happiness.
Love is like friends. After the precipitation of time and the changes of time, those who only stay on the surface of love will eventually say goodbye to you and will never see you again.
3. It is not just love that supports love, but also sharing
Share desire is the best way to express love.
Share will only be about people who care. We will not deliberately use chat every day to maintain relationships, nor do we need to deliberately reply to messages word by word.
But we can’t help but be uncontrollable and share all the beautiful things we see and hear in life with those who care.
doesn't matter when he will reply, nor does he care that his reply is not what we want. Even if we don't respond in time, we already feel happiness and satisfaction at the moment of sharing.
Perhaps, this is the real meaning of sharing.
Why is sharing desire important in love?
Because sharing desire is continued by response. Sharing desire is love pieced together in details of life, and passion is continued by response. Once two people lose their desire to share, they will be the beginning of the end.
Many of us may have this situation in our lives. No matter which party is insecure, they will always ask you whether you love him or not, and they will always test your love for him again and again.
And when you really say you love him, he will think you are perfunctory and careless.
In fact, there are many ways to express love. Continuous sharing is the longest and most sincere one.
Because when you share again, no matter what you say to him or in any way, he only has one feeling, that is, love from you.
When you keep sharing and he keeps responding, in fact, what you share is no longer ordinary things, but trust and love between each other.
Sometimes, happiness is achieved through chatting; only those who can chat with can have deep and long-lasting relationships; only those who can chat with can have a harmonious relationship and fit; some people who can chat with can be destined to not be separated.
or above, encourage them together!
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