When a child grows up, he and his parents are gradually drifting apart.
Especially for my daughter, the description of "throwing water" is exaggerated and inappropriate, but there is a meaning behind it, and it still makes sense. That means that when a daughter grows up, it is not up to her parents.
No matter whether you are happy or sad in your new family, or what your relationship with your husband's family is, you need to manage it yourself.
Of course, the opposite is true as well. If the parents get too involved in their son's new family, it is often not a good thing. Over time, it may even be counterproductive.
In a family in Guangdong, a man complained angrily because he had a quarrel with his wife.
Of course, the people he is suing are not his parents, but his father-in-law and mother-in-law. I was full of grievances and wanted to find someone to talk to.
Judging from the description of the person involved, his wife does not seem to be a woman with a gentle personality. The two of them usually quarrel over trivial matters. Men tend to be at a disadvantage.
Of course, the reason for such a result is not necessarily that the man is a coward, but it may also be that he deliberately gave in to his wife.
But this time the quarrel turned from a verbal dispute into a physical conflict.
As far as fighting itself is concerned, men have a natural advantage, but in conflicts within the family, many women often have the upper hand.
The same is true for the fight between this man and his wife. During the quarrel, the woman scratched the man's face.
The man could bear it and did not beat or kick his wife. Instead, he left his home in a rage and went to his father-in-law's house, hoping that his father-in-law would uphold justice and discipline his daughter.
What he didn't expect was that when he entered the house, before he opened his mouth, he found that his brother-in-law was also there. After asking about it, he found out that his brother-in-law also came to complain and had been living here for four or five days.
Seeing two people sharing a room, the father-in-law had no choice but to go to the kitchen and cook a few side dishes to ease the mood of the two sons-in-law, and then deal with the conflicts within the family.
I file a complaint with my father-in-law and mother-in-law because of a quarrel between my husband and wife. Is this appropriate? Netizens are also talking about this.
Some netizens said that the father-in-law was probably worried because the two sons-in-law came to the door together. What if they both returned the goods? So we can only serve them with delicious food and drinks to stabilize the mood of the "customers".
Some netizens also said that if a daughter is a personal character problem, and both daughters beat their husbands to their own homes to complain, they should reflect carefully and think about whether it is a problem with their parents' education.
Some netizens said that when my husband quarrels, he always likes to argue with my mother. I don’t know what to do with her. The husband and wife should solve their own affairs behind closed doors and let their parents get involved. If they are not careful, they will Big fuss.
Some people say that the trick of complaining is played by children, and that adults solve problems by themselves.
This is how people behave, and married life is actually the same.
No matter what conflict occurs, if you want to solve the problem, you must first understand where the crux is. In the
video, it is obvious that the sisters have bad tempers and often outshine their husbands in life. Although in the final analysis it may be the reason for their original family, as mentioned in the previous article, when the daughter grows up, she cannot help but parents.
Even if you complain to your father-in-law and mother-in-law, all you will get is psychological comfort and will not help solve the problem.
This can be seen from the fact that the man's brother-in-law has been staying for four or five days. As long as the father-in-law and mother-in-law can still manage their daughter, he will not stay home for four or five days and maintain a cold war.
The road to marriage is long. You love someone because of his advantages, but since you are married and living together, you must accept his shortcomings at the same time.
Quarrel is inevitable in marriage. Only when two people gradually work together to solve the problem can it be preserved for a long time, instead of seeking outside help whenever there is a conflict.
