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Life is alive. What to judge the reason for your existence and the value of existence? Different people have different opinions. In my opinion, the big goal of a person's life, that is, the "mission" often said by Westerners is the reason he exists. The smarter, the more people who are attentive, the more thoughtful and confusion of the whole life during a certain period of time.
Perhaps some people have other ways to solve it, but I think it is the fundamental way to find the goal given to you to achieve it. Everyone's existence is a contract between them and God. If you have great achievements in life, you must pick the contract clearly by themselves. Maybe we don't have to believe in teachings, but there is faith to make people stronger and full of life. People are different from animals because people have faith. People with faith are happy. The life of
is painful on the left and temptations on the right. The biggest pain of many friends is that they don't know what they are suitable for, what they should do, and what way they should go. They are dissatisfied with the status quo and have to sink into reality. What is even more depressed is to look at it. There are too many so -called successful people on the planet. Even the son of the aunt next door, the son who is not a small instrument, now buys more and earn more than me. People are really angry than people.
said to me once: When I only made 1,000 yuan a month last year, watching others earn tens of thousands of yuan, I felt embarrassed. But at that time, I just thought that once I did n’t work, I had to be hungry, and I just rushed to the business. Do n’t mention how depressed loneliness and pain, but think about the life of the five or two shattered silver. It's right. This year, I also earned tens of thousands or even more, but I was panicked than last year. I always think about tens of thousands of months. What should I do if the business does not fall next month, the face will not be lost. Looking at others, it seems that they do better than yourself. I do n’t know when I can catch up with them. Every day, I am very panicked.
asked me what to do? How can we maintain performance and surpass others. I told him how you did 10,000 yuan from 1,000 yuan, just do it repeatedly. But this does not solve your panic. Because when you earn 20,000 yuan or even 100,000 yuan a month, you still have to panic. You will always have a pressure to decline in performance, and people who are stronger than you will always be. Now those who are stronger than you are standing in front of you, but one day you surpass them, and stronger people are still behind. Even if you are strong and make more, can you be better than Bill Gates?
I asked him: What kind of person do you want to do in this life? You die, I hope others will evaluate you? How much money do you want to make? How much time do you want to make this money? How much work should you do every day?
can rest with peace of mind. Because you don't need to compare with others anymore. As long as you do your daily work, your goal will be achieved. What can you panic?
" career plan " is a very popular concept now. In my opinion, the core essentials of professional student progress planning are "starting as the end." In other words, we must first understand your own goals, and then design your way, otherwise the plan is just empty talk, and in a few years, you will feel that the plan has not changed quickly. And many people who work with entrepreneurial ideas and work with their learning mentality often read MBA, learn English, work hard to enter foreign companies, and so on. Of course,
is not bad, but is it necessary for entrepreneurship? And some friends who want to be professional manager or even CEO, stand on this mountain and look at the mountains, and always find that friends and classmates are higher than their own positions and salary. The opportunity wants to change jobs. But in fact, there is no planning and changing career with a low degree of correlation with the target, but it is actually taking more detours. The self -planning of many people in
is just from the status quo. The goal is only better than now. But if you do n’t know what your end point is, it will never be truly satisfied. He will live very tired and very helpless.It is naturally difficult to get true satisfaction and self -confidence in comparison with the situation of others. I advocate a person to measure his growth and progress with his own goals, so that life will be easier and more joyful.
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