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Everyone you meet in a relationship may not necessarily give you the results you want; everyone you meet in a relationship may not love you to the end.
What you expect is that because of acquaintance and falling in love, there will be a perfect ending. That is just your ideal.
Some people can bring you temporary happiness and warmth, but they cannot give you a lifetime of companionship or the promise of marriage.
It’s not that the more two people love each other, the two will get married. It’s not that the more two people love each other, the two will be able to overcome various problems in life.
Sometimes, the reason why love is defeated by life is not because you don’t love each other enough, but because you love each other too much. People who are too obsessed with love are prone to obsession, and people who are too obsessed with love are prone to losing. Beloved.
The love we met when we were young may not necessarily come to the end, because you were both young enough at that time, and you were both arrogant enough at that time.
You will not bow your head for anyone. When you understand that face and self-esteem are not important in love, you have completely lost him.
Some people say: "It is not a good thing if people meet too early."
If they meet too early, the two of them cannot bear this relationship and this love, and the two finally break up.
When you lost him for the first time, you didn't understand what he meant to you.
Some people you lose in your life will never meet again in your life. The people you once loved with great excitement will never have such passionate feelings again in the future.
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Perhaps the person you loved deeply when you were young will make you never forget it, will make you think about it all your life, and will make you think about it day and night.
He is the scar in your memory, he is the black hole in your heart, he is your husband's meditation song, but you will never have the chance to meet again.
You also listen to the psychological advice of people who have experienced it. You think that when you are in love, you should be with the person you like; when you get married, you should be with the right person. This is the truth of life. It seems that if you do this, it must be right. .
When you really get married, you find that the marriage is longer than you thought. That person is just suitable for you, but you find countless shortcomings in him, but you can't tolerate him.
You don’t love him, so he has no filter, and he doesn’t have any shining points. When you realize that entering this loveless marriage is so lonely and cold, you find that you can’t go back in life. .
You pinned your disappointment in your marriage and your husband on the person you liked when you were a teenager.
When you can't bear the reality of life, you will be ready to contact him if you want to.
You even think that your current unhappy life is all caused by him. If he didn't break up with you and married you, he wouldn't let you live like this.
You will still complain to him in the bottom of your heart, how can he let go of your hand, how can he allow another man to do this to you.
You thought he would still be waiting for you where you are, but in fact he has forgotten you a long time ago.
The little thoughts in your heart and the hotline you want to contact are all just wishful thinking on your part.
Even if you want to have a relationship with him, your relationship is no longer legitimate, because you both have your own families.
For those who have loved before, let them leave it in the past. Although old love is unforgettable, renewing old love will only make reality more hurtful.
People who once loved each other but are no longer husband and wife should choose to break off the relationship. It would be better for both of them.
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Since the person you missed is already in your life, let each other return to the right position, and let each other choose to be calm and calm about the past feelings.
In this life, there will be a lot of regrets and a lot of dissatisfaction. What you miss and what you want may not come true.
Feelings will make people mature and grow up overnight, let you understand the helplessness of life, and let you know the hardships and difficulties of life.
The person who you thought would give you happiness at the beginning left you midway, and the person who will stay by your side forever turned out to be the first to leave.
So there is nothing to regret, nothing to feel wronged. Everyone has their own hardships and helplessness in life, but many people have chosen to bury it in their hearts.
When women are young, they always regard love as too important, even more important than their career, their original family, and their own happiness.
The love you value is just an experience and an encounter in a man's eyes.
You always think that the other person is too important, and you always overestimate the other person's feelings for you. You will easily make wrong judgments in life. You reserve a place for the other person in your heart, but the other person may not necessarily Still thinking about you.
People who are always trapped in place by their emotions cannot live their lives well. Women who can live their lives well have the courage to look forward.
No matter what kind of emotional twists and turns you go through, no matter you are abandoned, let down, or hurt, don’t underestimate your work. Working hard is how you seek blessings and confidence for your life.
People who have missed each other, people who have been buried deep in their hearts, people who are destined to never be husband and wife, no matter how deeply they love each other, don’t contact them anymore. It’s better to completely cut off contact and give each other a little purity in their lives.
If the person doesn’t belong to you, don’t think about it anymore. If the happiness doesn’t belong to you, don’t forget about it anymore.
Only when you manage your life well can you live your life well. Don't bury your life and delay your happiness in this life for any man. It's really not worth it.
We love each other until we can't be husband and wife in the end. Choosing to "cut off the relationship" is the best result. Let us forget each other in the wind, the rain, and the rivers and lakes!
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