Introduction:
Yuan Jinghao married 29-year-old Jiang Heyi at the age of 31. Both of them are not young anymore. Getting married is imminent. At that time, I just thought that the other party was also a good marriage partner, and he was 2 years younger than him. It was good to marry him. A 31-year-old woman has no big requirements for marriage. I heard that Jiang Heyi has a house and a car, and a job with a monthly salary of 5,500 yuan. She has not many complicated past people in terms of love. I thought that even if my marriage was not so happy, I could at least be able to be safe and peaceful.
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But after marrying Jiang Heyi, he found that Jiang Heyi was not a person who wanted to live a stable and peaceful life. He liked to find trouble for nothing. Yuan Jinghao had no house and Jiang Heyi had a house, but the house was not renovated before the marriage. Yuan Jinghao paid 80,000 yuan to decorate the house with Jiang Heyi. This was originally a wedding house, which belonged to the common property of the two people after marriage. He paid for the decoration money, so Yuan Jinghao felt that her name should be added to the house.
Originally, this name should have been added by Jiang Heyi, but Jiang Heyi didn't make any noise for a long time and never expressed his opinion. So Yuan Jing couldn't help asking him: "Have you added my name to your house?" Just a simple question, Jiang Heyi immediately said angrily: "You marry me, not my house. Why do you need to add your name to the real estate certificate ?" Yuan Jing said at ease: "We are husband and wife, and I also paid 80,000 yuan for decoration." Jiang Heyi said indifferently: "It's only 80,000 yuan, what's there to say? I want to add a name to the real estate certificate. ", impossible." "
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Yuan Jing said, "Since you don't have a name, then you give me the 80,000 yuan of decoration." Jiang Heyi said, "Why should I give it back to you? Don't you live in this house? Since you also live in this house, it's time to pay some decoration fee." Yuan Jing couldn't imagine that Jiang Heyi was such a person. Later, the two of them lived together. Yuan Jinghao found that Jiang Heyi bought a small washing machine and a small refrigerator himself. There were obviously large refrigerators and large washing machines at home, so why did he buy a refrigerator and washing machine again?
Jiang Heyi quickly told her the answer: "We are AA. You wash your clothes and make your meals. I wash my clothes and make my meals. You spend your money, I spend my money, and I will take care of myself." Yuan Jing didn't know where the marriage he got. After others got married, her husband contracted housework, her husband earned money to support her family, and her husband transferred the house to his wife. After she got married, her husband did not add the name of her real estate certificate, and she also bought a washing machine and a refrigerator, which drew a clear line with her and began to live an AA marriage life.
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Such a marriage made Yuan Jing unable to sleep or eat. What kind of man did she marry? Why did this man do this? Everyone was celebrating that she finally got married, but she lived like this after she got married. Yuan Jing didn't dare to tell her parents, so she could only tell her good sister that after the good sister learned that Yuan Jing had married such a man, she also stood up for her. Yuan Jing asked: "Do I divorce in this situation? But I finally got married at such an age and divorced so soon. How can my parents behave in the village in the future?"
The good sister said to Yuan Jing: "You can't divorce at this time. When you divorce at this time, you will have to bear rumors in the future. He doesn't want to AA system, so you can also AA system with him. The child first If you don’t have a child, you don’t care about his parents. Since he can distinguish it from you so clearly, you have to distinguish it from him, especially your salary and money, don’t spend a penny in your mother-in-law’s house, or spend it on yourself. This stalemate for two or three years, and it’s time to see who will be anxious first.”
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Yuan Jing feels that her best friend’s idea is really not bad Wrong, so she did what her best friend said after returning to her husband's house. In the past two years after marriage, she didn't like the AA system at first, but later she found out that the AA system marriage seemed to be single, and she spent money by herself. She didn't have to consider having a baby or take care of the family. If she wanted to eat outside, she would eat outside. When it was time to get a salary, she would go back to her parents and get some salary to honor her parents. If she had travels, she would plan to leave and she would not need to explain to anyone at all.
Yuan Jing feels that she likes the freedom of AA marriage more and more, but Jiang Heyi feels that this kind of marriage is not good at all after two years of living in AA. She is obviously married but she is like she is not married: her wife does not have children and does not raise her parents-in-law, and she pays her salary to go to her parents' home. He can't afford such a marriage because he is already 31 years old, and his parents are older and have more illnesses. He really needs a wife to take care of his parents, and he needs new offspring to relieve his age anxiety. But the more anxious he was at this time, the more indifferent Yuan Jing was. Anyway, the AA system was not mentioned by her, so what should she be anxious about?
Conclusion:
Jiang Heyi wants to cancel the AA system. He wants to live a marriage life of an ordinary person, but Yuan Jinghao is not happy. She said, "AA system marriage is quite free. I like it very much, I don't want to cancel it."
Jiang Heyi said, "If you don't want to cancel the AA system, you will get divorced." He thought that Yuan Jinghao would definitely be afraid of divorce at such an old age, but Yuan Jinghao said, "Divorce if you divorce. I think that marriage is similar to living a single life anyway."
Jiang Heyi actually doesn't want to divorce because it is not easy to find a divorce at his age, but he doesn't want to continue living an AA system, because he found that he was at a disadvantage in the AA system.
