Text | Xue Luo Wuchen Love is very romantic, very warm, and very happy. Everyone longs for love, but not everyone will experience love, and it doesn't mean that as long as you fall in love, you will hold hands for a lifetime and grow old together. A lot of love in the world is un

text | Xueluo Wuchen

Love is very romantic, very warm, and very happy. Everyone longs for love, but not everyone will experience love, and it doesn't mean that as long as you fall in love, you will hold hands for a lifetime and grow old together.

A lot of love in the world is unavailable and full of regrets.

As Madeleine de Scudery said: "Love is an unpredictable guy. It desires everything, but is dissatisfied with almost everything."

In the depth of love, people are lonely, and love All the vicissitudes of life will be spent when you are poor. A man and a woman are in love but cannot be together, which can only make them sad.

Therefore, love that no one can see can only be witnessed by time. The pain that no one can understand can only be solved by living.

In fact, if the person you love doesn’t love you anymore, you can let it go after reading the following sentences.

01

No matter who leaves, the life will be the same. There is no need to get entangled.

Some feelings are destined to "stop at the lips and teeth, covered by the years."

Everyone’s appearance time and order are different, which means that our positions in relationships are destined to be different. Some people are the protagonists in the play, while some people can only watch and sigh.

So in relationships, you should be open-minded. Since it is a destined script, there is no need to explain too much. Because no matter who leaves, everyone can live the same life, so there is no need to get confused.

Fan Xiaoxuan was born in a single-parent family. Her mother was only 17 years old when she was born, and her father was only 19 years old. The father chose to escape and left the mother and daughter alone.

Fan Xiaoxuan and her mother live in her grandmother's house. You can imagine how difficult life is.

Perhaps it is due to the single-parent family. Fan Xiaoxuan's personality is somewhat introverted, but very obedient. Her mother even placed her unfinished musical dream on her.

Her mother tried her best to support her in conservatory. Fan Xiaoxuan worked hard and strived hard, constantly accepting advertisements, filming movies, and performing various concerts...

The good days gradually began, and her life became increasingly busy, but Fan Xiaoxuan suffered from depression. . She started wearing heavy makeup, getting her ears pierced, and wearing fancy clothes.

But through all this, her boyfriend Zhou Junwei spent time with him, always comforting and enlightening her. Later, her life became more and more outrageous and she couldn't accept her girlfriend's strange behavior, so Zhou Junwei broke up with her.

Despite the pressure of breaking up, Fan Xiaoxuan finally got out of depression with her own strength.

In "The Adventure of Life", she said: "I used to want to say something and prove myself. But now I feel that these are not important. Whether others understand or not, you still have to live your own life."

Her mother once said to Fan Xiaoxuan with tears in her eyes: "Daughter, you will always be the best."

And Fan Xiaoxuan said to her mother: "Thank you, Mom, for the affirmation you gave me, it is never too late."

Fan Xiaoxuan gradually walked out of the world. Darkness embraces the world.

Nowadays, although Fan Xiaoxuan is no longer famous in the music scene, she has taught us to be loyal to our hearts and find ourselves when facing the rolling torrent of the world.

If a person's mood is relieved, it will be like a breeze. No matter how unforgettable it is, even the oaths made by each other will disappear with the breeze.

Those thoughts that linger in place and indulge in the past, those missed and unbearable memories will become lessons, making your future life more calm and calm.

Just like Fu Seoul said: "Nothing should belong to you, so if you lose it, just feel a little sad. Regret is normal."

There are some things that you may not be able to let go of today. After experiencing it for several years In the future, when you look back on the past, he will be nothing more than that. Many things may not be forgotten, but time will fade everything.

In life, moving forward is a sea of ​​stars, and looking back, you have crossed countless ravines.You think it is difficult, but the difficulty has also changed with every update.

Organize your thoughts before going to bed, and wake up to be reborn.

02

It is yours and will always belong to you. If it is not yours, I cannot force it to come.

In a person's life, feelings are difficult to figure out. We came together because of our love. But many times, it is not the people who love each other who can go through a lifetime.

The people who belong to you in your destiny will come back to you after going round and round, but the people who do not belong to you have nothing to do with you no matter how much you struggle with them.

Just like Zhou Libo said: "The most beautiful love in the world is the courage to pay for someone. Even if you are injured, you will have no regrets."

If you love someone deeply, you can't change it. So, if you don't love, break up. You won't get happiness by forcing it, and you might meet the luck of your life as soon as you turn around.

One day, you will find that your luck is not so bad. The reason why you were melancholy before was all because you couldn't think about things alone. From now on, everything disappears and the sun shines brightly.

Love itself is a thing that is difficult to grasp, and being able to meet it is also a kind of fate. Even if we can't move forward side by side in the future, we still want to bless each other.

03

Only by letting yourself go can you live freely

The biggest "prison" in the world is the human heart.

If you get entangled, your whole world will be in turmoil; if you let go of the thought, your whole destiny will be at ease.

Sometimes when you let go of things, you also let yourself go. If you continue to dwell on it, nothing will change in the end, and you will become haggard because of it.

When Ni Ping and Chen Kaige divorced, because she had no money to treat her son, she ran to Feng Xiaogang and knelt down with a plop: "Brother, give me a role! Help me."

Feng Xiaogang He said that there was no drama suitable for Ni Ping, but he could lend her 200,000 yuan to treat her child.

Ni Ping’s life since then has been on the road to treating her son’s illness. As the child's condition improved, the resentment against Chen Kaige gradually faded away.

She began to let herself go. The last time she saw a doctor for her son abroad, the doctor told Ni Ping that she didn't need to come again until the child got married.

Ni Ping burst into tears after hearing this. She felt that so many years of thought were not in vain.

Ni Ping lives a happy life now. Although her past was very sad, including emotional betrayal, career decline, and helpless life, it has all passed.

Matsushita Yuki supported and said: "Don't be trapped by your own emotions, be able to adapt to changes. I think this is a very important way to live in the world."

Feelings, whether they are deep and profound, or irreversible, deserve one What one passes through must be faced alone.

Everything is destined. Everyone's time with you is limited. When it comes time to leave, even if you are reluctant to say goodbye, you must not say goodbye.

Feelings are feelings after all. It is not about working in a factory. Signing a contract can be a life-long contract. Feelings are something that happens as they happen. It is a situation that no one can control.

Two people are in love, but cannot be together. I hope you will remember this.

Since the fate can no longer be renewed, return the person to the sea of ​​​​people, let the flowers become flowers and the trees become trees. As long as you can afford to take it up and let it go, you will love and hate it as it happens, dare to love and hate.

Life is a long road, but it will eventually end. Maybe no one will love you all the time, but you will always have love in your heart. It is this love that will strengthen your pace in life, give you courage and strength, and make you live a better life.