Love is beautiful but also cruel.
What kind of ending you will have, the key lies in whether you can meet the right person.
We are in love with each other, appreciate each other, and cherish each other... When two people like this are together, a lot of sweetness will be added to the ordinary time. Walking side by side and arm in arm, I believe that the future will be promising.
But on the contrary, if the person you meet is not as caring as you are, or even just wants to "have fun", then no matter how much you give, you will get nothing in the end.
In the final analysis, love is a consensual thing. Only when both parties recognize each other from the bottom of their hearts can this relationship develop.
When a man is deeply involved in a relationship, the one thing he worries about most is being deceived.
Who is not afraid of paying for it with all his heart and losing everything in the end?
Men actually need to protect themselves in relationships. At least you must stay awake enough to recognize whether the person in front of you is really worth your unreserved devotion.
If a woman has been unwilling to give her "sincerity" to you since she was with you, then I advise you not to waste it anymore. Women like
are actually very easy to distinguish. They usually have these characteristics.
I will only look for you when I need you
A woman who truly loves you, even if she won’t hang around you all the time, she will at least miss you from time to time.
Missing this thing is not something that can be controlled by humans. It is like a seed. Once it is sown in your heart, it will naturally take root and sprout.
Since the heart belongs to someone, it must have something to think about.
A woman who loves you will definitely come to you often. Even if there is nothing going on, just simply talking or chatting with you, as long as you can understand her lovesickness, she will feel extremely satisfied and happy.
But a woman who pretends to love you will rarely act like this. Because she doesn't have you in her heart at all, she won't miss you at all, let alone want to see you.
Unless something happens to her, and at this time, you happen to be the most convenient person for her to manipulate.
At this moment, she will come to you without hesitation, show you some false feelings, and then go straight to the point and tell you what she needs you to do.
And because you love her too much, you often agree without thinking too much, and then diligently complete the tasks she assigned you.
But after this incident is over, you will find that she starts to become cold and indifferent again, and rarely comes to you on the initiative. A woman like
has actually never been sincere towards you at all. The reason why she chooses to maintain this subtle relationship with you is simply because she thinks you are valuable, nothing more.
Stop obsessing and leave her as soon as possible.
never consider your feelings
Love will make people grow.
When a woman falls in love with you from the bottom of her heart, she will definitely try to understand you and tolerate you.
Because she cares about this relationship very much, she doesn’t want to argue with you, she doesn’t want you to feel uncomfortable, and she doesn’t want the two of you to have less and less common language.
She will work hard to maintain your face in front of outsiders. If there is a conflict, she will try to talk it out at home and will never lose her temper outside.
She will try her best to consider the problem from your perspective and respect your preferences and ideas, rather than saying that it is not good if she thinks it is not good.
She will discuss with you and refer to your opinions before making a decision, instead of just doing whatever she wants.
Such a woman loves you, loves you, respects you, and is worth cherishing with your heart.
And there is a kind of woman who never considers your feelings and always does whatever she wants.
When she gets angry, she will throw random tantrums at you. Even if there are many people around and embarrass you, she doesn't care as long as she feels comfortable.
doesn’t know what you like at all. Everything is judged by her preferences. You have to do whatever she asks you to do.
will not ask your opinion when making any decision. As long as she makes up her mind, you can only agree. A woman like
is actually more than just willful.
In the final analysis, she has never really loved you in her heart. She only loves herself from beginning to end.
refuses to talk to you about the future
The more you love someone, the more you will think long term.
Because the current happiness can no longer satisfy her inner desire, what she wants is to be happy with you forever.
When a woman falls in love with you from the bottom of her heart, she will often talk to you about the future.
What kind of city do you want to settle in, what type of job do you want to have, what kind of romantic and warm wedding do you want, and even want to have a boy or a girl...
These things may not be enough for you right now. Some were far away, but they all began to appear in her mind early on.
Because she has already regarded you as her lifelong companion, and you are included in all her settings for the future.
She hopes that you can accompany her all the way.
In stark contrast, is the woman who never wants to talk to you about the future.
Not only will she not take the initiative to mention it to you, she will show strong resistance every time you make the slightest move.
Maybe you didn’t understand at first and thought she just wasn’t ready yet.
But over time you will understand that it is not that she is not prepared, but that she has no such idea at all.
For her, you are not the person who can accompany her to the future together, because she has never really loved you.
She will be with you for a while, just to be greedy for this momentary happiness. When the passion dissipates, she will naturally leave you.
Loving someone is nothing more than wanting to be sincere for sincerity, stay with each other, and rush to a happy ending together.
But if the other person has never thought about giving you sincerity, then your efforts are meaningless.
Don't waste your time anymore. Since she doesn't love you, then you should love yourself.
