When you are eating, someone deliberately avoids slapping you. In these three ways, hits the villain in the face!
Since ancient times, dinner has been an important occasion for us to communicate with each other. In such an occasion with intensive interpersonal relationships but a relatively relaxed environment, it is relatively easy for us to contact, communicate and consolidate feelings, and close deals with customers, thereby obtaining a new cooperation and development opportunity for ourselves, or adding to our achievements.
In this kind of meal, because of the intensive interpersonal relationships, there will be more social behaviors than usual. There are many details in these communicative behaviors that we need to deal with. Only by handling the details of these communicative behaviors can the goal be achieved more easily. During the meal, some small changes are easy to occur, which require us to handle them flexibly.
For example, sometimes, some people don’t like to deal with us very much, and they will make some small moves against us at dinner parties. These are some small changes in communicative behavior. You must know how to deal with it flexibly and use the following three methods to easily resolve such small changes and slap the villain in the face.
First, take the initiative to retaliate
When eating, if we see someone we don’t deal with smoking and circling around the table, but not seeing us, we can know that there is a high probability that the other person will make us stumble and want to embarrass us. In this case, there is no need for us to confront him directly and reprimand him loudly for not giving us cigarettes, because this is detrimental to our dignity.
We can hold our breath for a while, and then stand up and toast. Everyone will toast, but they don’t respect him, or pour you wine or smoke, but they won’t give it to him. This is taking the initiative to retaliate, retaliate in the other party's way, let the other party know that we are not just provoking it, slap him in the face, and the other party will not do this again next time.
Second, ask others for cigarettes
When the other party deliberately refuses to give us a cigarette, if most of the people present have a good relationship with us, we can directly say "Who has a cigarette?" At this time, many people will speak out, Pass us cigarettes. If someone with a good relationship and good eyesight will come and light the lamp with us, then the small trick of the other party responding and watching us pay will be ineffective.
And this method also slaps the other party hard in the face, because the other party's plan failed, but he saw many people who had a good relationship with him, which would be his own embarrassment. However, this method requires the cooperation of people around you who have a good relationship with you and some friends who know the taste better.
Third, ignore it
Finally, the last resort to deal with someone else's deliberate silence is to ignore his little actions. When the other person jumps over us, we can calmly take out our cigarettes and smoke them ourselves. When the other party sees that we are not affected by his move, we will feel uncomfortable and this move will be ruined.
And this calm demeanor can be seen by people around us, and people around us will also look at us with admiration. We show grace and the other party shows pettiness. In this way, everyone will be closer to us and further away from each other. This kind of retreat is sometimes better and more effective than taking the initiative to retaliate. This small change can attract connections worth making.
Therefore, at a dinner party, if someone deliberately refuses to give us a cigarette, we can use the above three methods, such as directly taking the initiative to retaliate, treating the other person in his own way, or asking for cigarettes from the people around us, from the side Break the situation, or ignore or retreat. On the contrary, you can get high praise from people around you, win better results, and give the villain a slap in the face.
