says that the elderly cannot remarry. People who remarry you have more or less purpose. Don't think you have met true love. It is very likely that you will be hurt by this matter, just like the old man in the article. Now I regret it and can’t even divorce even if I want to divorce. Who can I blame? When faced with this, we must pay attention.
Never let such a tragedy happen again. What's going on? Why is this like this? Let's take a look at this matter together. Such a tragedy must never happen. How does an old cow feel when eating young grass? The 67-year-old man cried: The old cow suffered a lot after eating tender grass.
case story sharing person,
67-year-old Mr. Su:
I was just driven out by my son. I was wrong, I shouldn't have come to my son. But if I don't come here, where should I go. Because I was driven out by my wife. My wife told me that if you don’t go, come back with 5,000 yuan. Then you don't think about going home. When I came to my son, I didn’t know how to speak. After getting married, I have troubled my children countless times. Now I have to ask them if they want 5,000 yuan?
Their lives were originally tight, so where could they have money? The more I think about it, the more uncomfortable it becomes. Later I secretly took the money, and I didn't want to do this. I didn't know how to speak. All of this was my fault, and then my son was kicked out. My son didn't say anything at that time. But my daughter-in-law makes things difficult for me everywhere. I know what happened, isn’t it because I’m going too far?
Everything is my fault. I cry silently outside and dare not go home. You can't blame my son, if you want to blame me, just blame myself. I hope that through my personal experience, all the elderly can pay attention to the fact that there is no free lunch in the world. How can we prevent these tragedies from happening? That is, don't change it, otherwise you will be the same as me. I remarried two years ago. My nanny remarried to me.
This matter should start three years ago. Three years ago, I accidentally fell while playing with my phone, and then I asked my son to hire me a nanny. I really can’t do anything about it, so I asked my son to hire a nanny to take care of me. I can’t let my child come back to take care of me. My child's life is very difficult. If he comes back to take care of me, he doesn't have to live. He works outside for more than 10,000 yuan a month, and if he hires a nanny at home, it will take four or five days. So I asked my child to hire a nanny for me. I have two sons and a daughter. They paid for the nanny to take care of me.
I just need to take care of it for a short time. It won’t take long before I don’t need a nanny. So I think it's good to take care of me, and it'll be great if I'm going to survive this period. Gradually, I fell in love with the nanny for a long time. I don't know what's going on. My wife has passed away for many years and I have never wanted to find a partner. But after being with the nanny, I found that I felt that way again.
Later I asked someone to introduce me to the object. The nanny also introduced me to the partner. But none of them are suitable. Later, the nanny told me, do you know why others are not suitable for you? Isn't it because I'm here? What you want is not others but others but me, right? I told the nanny, it's impossible. You are so young and beautiful, how could I be suitable for you?
Then the nanny told me, stop making trouble, do you think I don’t know you yet? Is there any man who doesn’t like young and beautiful people? Of course, I also like older people. People like you feel safe to me, and you treat me very well. If you don't mind I'm a second marriage, then I don't mind your age either.
I can be with you, but you have to make it clear to your child that we two truly love each other, not that we are with you because of money. We have been with you for a year. I think you are a good person and you are nice to me. I told the nanny, don't joke with me, if I take it seriously, you will be embarrassed.I'm still alone, you're pretty good. If you need a partner, I can introduce you to you.
I know a lot of people. I can introduce my children’s friends to you. Their conditions are good, and more importantly, they are handsome and match yours, and they are young. But the nanny told me, do I care about them? Do I care about age? If I care about my age, I wouldn't have come here to work. Have you seen many women around 30 years old who work as nannies, right? Most of them are 40 years old and 50 years old. I came here to be a nanny because I felt that I got along better with you.
so I stayed here to work, otherwise why would you give me 4,500 yuan a month, do you think it's a lot? I can spend several thousand yuan a month when I work outside, and I can find some handsome guys or something outside. But I don't care about them at all, I care about you. Let's do it like this, let's be together. Would you like to give me a chance? Anyway, I don't care about your age. I really want to be with you and love you sincerely. Of course, if you don’t believe me, then use time to prove it all.
In the next month, the nanny was very nice to me. Sometimes I don't even want a salary anymore. I gave the money to the nanny and told the nanny, "Don't make trouble, you come here to work for money. If you don't give money to you, what will others say then?" Whatever you would say, you want to live a life too.
You take care of me, you should take this money. But the nanny still doesn't want it. I had to fly that night and stay at home for the night. I don't know what happened. By night, the nanny actually asked me to drink with him. I felt something was wrong at that time, but when I discovered this, it was too late and I found that the nanny was in my room early in the morning. I felt like I did nothing, but the nanny told me that I did everything. I have no impression of it at all.
But I am also a man, and I must be responsible. Then I got married to the nanny. The nanny told me that marriage is my business with you. Don’t tell your child, and then tell your child when we get married. Why do I say that? Isn’t it because your child won’t agree to this matter?
