In the impression of some elderly people, men cannot do housework. If a man does housework, it loses his dignity. This is the case for Aunt Li in the community.

In the impression of some old people, men cannot do housework. If a man does housework, it loses his dignity. This is the case for Aunt Li in the community.

This morning, my daughter-in-law bought bread, eggs, and milk for breakfast. Her mother-in-law, Aunt Li, said with an unhappy look on her face: A woman must be diligent and get up early to make breakfast every morning. This is not a tradition left by our ancestors. Porridge and noodles are just dry rice and steamed buns. It’s not delicious to spend money on these foreign foods!

The daughter-in-law glared at Aunt Li with dissatisfaction and said: What an old-fashioned person!

Aunt Li also wanted to talk about her daughter-in-law, but her son said: Okay, don’t fight, Mom, you can make whatever you want to eat!

Aunt Li has only one son. It is popular for rural people to buy a house and live in the city when they get married. Her son works in the city. Aunt Li spent all her life to buy a house for her son in the city. One day, she said to her husband, you are looking after the house in the village, and I will live with my son for a while. My daughter-in-law is too lazy. I want to educate her well and go to the city to change the environment and relax.

Aunt Li arrived at her son's house carrying large and small bags of agricultural products. When her daughter-in-law saw it, she said: "It's just some sweet potatoes, potatoes and peppers. You can't buy them anywhere in the city. Look, this bag is so dirty. Throw it away!" Aunt Li: Isn’t there just dirt on the bag? Farmers rely on dirt for their livelihood. What’s so dirty about it? Just a few days after entering the city, I forgot my roots!

Aunt Li was dissatisfied with her daughter-in-law after living in her son's home for a few days. When my daughter-in-law comes back from get off work, she lies down on the sofa and plays with her mobile phone. She doesn't do laundry or cook. Usually her son does the cooking. If the son doesn't cook, he has to order takeout or go to the cake shop at the entrance of the community to buy bread and milk. Aunt Li thinks that eating like this is a waste of money and tastes bad!

Aunt Li said to her son many times in private: I don’t know how your mother taught your daughter-in-law to be so lazy when she was at her parents’ house. You should take more care of her! Also, you are a man. How can a man cook every day? The son hummed absentmindedly and brushed it off.

One day, Aunt Li bought a chicken from outside and asked her daughter-in-law to fry it. The daughter-in-law put the chicken directly into the microwave oven and roasted it. Aunt Li said angrily: If you don't want to fry the chicken, you are too lazy. Now, I wonder what your mother taught you when you were at your parents’ home! The daughter-in-law immediately became angry and said to Aunt Li: If you say I am lazy, just say I am lazy. Why are you talking about my natal family? Aunt Li said: I am an old man, and you should do it!

At this time, the son said to Aunt Li: You said she was lazy, why didn't you fry the chicken yourself? Since you came here, you have often blamed this and that for being bad. If you are not used to being here, go back!

When Aunt Li saw her son talking about herself like this, she was surprised at first, and then said angrily: You rebellious and unfilial thing, you dare to say this to your mother, I'm not welcome, I'm going back!

Aunt Li packed up her things and went back. She angrily told her husband what happened at her son’s house. Her wife said: You are angry, you are asking for it. Young people have a young man’s lifestyle, why should I use you for tens of thousands of dollars? How do you ask young people to meet the standards of an old woman? Stay at home, ignore the affairs of young people, and enjoy a few years of happiness!