html A 157-year-old retired aunt cried: After marrying a 37-year-old man, I feel physically and mentally exhausted every day
Introduction:
Love knows no borders, and love does not distinguish age. Even so, a good relationship must have the same views and be of similar age. , otherwise conflicts will easily arise.
I just learned about the story of a 57-year-old retired aunt remarrying to a 37-year-old young man. Let’s take a look!
7-year-old Aunt Wang’s self-report:
My surname is Wang, I am 57 years old, an old man living alone, and now retired. I come from a divorced family with only one son. But when we got divorced, my first husband didn’t let me take the children away, so I am still considered a lonely old man.
When I was young, I was as beautiful as a flower. I charmed many young men in the village at that time, and they were all willing to bow down to my pomegranate skirt . Because I am overconfident, I have developed a rather arrogant character, and I feel disdainful to everyone I look at.
When I got a little older, I reached the age of marriage. I was the youngest child in the family, and I was surrounded by older brothers. So even though my family conditions were not good at the time, my parents and older brothers loved me extremely. Later, I chose two people, and I chose the one in the village next to my home. This young man was very handsome, and his family conditions were also good. His name was Wenjie.
Wenjie had studied for a few days at that time and was literate, which was already very impressive in the social environment at that time. I also agreed with the marriage, so I agreed. When our husband and wife walked in the village, everyone said that we were both talented and handsome. After arriving at my mother-in-law's house, life was going well. My mother-in-law has the same personality as Wenjie, and is relatively honest and kind, so they usually don't interfere with me.
But the only bad thing is that there is too much farm work at my mother-in-law's house. Because I am a girl in my mother's family, I basically don't go to the fields. I cook and weave nets at home when I have time. I really couldn't bear to be exposed to the wind and sun in the fields for a while, but my mother-in-law's family had a lot of farm work, and she only had Wenjie's son, so there was not enough manpower to do it.
At this time, I just want to be lazy and take a nap at home. Sometimes I even forget to send lunch. They may be hungry and work in the fields all day. At first, they talked to me about this and told me that I couldn't be so willful and that it was okay not to work, but I had to do the housework well.
But I have always been a soft-spoken person, and when Wenjie said this, I became even more unscrupulous. Later, they couldn't bear it anymore, so they just stopped counting on me. They didn't call me when I was working in the fields, or when they were eating. They always make it in the morning and take it to the field for lunch, while I am the only one left at home to sleep in.
Gradually, Wenjie became more and more impatient with me. He just wanted me to find a job to supplement the family income, but my thinking was that a man should raise a woman and take care of her when she is married to the family. ? Originally, I had nothing to do to Wenjie, but coincidentally, I was pregnant at this time, so I had no choice but to rest at home, and I also suffered from morning sickness.
Whenever he saw me suffering from morning sickness, Wenjie thought I was showing off, and I always quarreled with him because of this. Later, I became pregnant in October and gave birth to my son. After I had my son, my mother-in-law helped take care of him and was unable to work in the fields. The family was very busy. Later, when my son grew up, I still didn’t want my mother-in-law to work in the fields and cry and make trouble all day long. Later, Wenjie couldn't bear it anymore and wanted to divorce me. I thought at the time that he would regret it if we just divorced.
I divorced Wenjie just like that. My brother even beat Wenjie up, but he wouldn’t let me take my son away. My brother thought this was not an option, so he found a job for me in a factory in the county. I originally thought Wenjie would regret it, but within half a year, I heard the news that Wenjie had remarried. This time I understood that he really didn't want me anymore.
As I grew older, I thought about the past, and I finally understood how tolerant Wenjie was to me at that time, but I was still angry with him. After all, we were destined to have no connection. I have worked in this factory for more than 20 years, and now I am retired, but a few years ago, I met a man who made my heart beat again.
I remember that I was taking a walk by the river. I didn’t know what I was thinking. I was in a trance. Unexpectedly, a truck came rushing by the roadside and whizzed past. Suddenly I was startled by the truck. My feet slipped and I fell from the road. It fell over the bank and fell into the river. But I didn't know how to swim, so I shouted for help. Originally, I thought my life should be terminated, but at this time my savior suddenly came.
The person who rescued me was a young man. I was already unconscious at the time. I saw a young man jumping into the water, pulling me hard, and swimming to the shore. I held on tightly as if I was grabbing a life-saving straw. He, but now I am in a coma.
After he rescued me, he tried his best to remove the water from my belly. He performed artificial respiration and cardiopulmonary resuscitation on me. Many kind people helped me call an ambulance. He saved me for a long time and it wasn't until I spit out the water in my belly that he left with peace of mind. I saw his handsome face at that time, but after a while he turned around and left, and I passed out.
When I woke up, I was already in the hospital. During the observation period, I kept thinking about him. I knew I was attracted, but in my memory, this young man was very handsome and not very old. After I was discharged from the hospital, I asked the police uncle to find this young man who acted bravely for justice. I was very grateful to him, but it seemed that he was not surprised by the bravery for justice.
In order to express my gratitude, I invited him to dinner, but he kept refusing. After my repeated pleas, he agreed. During our chat, I learned that he was only in his thirties and his name was Awen. Awen plays computer games. After all, he always goes out to play games, so he never has a girlfriend. I found out his address and left his contact information after our dinner.
In the days to come, I always called Awen and helped her cook and deliver meals. Although he was sometimes very impatient with me, he could tell how much I thought about him. He told me that he is an orphan without a father or mother, but he has a career he loves, which is e-sports. I support him, and I support a young man with dreams like him. Later, we became accustomed to each other. I proposed the idea of getting married, and Awen agreed, but he said he couldn't give me what I wanted, but I didn't think it mattered, as long as I could see Awen every day.
But after getting married, Awen not only stayed away from home all night, but also drank and played mahjong every day. I think all e-sports players were deceived by him. Although he is not an e-sports player, he is obsessed with video games and would clamor for me to buy him the latest gaming equipment every day.
Gradually, all my savings were spent, and there was nothing I could do about it. I just liked Awen, even though he separated from me after marriage, didn’t eat with me, stayed out every night, and often played games until midnight, making me sleep. Not. But I still don't have the courage to separate from him, but days like this make me physically and mentally exhausted every day.
Conclusion:
Although love is very important in relationships, you cannot be blinded by the so-called love and cannot recognize what you want. This ends
’s sharing today! Do you think Aunt Wang is a love brain? Welcome to leave a message below!
