As the saying goes: Ten miles are different. , the , means that our country has a vast territory and various customs and habits are also different. It is very likely that there will be different customs and habits ten miles apart.
Generally speaking, we will follow the local customs and follow the local customs wherever we go. This is a manifestation of our own education and respect for our masters.
However, some people don’t think so. They always feel that others are deliberately making things difficult for them. Not only does they make themselves unhappy, but they also make others feel upset.
is like this couple. Since the woman married far away, the customs and habits of her husband misunderstood. Because the mother-in-law did not allow the couple to bed together, the man turned around and left in anger, and the wife was also embarrassed about it.
According to the woman, he and her husband were college classmates and got married shortly after graduation.
She married far away, and her husband's house is more than 700 kilometers away from her parents' home. At that time, her family did not agree to this marriage, and she could not resist her children.
When I first got married, my life was not rich, so the woman was taking a car back to her parents' home alone, and her husband never came back with her.
When they were in the 7th year of marriage, the couple bought a car, and their husband went back to their parents' home with her for the first time.
This was originally a very happy thing, but unexpectedly, because of a small matter, it affected the relationship between the couple and made the father-in-law and mother-in-law very angry.
According to the local customs of the woman, regardless of whether she is married or not, the son-in-law and daughter in her parents' home cannot sleep in the same bed and must rest separately.
Because local customs have always been like this, the wife forgot to say hello to her husband in advance. After returning to her parents' home, the mother-in-law directly prepared a set of bedding for her son-in-law and let her rest in a single room.
The woman said: My husband didn't say anything when he was resting at night, so he went back to the room to rest obediently. She slept in another room with her child.
The next morning, my father bought breakfast and asked them to get up for dinner. When the woman went to her husband's room, she found that there was no one on her husband's bed! The quilt is still the same as last night .
When I went out, I saw that my car was gone! She quickly called her husband, but she didn't expect that her husband had left. She didn't live at home last night, but drove to the county town to stay in a hotel!
The parents were very embarrassed to see this and complained that their daughter did not communicate with their son-in-law in advance. The daughter was also very embarrassed. She said: She didn't expect her husband to do this. It might be because her husband misunderstood, so she waited for her to explain.
Netizens said: After marrying such a man, I really don’t know what evil you did in your previous life!
is obvious. Netizens think that this man has done too much. He went to his mother-in-law's house for the first time, so why can't he make do with it overnight? Running away overnight means disrespect for your mother-in-law and her family.
Some netizens also said: When you go to every place, you must respect their customs. Our married daughters here cannot sleep in the same bed when they go back to their parents' home.
As far as the author knows, there are such customs in many places: daughters cannot sleep with their son-in-law when they go back to their parents' home. This custom often occurs in rural areas.
The main reason is that in the past, the rural people were poor and there was no extra house. They were afraid that their daughter and son-in-law would make the mother-in-law feel embarrassed. Sometimes the young couple would feel uncomfortable.
The conditions are better now, and there are fewer such statements. Most people don’t care about this custom. However, the so-called following the customs when you come to other people’s territory, it’s better to follow the guests!
This son-in-law is indeed a little bit petty.
