Author: My fifth-floor colleague Xiao Yu has been very distressed recently. She got married at the end of last year, and now she is getting divorced. Based on the concept of persuading reconciliation but not divorce, we all advised her to think carefully. But after listening to X

Author: Five-layer

My colleague Xiao Yu has been very distressed recently. She just got married at the end of last year, and now she is getting divorced.

Based on the concept of persuading reconciliation but not divorce, we all advised her to think carefully.

I have heard Yu Yu’s story. I think there are many beautiful things in life, and there is no need for her to hug a tree with evil intentions.

The incident happened two months after Yu Yu’s marriage. Since Yu Yu’s husband was in his second marriage, his ex-wife had a son with him. Therefore, the mother-in-law lives with them on weekdays and mainly helps take care of the children.

At first, Yu Xiao thought it was a good thing. It was really difficult for her, a stepmother, to take care of her children. But as time went by, some of my mother-in-law's words and deeds became more and more unacceptable to me.

For example, the mother-in-law was afraid that she would become an advanced maternal , and even tried her best to get her pregnant and have a baby before marriage. After getting married, she kept saying, "Look, you're over thirty, so don't have children." There is already Lin Lin in this family. If you treat him as your own son, he will be the same when you get older.

If my mother-in-law's words only go so far, and I can still comfort myself, she may be thinking about herself.

But that day when the family was having dinner, they didn’t know what to talk about, but they talked about the inheritance of the stepson’s property. My mother-in-law said directly, my eldest baby will not be short of a house in the future. When he grows up, I will have an apartment, and his dad will have an apartment, which is smaller than your parents' apartment. He has so much, so he definitely won't have to worry.

ha? My parents' house? Why can it also be blamed on the stepson? Xiao Yu was a little unhappy at the time, thinking that her mother-in-law's words sounded full of calculations. Moreover, what if she gave birth to a child? Don’t you have the right to inherit? Why is it that everything belongs to the stepson, so who is she?

However, for the sake of family harmony, Yu Yu did not refute on the spot. After returning to the room, I grabbed my husband and asked him if he had discussed it with his mother-in-law. Don’t you want to have a child so that you can leave everything to your son?

My husband yelled that he was wronged. He thought Mom was just talking nonsense, so he didn't answer. If we have children, we must divide them equally!

was still dissatisfied. At her request, her husband found her mother and asked her to stop talking nonsense in the future. The two of them will definitely have a baby. Why are you talking about these useless things every day?

Maybe my husband's tone was a bit harsh, and my mother-in-law never gave him a good look when she saw Yu Yu.

Later, he criticized Xiao Yu even for trivial matters. Zang Yu couldn't bear it anymore and finally started to talk back.

The mother-in-law made a fuss again and told Yu Xiao that I wanted to leave two houses to my grandson! What's wrong? As an outsider, can you take charge? You don’t even look at yourself, you are already 32, can you give birth? I daydream here every day.

As soon as these words came out, Yu Yu suddenly realized that what her mother-in-law had been saying was true. Not only did she not want to have children of her own, she also planned to leave her property to her grandson. It turns out that everything before the marriage was fake.

Through this incident, Yu Yu completely broke up with her mother-in-law. Although the relationship between her and her husband is not bad, the two of them quarrel every day about their mother-in-law, and their life will definitely be difficult.

Although, to this day, Yu is not divorced, but living in such a family, I don’t think it will last long.

First of all, the mother-in-law only loves her eldest grandson. Even if he had children after he was younger, the old man would probably just be disgusted. Furthermore, Yu's husband is not helpful at all and is completely unable to resolve conflicts every time. Finally, let’s not forget the stepson, the ever-present source of problems.

Stepmother is embarrassed, in my opinion, if you have a choice, don't try it.

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