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In today's society, remarriage is not only the right of young people, more and more elderly people living alone have begun to remarry. In order to avoid conflicts and Unnecessary trouble, many of them choose to live together in name only,
while others value the marriage contract. In order to prevent things that worry each other from happening and minimize the impact on the families of both parties, they will choose to implement it. Made in AA.
Aunt Zhou, 63 years old, retired for 3 years
On my 10th wedding anniversary, he passed away in a car accident because he went out drunk. The child was already quite old by that time. Considering the child’s feelings and fearing that the child would be wronged, I She did not accept the advice of relatives and friends to remarry, but chose to shoulder all the burdens of the family alone. For a woman to support two sons, the difficulty and pain are truly indescribable.
Now when I think about those difficult days, I still feel chills running down my spine. Fortunately, my sons are very up to date. They don’t worry about starting a family and starting a business. They are also very filial to me. They have always encouraged me to find another wife to be with. Life may not be clear to others. As the children who are closest to me, they have witnessed with their own eyes the sadness and grievances that I felt when I was young that no one else would understand.
Although I am close to my sons, they have their own families and their own lives after all. They take care of me financially, but it is difficult for them to provide me with spiritual comfort. After all, they are not in the same age group, but they still have the same relationship. An insurmountable barrier.
My children are not around, and occasional phone calls cannot make up for my spiritual emptiness. Therefore, I often feel lonely and desolate before I choose to get married again.
My remarried wife is a colleague who has worked with me for many years. He has a good personality, but I am particularly disgusted by the fact that he is too obedient to his children.
My children did not have too many obstacles when we got married, but his children were very violent during that period. They always felt that my pension was too low and my economic conditions were not good, which was unfair to their father. In order not to intensify conflicts and arouse suspicion, I agreed to have an AA marriage with my wife.
I always thought that there was no clear distinction between husband and wife, but everything in my married life with my wife was clearly separated. Even many life details have documents kept. Many times, even trivial things have to be separated. It's a long story, it's completely AA, no one took advantage of the other, it seems fair, but I really don't feel good about it.
Husband and wife are the closest people, but because of the details in life, each other's hearts are far away from each other. They only think about themselves in every detail of life. How can they be happy when living in such an environment? I often feel that we are not a couple at all, but two strangers who have been clearly arranged by others.
I talked to my wife about abolishing the AA system. The essence of marriage is to help each other. But every time I brought up this topic, he gave me a silence like still water. He didn’t respond even if I mentioned it too many times, except for helplessness and helplessness. I'm so tired that I can't feel anything else.
I am still living with him now, but our relationship has long since deteriorated, and there is basically nothing to say. If I hadn’t thought too much, I would have ended this meaningless marriage on my own terms. , I remarried to add interest to my life and make me feel happy, rather than to make my life a mess.
In fact, it is really difficult to distinguish between husband and wife, and the meaning of marriage is to help each other and love each other. If you always enter the marriage with the thought of guarding against others, no matter how nice you say it, it will not prevent the marriage from going to the grave. ending.
