Introduction Whether you are a man or a woman, you must cherish your marriage and be loyal to it. Never betray your marriage or do anything to disappoint the other person, otherwise you will not have a good life when the time comes. You will end up regretting it, so you must have

Introduction

Regardless of whether you are a man or a woman, you must cherish your marriage and be loyal to it. Never betray your marriage or do anything to disappoint the other person, otherwise you will not have the same fate when the time comes. It will end badly, and it will make you regret it endlessly, so you must have a conscience as a person.

Also, even if you live alone, don't easily agree to the confession of the opposite sex, because some people have their own purposes, so you must be cautious to avoid being deceived.

A 67-year-old man said frankly: "When faced with the opposite sex's active confession, sticking to the bottom line allowed me to escape."

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67-year-old Uncle Xie

I am 67 years old this year, my surname is Xie, I am retired from a state-owned enterprise, and I received a pension of 7,000 yuan after retirement, so I am considered an old man with good conditions.

Now I have been retired for seven years, and my children have all started families, so I don’t have to worry about anything now, I just need to enjoy my old age.

Logically speaking, I lived quite comfortably in my later years, but in fact I was not happy at all, especially after my wife passed away. I felt lonely every day and life was very boring.

Later, in order to prevent myself from being so depressed every day, I chose to do something that I liked, because only in this way can I pass the time and make me forget those sad things. But who would have thought that after living alone for a long time, my health became worse and worse, and I became more and more insecure. Later, I really couldn't stand this kind of life, so I chose to go to my children's home for retirement.

Although I have never thought about relying on my children before, in order to spend my old age with peace of mind, I can only do this. Moreover, my children are very filial, so I believe that I can live happily in their home.

But what I didn’t expect was that after living in their home for two years, I regretted coming to live with them because my daughter-in-law has a very strong opinion of me, and she only speaks well when she needs money from me. Talk to me when you are angry, otherwise you will usually yell, so after I came to their house, I felt aggrieved, and the money on hand became less and less, because I had to bear the living expenses every month, even my grandson I also have to help pay for the tuition fees.

My son was very distressed when he saw that I had paid so much, but he did not dare to persuade his daughter-in-law, because her daughter-in-law has a very bad temper. Once she mentioned her, her daughter-in-law would get angry, so in order to avoid these things from happening, my son only It allows me to endure grievances.

But I am a human being, and I cannot live this kind of aggrieved life every day. Later, I also chose to move away from my son’s house. After returning to my hometown, my life was not so aggrieved, and I instantly felt a lot less stressed. There is no need to pay them monthly pension, so I think leaving their home is the right choice.

Although I have my children with me, I will not be so lonely in my later years, but my son and daughter-in-law are not reliable, so in order to avoid being greedy for money by them, I think it is better not to go to their house, so as to save myself the grievances.

In order to live my old age well, I will choose to dance in the square during the day, play chess with friends, or go to parties. As long as I arrange my time enough, I will not be bored, and I will feel bored anyway. Life is interesting, so I was basically happy at that time.

Later, I also met many friends through these entertainment projects, so I was not lonely at all in my later years. At that time, I also met a woman who was two years younger than me. Her surname was Mei. She played very well with me, and her personality and hobbies were very similar to ours, so I enjoyed spending time with her. We also became good friends after that.

But what I didn’t expect was that after getting along with Xiaomei for a while, I found that she was very kind to me, and the kind of kindness she treated me was not the kindness between friends, but the kindness between a wife and her husband. , she would always greet me and care about me, and would come to my house to take care of me when I was sick, so she was really nice, and I was deeply touched by her behavior at that time.

But later I found out that she was not that simple, and she didn’t approach me just to be my friend, because she always inquired about my conditions, and she always tried to trick me into asking how much property I had, and she also asked me What do children do?

I didn’t pay much attention to it at first, but as time went by, I always felt that he was like checking the household registration, and things were not that simple, so slowly I started to be wary of her, but she didn’t notice me. Despite being on guard against her, she developed feelings for me and even wanted to be with me.

She also hinted at me many times at that time, but I ignored her because I didn't like her. I just treated her as a friend. And since she inquired about me, I felt that she was not a good person, even if I liked her. It's impossible for her to be with her.

But who would have thought that after she found out about my conditions, her attitude toward me became better and better. She even often told others that I was her significant other, and that I promised to marry her, or that she was just showing off to others. There was a rich man. At that time, all the sisters around her were envious of her and felt that she had fallen in love with a rich man, so they all praised her for her greatness. After hearing this, she felt very happy and also I feel amazing.

In order to be with me smoothly, she often courted me, but I didn't pay much attention to it. And I also told her that I didn't like her and don't be so sentimental, but she didn't take it to heart at all, and it was still the same. Keep pursuing me.

Later, one time he or she confessed to me directly in front of many people. I was very confused at the time, and then I said to her directly: "You know that I will reject you, and I also told you that I don't like it. You, why do you still confess to me? It would be embarrassing if I rejected you on the spot, so why should you?"

She said: "I don't care, I will be with you, because I like you and want to be with you. Legally married, as long as you are willing to marry me, I will take good care of you and treat you sincerely."

Although what she said was very touching, I still refused because I had never thought about remarrying, and I knew her feelings. The purpose, she just wants to get my money, so I can't let her succeed, but who knows that after I rejected her, she didn't give up, or she still tried every means to be with me?

In order to be with me, she once called me in the middle of the night and said that she had played out too late alone and drank a lot of wine. She wanted me to pick her up. In order to prevent her from having an accident, I had no choice but to I went to pick her up, but unexpectedly after taking her home, she kept blocking my hand and refused to let me leave. Later, I could only stay with her for one night.

But the next day, she asked me to be responsible for her, and said that if I was irresponsible, she would tell the story and embarrass me.

I'm not afraid of her threats because I didn't touch her, and then I went directly back to my home. Unexpectedly, after returning to my home, she actually ran out and told others that I got her and she was irresponsible and harmed her. As soon as I went out, I was called a scumbag by others. At that time, I was so angry that I didn't expect that she was such a person. In order to clarify this matter, I kept explaining, but no matter how much I explained, it was useless, because I had already gone to her house that night and didn't come back all night, so even if I jumped into the Yellow River , I couldn't clean it up.

But from then on, I never dared to associate with her again because I thought she was too bad, so I decided to cut off the relationship. After cutting off the relationship with her, she soon found a new target and even cheated her. She stole 500,000 from others. When I learned about this, I felt very lucky and glad that I had not been fooled by her. Otherwise, I would definitely regret it and harm myself.

Therefore, in your later years, when faced with such people who take the initiative to express their love, you must refuse, otherwise you will really be deceived, and you will also lose your property.

Conclusion

Fortunately, this old man decisively rejected the opposite sex’s active confession, otherwise he would definitely lose a lot of money, because this woman only confessed to this old man for money, but fortunately, this old man has the qualifications to see this clearly. The true face of a woman, so I didn’t believe him easily, otherwise I would definitely regret it.