Education is a person's moral cultivation reflected in his behavior.
In life, we think that those who are polite, modest, steady, and enthusiastic about helping others are educated people.
This is more or less affected by the first impression, "The stranger is like jade, and the young master is unparalleled." As a man, being as gentle as jade is part of his character, but it may not necessarily be a reflection of his upbringing.
Education is reflected in many details, every word and deed, every movement and stillness, and it is a long-term and stable manifestation of temperament.
"Tell people what they say when you see them, and tell lies when you see ghosts." People are good at pretending, and "educated" will not become a mantra. People who are self-aware will not dare to label themselves as moral models.
Education is moral cultivation and behavioral habits. It is very simple to judge whether a man is well-educated. It can be seen from his family relationships.
Likhachev once said:
Whether a person is truly educated or not, we must first see how he behaves at home and among his relatives, and how his relationship with his relatives is.
If a man is quite a gentleman outside, he can open the door for a lady, take the initiative to help her carry heavy things, and provide enthusiastic service and help, but at home, he is too lazy to say "Thank you for your hard work" to his wife, and would rather stay at home. I don't want to share the housework with my wife in the sofa. So this man still has certain upbringing flaws.
If a man is smiling, humble and polite when communicating with outsiders, but at home he always criticizes and gets angry at his wife and children, then he is definitely not an educated person.
If a man is indifferent to his family, doesn't understand his wife's preferences, and doesn't want to worry about his children, and just takes care of everything and ignores it, then he is still far away from the word "education".
If a man cannot be filial and considerate to his parents, and takes nibbling and demanding for granted, then he is not an educated person.
I once came into contact with a man's family:
The man's eyes when he looked at his family were always gentle and encouraging. There were occasional arguments, but never quarrels.
The children are smart and cute, the women are elegant and decent, the parents are kind and kind, and the family is happy together.
In the morning, the woman and her mother-in-law prepare breakfast, and the man is responsible for washing and tidying up the children.
In the evening, the man helped the children with their homework, while the woman read a book. The old man watched TV with the door closed and turned the TV sound to the lowest level.
As a family, they are always talking, laughing, discussing, communicating frequently and are good at communication.
A husband will not yell at his wife, a wife will not be hysterical about her children, and a mother-in-law will not be picky about her daughter-in-law.
A man is the backbone of a family. An educated man must have a simple family tradition. Living in such a family, although ordinary, is full of happiness.
A well-educated man will respect every family member, even young children, and is willing to take the time to understand and communicate, and will assist the children's growth with an equal attitude.
Educated people are willing to respect others, whether they are dignitaries or common people, outsiders or family members, old or young, they will treat them equally.
Educated people do not easily disturb others, know how to cherish other people's time, take care of other people's self-esteem, and do not gossip or care about people's rights and wrongs.
Educated people are also people who pay attention to commitments. They will try their best to do things they promise others, keep their promises and value friendship.
An educated person is personable and elegant at any time and place. His actions, clothes, walking posture, and smiling eyes are all measured. Whether at home, at work, or in public places, he is always calm and easy-going.
An educated man values his behavior and self-cultivation, treats his family with a responsible attitude, treats the world with a prudent attitude, and has a heart of awe and compassion.
A man's upbringing can be seen from his family relationships.
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