They must think I am here to cheat money, and if they tell them what they will say then, I will say what they will say. Saying what I said is a fraud. If you say something, you will definitely say that you will have to struggle when you are old? So there is no need to tell them about this. Let’s tell them when we get married. As long as we live a happy life, that’s fine, don’t you?
I was successfully fooled by the nanny. In this way, our man got married. I thought I would be happy after marrying a 30-year-old nanny, but I had nothing to do to harm me because of this. You shouldn't remarry. If you didn't remarry, this wouldn't have happened, and the outcome wouldn't have been so miserable. On the night of the wedding, he made 5 requests with me. The first request was to ask me to give him the money. I wanted to reject him, but he told me, I am your wife, who do you give me if you don’t give me the money?
The second request made me listen to him in the future. The third request asked me to give him the house and the deposit. The fourth requirement is that if I die one day, my child will be held responsible for him. The fifth requirement. I haven't let me go to the room to sleep. I didn't want to agree, but he hit me because of this. Later he kept taking my money away. It makes me laugh and cry.
If he doesn't pay, he will hit me. He even took a man home and told me that this man is my cousin. My cousin just came to work in a big city and couldn't find a house to live in, so he lived with us temporarily. My cousin is your cousin, I am your wife, he is my cousin, and so you are your cousin. We are all a family, don’t you? So I'll have no problem letting my cousin live here?
How can I refute this? Later I found out that this person was not his cousin at all, but his male best friend.Later, he even showed up and asked his male best friend to move into his room. He said that there is air conditioner in his room. If two air conditioners are turned on at the same time, it would be a waste of electricity, so he should move to his room. I didn't dare to tell my child either. It was not until one day when my child came back that I realized that everything was taken away by the nanny. And my son told me to divorce the nanny.
I told my son, do you think I don’t want to get a divorce? If I could divorce, I would have divorced long ago. The nanny doesn't divorce me and refuses to do that. I have to make compensation, and I have given him all the money. Later, my son gave the nanny 50,000 yuan and asked the nanny to leave me quickly, but my nanny got more and more money after getting 50,000 yuan.
Now I go to my son’s house from time to time to make trouble. My son doesn’t want to be troubled, and sometimes he will give money. It was just my own business, but now it is well known to everyone, and even caused my children to be implicated because of this incident. I regret it, I shouldn't have remarried. If I hadn't remarried, this wouldn't have happened now. The more I think about it, the more I feel uncomfortable, and the more I think about it, the less I don’t know what to do.
has no money, and I still have to watch my wife kiss and other men intimately. Many people say why you can't call the police to deal with this matter. What I want to say is that can newspapers handle this matter? So what can I do if I call the police? Can I handle the affairs at home if I call the police? It would be useless to call the police if my wife and I do, isn't it? I really regret why I wanted to remarry. If I hadn't remarried, this would not be the ending now. All the money at home was spent.
My BMW borrows money in my name. Sometimes I even borrow money from my son’s friends. Everyone knows this. Isn’t it that I will be responsible for the money in the end? The more I think about it, the more I feel uncomfortable, and the more I think about it, the more painful it is. How great it would be if I didn’t care. I thought I would be happy after finding a young and beautiful wife, but I didn’t expect this to be a pit. I regret it. If I had a choice, I would never remarry. Now I don’t know how to live.
nanny slapped me in the face and asked me to ask my son for money. He also said he wanted me to get back 5,000 yuan. I had no choice but to go to my son's house to get the money. When I went to my son's house, my son was not at home and only saw his daughter-in-law at home. Later, I secretly took out 5,000 yuan from the bedside table.
But my daughter-in-law soon found out. Finally, the passage of the article appeared, and my son was forced to drive me away helplessly. I also want to divorce the nanny, but the nanny refuses to divorce me. When will such a day end? When will such a day end? The more I think about it, the more I feel uncomfortable. This time it is all my fault. The old man really cannot remarry when he is old. No matter how young and beautiful the other person is, he cannot remarry. Otherwise, it will hurt you badly, just like I regret it now.
Conclusion:
If I had known this, why would anyone blame him for the ending now? If it weren't for you to remarry, would this ending be there now? Forget it, get divorced quickly and try every means to divorce, otherwise there will be no way to live in the future. You were wrong at the beginning of this matter. People are not really with you. They are just with you for your sake. After getting everything about you, you will have no value, and then they will treat you like this.
is not the most tempting thing you didn’t say, so will it still end now? I hope this case can remind all the elderly that they must be able to withstand temptation and test in the face of these things. You must remember that 80% of the elderly who do not have free lunch in the world will not have happiness when they remarry, if you choose to remarry rashly.
Then in the end, it is very likely that they will be like the old man in the article. You will live the way you pass in the past. There is no need to remarry. The old man who remarries is not very good in the end. Do you understand? Don't let such a tragedy happen again, okay? Not remarrying means being responsible for yourself and your children. If you remarry, the consequences will be unimaginable.
