Guanguan is on the river island, a beautiful lady, a gentleman is eager to seek. There are many poems about love from ancient times to the present to praise.
Love is brilliant, like the shining stars at night, like flowers covering the mountains and fields in spring, but marriage is the reality of food, rice, oil and salt. It requires two people to be tolerant and understanding of each other in order to go long-term.
Like you and wanting to marry you are completely different concepts. At his powerless age, he can't give you a future. Then such love is just a waste of each other's time.
Regarding love, perhaps it is more about the flowers before and under the moon. As long as two people are together, they feel like they have everything they have.
But marriage is not, it requires two people to integrate and face everything in life together.
If you have no way to face some practical problems in your relationship, and even appear stingy in terms of money, then he cannot give happiness.
If you want to marry you, then in your relationship, you will actually give you these signals.
01, after being with you, work harder
02, two people are not obsessed with the happiness in front of you, but need to consider the future of each other.
If a person says he likes you, but his efforts are not seen from his behavior, then for such a person, no matter how long you have been with him, he will not be able to reach the palace of marriage.
If he really wants to marry you, he will consider it longer-term and will plan the future between you, study hard, constantly improve his work ability, and then lay a foundation for happiness.
Because life is realistic, if you want to go further, you must have a certain material foundation.
Love is definitely not the romance at that moment. If a man wants to marry you, he will keep working hard to earn more money and make your relationship last longer.
02, will prepare for marriage proposals and engagement, and get affirmation from you and your family
In the relationship, a certain sense of ritual is essential. Before entering marriage, if he really wants to marry you, then there needs to be a specific opportunity to get affirmation from you.
Marriage is originally a romantic thing. If he really wants to marry you, then he will definitely express his wishes with his romance and sincerity.
If a person is just enjoying the happiness in front of you and never considers the future, then the time you spend together is just a waste of each other's youth.
Friendship needs to be proved by friends and family around you. If he just hides himself blindly, then such a person is likely to be deceiving you.
If he really loves you, then he will show your identity and disclose your existence.
If he really loves you, then he is not stingy with his money and will give you everything he wants. If he performs like this, it is actually that good choice.
On the road of life, you will meet many people, but not everyone will become your only one and your support. Regarding marriage, you must be more cautious in order to go longer.
author, Ran Xia Yingzi, a freelance writer, focusing on self-media operations, writing and live broadcast entrepreneurship, welcome to follow and consult.
