When I was young, I was always imaginative. When I went out to drink with friends, I would talk about everything. I would brag from time to time. Since we are friends, we all just laugh it off. By middle age, I have lost the free and easy way I used to be. With the added pressure

When I was young, I was always imaginative. When I went out to drink with my friends, I would talk about everything. I would brag from time to time. Since we were friends, everyone just laughed it off.

When I got to middle age, I lost the balance I had back then. Free and easy, with the added pressure of life, most of the time drinking is not just for the sake of being with friends, but more for the sake of human connection.

At the wine table of middle-aged men, it is difficult to distinguish who are true friends. Who are the real villains? Maybe you offended someone with your unintentional and harmless words.

Especially some people will show off in all kinds of ways when they drink. This can easily make people at the same table uncomfortable and lead to the consequences later. Being targeted, as a mature middle-aged man, you must remember to keep silent about these four things when drinking.

1. Drinking to show off your wealth.

They all say that wealth should not be exposed, but some people have a little money in their pockets. , just want to let everyone in the world know "I am rich"

And showing off your wealth at the wine table may arouse the jealousy of some mean people, who may go out to say bad things about you after drinking, causing Some unnecessary troubles

On the other hand, if you meet a real rich boss at the wine table, you may be just a country bumpkin in the eyes of the boss, and he will lose interest in you in the business world in the future

2 Showing off your connections

is somewhat People, after just one glass of wine, start to show off, saying that they know a certain leader, what big things their relatives and children are doing, how capable they are, and even exaggerate or make up people and things that don’t exist

Maybe this will make some people think You are very good, and I can find people to do things through you in the future, but it is inevitable that others will try to trick you, which will not only affect you, but also affect your impression in the network. It is said that drinking is a very particular thing, and some people with a good reputation will ask people to drink Moutai, Wuliangye and so on. The drinks are not necessarily the best, but if they are the most expensive

sometimes they are When someone invites you to drink, you will always brag about how many expensive wines you have drunk, and you will always discuss the wine based on the price, which invisibly gives people a very unpleasant feeling. Others may even think that you don’t understand wine at all

because you really do. Anyone who drinks wine knows that price is not the only criterion for judging good wine. For example, although the price of Lai Zhengheng

is less than one-tenth of that of Moutai, it still does not affect the fact that it is a high-quality sauce-flavored liquor , just because it does not have the same quality as Moutai. Moutai promotes it vigorously, but it lacks popularity. It’s just

4. In the past,

was said to have made a gaffe after drinking. After three glasses of wine, there are always people who start to tell people about their past in a daze, as if they have done many great things. , how amazing it is. If it weren’t for some reason, it wouldn’t be the same now. When people around you hear it, they may think that you are bragging and that you are probably an unreliable person. Naturally, they will not be unreliable if they get any business in the future. Cooperation with people who are not good at it

Another way is that it is easy for others to get hold of you, which may seriously affect your career

For middle-aged men, the wine table is also a battlefield. If you want to have both sides, you must learn how to play both ways. Observe what is said, say what should be said, and keep silent about what should not be said