When I was a child, my elders always liked to say the saying "When you grow up, you will understand it."
Children are always ignorant of the world. Now that I have grown up, I finally understand the meaning of it. But the growth along the way naturally comes at the cost of the time. It turns out that if you don’t listen to the old man’s words and suffer a loss in front of you, it’s true.
Age is a good thing. At thirty, you are not confused, at forty, and at fifty, you know the destiny of heaven. This is the law of nature and a must-pass path for a person’s life.
is now old and young, and can no longer squander time as much as before. You can’t rely on your youth to stop staying up late. The most important thing is to recognize the responsibilities on your shoulders and have a real goal. After seeing the people and the facts clearly, I feel that the truth is always cruel.
Those unrealistic ideals and dreams that appear in the first half of their lives have gone away and broken one by one. Time has flowed away rapidly, making the young and frivolous people gradually mature.
Everything in reality makes people let go of the so-called face, become down-to-earth, and become fearless. This is probably what a person looks like truly mature.
When doing things, pay attention to the "scene" of someone. If you look at someone's "love", then give someone a "thin face". If you make a mistake, it may be a bad thing, and no one will know if you mess with it.
But now, I feel that "face" is a shackle and a shield. Because of ‘face’, there are too many things that have not been completed.
Just like the saying circulated on the Internet, when you put your pride and make money, it means you are already sensible. When you make face with money, it means you have succeeded.
In the world of adults, there are many things that are more important than face. In order to accomplish those more important things, you have to give up your face and complete what you should accomplish. If you put down your pride, you will have courage. In order to achieve success, you should be able to bend and stretch and let go of your sternness.
From ancient times to the present, there are people who have lost their lives because of face. Xiang Yu was also a hero of a generation. He fought bravely against the war, but could not fight. He finally drew his sword and committed suicide, ending his passionate life. Only one sentence left is "I have no face to see the elders of Jiangdong."
In fact, what if you lose? However, Xiang Yu gave up his life because he was afraid that he would lose face. If he had lived bravely at that time, he might have changed his current history and achieved great achievements.
People who really do big things do not take face seriously. Among the modern celebrities and rich people, many people can endure humiliation and pain and leave their face behind. Maybe I paid a price that I could imagine at that time, but in the end I succeeded and realized my life value.
In fact, "I have to live with my face and suffer" is the truth. Just want face, you can't get anything. Can a salesperson get an order if he takes good care of his face? Can an entrepreneur find customers if he has face?
Think from another perspective, face is an excuse people find to evade responsibility. If a person can’t even solve the problem of food and clothing, what should he do to save face?
If you don’t want to suffer, you should put down your mental burden, do what you should do, and stand firm. You can’t worry too much just because of your face and lose the opportunity.
Many young people nowadays are "swallowing the face and pretending to be fat. In order to be a "character" in the eyes of others, they can satisfy their vanity, and they can borrow money to buy brand-name bags and expensive mobile phones. Although my vanity is satisfied, there are many people who sacrifice themselves because they cannot repay their debts.
In fact, a person must have self-knowledge and know how powerful he is. Don’t have a vanity and pay the price for your own face, or even reach the point where you cannot repay it.
As an adult, learn to put aside your pride, because it is really harmful. When you need to move forward, don't let face become a stumbling block. Don't care too much about external voices, let go of your hands and try your best.
