Do women want to "do well" or "marry well"? Many people's view is: "Marrying well is not as good as doing well." So what kind of person is considered a good marriage? People's answer must be "tall, rich and handsome". "Tall, rich and handsome" refers to three aspects. "Tall" and

Do women want to "do well" or "marry well"? Many people's view is: "It is better to marry well than to do well."

So what kind of person is considered a good marriage?

People's answer must be "tall, rich and handsome".

"Tall, rich and handsome" refers to three aspects. "Tall" and "handsome" mean good appearance, and "rich" means a wealthy family, which is commonly known as "rich".

This is an ideal standard for getting married.

How many people are married and have reached this ideal standard? This cannot be counted.

There are just a lot of people who don't realize this ideal.

The reason is nothing more than:

One, there is no opportunity. Just like Mathilde in Maupassant 's " Necklace ", she is naturally beautiful, but she grew up in a family of small clerks and had no chance to meet rich people, let them love her and marry her. You can only marry a clerk in the Ministry of Education.

Second, marriage is a two-way choice. You can see that you are "tall, rich and handsome" and like someone, but they still think you are not "white, rich and beautiful".

Even if you are also "white, rich and beautiful" and your ideal of marrying "tall, rich and handsome" comes true, who knows what the result will be?

Because everything in the world changes. The existing conditions are also changing, and so are people's hearts. What to do if something changes?

Therefore, it is unreliable to place your happiness in a life on "marrying well" and on a man.

I think women still have to "do well."

Only by "doing well" can they have the chance to "marry well."

Only by "doing a good job" can you not become a man's vassal, and can you achieve personality equality when getting along with men.

took a step back and said that if he was rejected, he would still be able to live a better life.

That's my point, women "have to do a good job".