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As the title says: The key to maintaining a marriage is not feelings but money and materials. How can such a marriage last long?
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Marriage itself is the happiest thing in a person's life. It is the first of the four happy events, but today's marriage can be said that many people's marriage itself is just a money transaction. As for There isn’t really much emotion! Loyalty between husband and wife is almost negligible. As long as the daily expenses of the family are not affected, in fact, it does not matter too much whether the husband returns home as his wife!
In fact, the marriage of our grandparents and fathers may not be the happiest to us now, because their marriage was not the most suitable, there were quarrels, and there were thoughts of divorce! But it was just a thought and an angry word. The kind of loyalty between husband and wife is that they will fight and quarrel for a lifetime and never get divorced! At that time, you could marry a wife with a cow, a sheep, two pairs of bedding, a TV, and a bicycle, and there was no such bad habit of deliberately asking for betrothal gifts and dowries! On the contrary, there has been a simple life without divorce or cheating. Moreover, most of the older generation still need to rent a house after getting married. Making only more than ten yuan a month is really a meal. I haven’t downloaded it, but even though it’s been so hard, I haven’t seen anyone get divorced after less than a year of marriage!
Looking back at today’s marriage, is it still desirable and obsessed with people? Before dating, boyfriends and girlfriends are willing to be together because they know their family backgrounds. In other words, if you are a pauper, you may not even have the right to pursue girls! Nowadays, the first conditions for falling in love and getting married are a house, a car, money, whether your parents have pensions, etc. You will find that almost three sentences are inseparable from money and material things! In essence, this kind of marriage is not about interacting with people but about money. This is why today's marriages are so unstable and divorces occur endlessly!
Yesterday I saw a news story about a newlywed couple who were about to get divorced after less than a year of marriage. The man’s parents squatted on the street and cried bitterly, saying that the money for their children’s wedding was all borrowed, but they didn’t expect that it would only be less than a year. I'm about to get divorced, and the 400,000 I spent before is wasted. Even if I can get it back, it means that there will be no room for relaxation after the breakup!
I don’t know what went wrong. The pure love and mutual affection of husband and wife in the past may not be easy to see among the younger generation. In the future, it will not be the divorce rate but the problem that young people may not be willing to do. If you get married, it will be a cohabitation relationship at most!
The keywords corresponding to the current marriage are: high betrothal gifts, heavy burdens, great pressure on the man, high expenses, etc. It seems that the woman who lives together has an attitude towards marriage that it has nothing to do with it. All expenses are borne by the man’s family. Come and bear it! As for the woman, she is like a princess. She only needs to come to the wedding beautifully, and she also needs to prepare everything she needs for life. How long does it take for a working-class family to earn one million! I don’t know, but when it comes to how long it will take to spend one million, it might be spent on just one wedding! A house, a car, a wedding banquet, a master of ceremonies, a wedding car, hardware and jewelry, all the miscellaneous items required amounted to around a million! But how long can a young marriage last if everything is prepared? One year, two years or three years! In short, wanting to grow old together is too difficult for today’s young people!
Previous marriages were like aged wine, the older it got, the richer it became.But today's marriage is more like eating fast food. You can eat it for a few days if you like it. When you get tired of it, you can stop eating it or switch to another restaurant! He also has an indifferent attitude toward feelings!
I believe that the number of young people getting married will continue to increase, because ordinary families cannot afford a wedding, and even children in a country cannot bear to spend half of their parents’ life savings on their own happiness. This is still a high-risk, low-reward behavior! If the woman is dissatisfied after the marriage, she may just say "divorce". In the end, the man will lose both his life and property! Even the money you spent before may not be able to get back all!
